Sorry for the delay. Not trying to be annoying.
I agree that there is absolutely an issue with men putting on a dress and makeup and saying they are a women. However, I have recently come across a lovely man, who actually does just that and asked a shop if he was allowed to use the women's toilet (it's a single toilet) and they said yes and he was genuinely pleased. I didn't really see any harm in that? But I definitely feel like people on here would.
I actually used to think transgender (in teens/kids) was more about stereotypes and how society is - boys can't wear dresses, etc. or it was just that they were unhappy during puberty.
Then I figured to myself. If I was extremely overweight and lost it and had loose skin (and wanted to wear a bikini) there would be no reason I couldn't (just like a man could wear a dress) but I'd feel extremely uncomfortable. Removing that skin, as an example, would make it easier to do what I wanted to do. I'm not trying to say it's similar to someone who is transgender, but I'm just trying to understand how it makes sense in my head, even if they do say "I have always been into dresses and makeup".
I feel like Mumsnet thinks all transgender (I've actually seen people say this) - transgender females are men wanting to hurt real women and transgender males are women who realise that men are seen as superior in the world and want that.
I don't know. I do agree with the safe spaces issues, etc. but if someone wanted to be a cat, so had surgery to be as similar as possible and had it changed on their passport, etc. I could give a shit, so it seems odd to me why people do or assume men are doing it to hurt women.