...and she waved it at me, so I said "Right you're supposed to have a chat about your wishes with your family." She, continuing to waggle it, says "This is me telling you about my wishes". So I said "Okay, but have you thought about your womb and the trans thing?"
Turns out she doesn't want a man using her womb after her death.
So that's fine, but it made me think; should we all be stipulating this in writing to the organ donor organisation?