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BBC debates women's safety - without any women

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TheXXFactor · 10/02/2018 11:41

This is getting the pasting it deserves on Twitter- fucking outrageous Angry link

BBC debates women's safety - without any women
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Ouchbirthhurted · 26/02/2018 16:20

Yes worth listening to, recommend.

Collidascope · 26/02/2018 16:16

That is interesting, Mouth. I assumed it was either something that didn't fit with their agenda, or Lees had said something so batshit crazy that even they couldn't justify keeping it up. Given the batshit craziness they are happy to publish, I couldn't even begin to imagine what that would look like. Maybe just 'trans women are women' written over and over again in poo or blood.

holycheeseplant · 26/02/2018 15:29

That's really interesting, thanks for the update.

I may listen to it now actually. It sounds like the title was misleading?

Mouthandtrousersall · 26/02/2018 15:00

Lees responded to Nick on that subject by saying he was not pushing for a change to the law. He just wanted children not to be bullied. And that his mum now thinks if only she had let him wear a dress as a kid it would all have been different. So Pink News are going to take down ambiguity like that cos it undermines the black is white dogma.

Collidascope · 26/02/2018 14:40

Paris wrote an article on Pink News after this interview, grumbling about how "Nick made me feel interrogated and when I objected to this he informed me that as someone pushing for a change in the law, I have questions to answer." Interestingly, that article seems to have been deleted. There are still links to it but it's gone. I do wonder why.

Mouthandtrousersall · 26/02/2018 14:33

Robinson would not say he thought Lees was a woman in this broadcast. Lees pushed him to say how he would introduce him and Nick danced around it deliberately. Lees finally asked if he was coming to a dinner at Nick's house, what would he say to his friends and Nick waffled about saying something out of courtesy. So Nick was not going to say Lees is a woman if he could avoid it. Cos of course Lees is a man!

Ouchbirthhurted · 26/02/2018 13:55

But great you wrote in and thanks for sharing. I thought the way it was introduced was hugely biased for the above reasons, but the actual interview clearly well researched with some good questions.

Ouchbirthhurted · 26/02/2018 13:53

I don't think there is a brink. Some people seem to believe transwomen are women, others don't. Under specific circumstances in current law (post op ir drs viewpoint) a transwoman can be legally recognised as female. This was based on specific human rights issues including right to marry as at the time same sex marriage was not legal.

Worth raising with the BBC that 'trans women are women' is a belief and they have not been very good at getting across what others think or why this matters.

YogaDrone · 26/02/2018 13:22

Sorry to resurrect this but I have received the BBC response to my complaint today:

"Thank you for contacting us about ‘Political Thinking with Nick Robinson’ broadcast on 9 February.

The interview with Paris Lees had not specifically been scheduled to coincide with the centenary of the Representation of the People Act, but the timing of this edition of Political Thinking meant it was appropriate to discuss the interview within the context of changing attitudes in society towards the rights of different groups.

Paris Lees had recently been prominently featured in UK Vogue magazine as one of the ‘New Suffragettes’ and it is fair to say that many people see a link between trans rights and women’s rights. Paris Lees, a journalist and transgender activist was on the programme to discuss her experience of being a trans woman and her views on how the media discusses trans issues. The interview was intended to explore changes in the way some people think about gender and explore what the political and social implications of that could be.

The format of the podcast is for Nick to have a long one on one conversation with an invited guest, and this has been the format for this season of the show. The aim of the podcast is not to be a head to head debate but instead an opportunity to hear from politicians and activists about their wider beliefs, motivations, experiences and political goals, whilst still probing their positions and ideas when required.

There were several issues raised during the Paris Lees programme. This was a lively interview, in which Nick repeatedly challenged Ms Lees on several points, and put to her arguments made by those who don’t agree with her views on these issues. It wasn’t necessary to have someone on to counter Ms Lees’ opinions, as Nick robustly scrutinised the points she made, and reflected some of the concerns being raised in the public debate on trans rights.

In fact, when the interview ended, Ms Lees took issue with Nick on the manner in which he had “interrogated” her. We included this conversation in the podcast as we believe it further highlighted the different perspectives on how the issue of trans rights should be discussed, and gave an insight into the process of conducting the interview. "

Is it my imagination or is there a glimmer of hope here? There is an obvious demarcation of transwoman and woman in this reply. They say "explore changes in the way some people think about gender" and clearly say that Paris Lees is a transwoman and not a woman.

Could the BBC, or at least some elements of it, be stepping back from the brink?

Datun · 20/02/2018 21:27

OP, here is the BBC reporting a crime committed by a man. The headline saying it was a woman, is completely unnecessary and misleading.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/amp/uk-england-london-43127415?twitterimpression=true

littlebillie · 20/02/2018 21:16

This was on Paris' feed I though how true

BBC debates women's safety - without any women
LondonPainter · 20/02/2018 20:33

I finally caught up with this today. I'd been avoiding it as I find Paris objectionable, but it really highlights what an easy ride he is usually given during interviews. Nick quotes Debbie Hayton asking "if anybody can define as a woman, then what is a woman?" and Paris just dismisses this as "boring".

Paris gets riled. Very interesting. I can see why he has not promoted this podcast on his own Twitter feed.

bangkokhilton · 15/02/2018 19:35

I've nearly finished listening to this podcast and have struggled to understand what is going on in this interview. PL doesn't answer questions just asks more questions in reply (in a very antagonist way) and uses being offended to deflect answering any serious questions. It's impossible to follow (for me anyway) & PL throws about all sorts of stats which I would like someone to challenge her on. All I can gather is that she thinks that anyone who says they are a woman (or presumably a man?) should be believed and that this is already happening and the self ID won't change anything (can't see what all the fuss is about) just speed things up...

Has PL fully transitioned or is she still "with penis"?

I am fully down the rabbit hole with all of this stuff. The mind boggles!

Should I be concerned that a trans friend of mine (man but likes dressing up/make up etc) has been liking PL's instagram posts? I am worried he may be support of the TRA logic but have not dared to bring this up in conversation...

TheXXFactor · 12/02/2018 21:26

I think some of her views are pretty silly and/or reprehensible, but I also feel that way about Nadine Dorries and I'm expected to share a toilet with her

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thebewilderness · 12/02/2018 21:12

If those who listened were to send the BBC rebuttal in the form of print outs from This Never Happens.com I wonder if they would consider having honest people come on to discuss national issues.

ReluctantCamper · 12/02/2018 11:28

Just listened to it. Was trying to do some work at the same time, but around 30 mins in I just had to put my pen down and really listen.

Initially I found myself warming to PL. It does help that she sounds just like my Mum and Auntie as we come from Nottingham. And she did cut quite a sympathetic character when talking about her early experiences. I've no doubt that she has gender dysphoria which is eased by being seen and treated as a woman. I've also no doubt that her understanding of what that means is quite different to mine.

Ironically, under the old honour system I'd probably have no problem with her identifying as a woman, using women's facilities etc. I would think she'd pass very easily. I think some of her views are pretty silly and/or reprehensible, but I also feel that way about Nadine Dorries and I'm expected to share a toilet with her.

It was also clear that she doesn't actually really support self ID.

However when NR started asking some serious questions the mask slipped rather. It was frustrating to hear her cite totally untrue facts unchallenged (countries where self ID is already in place have no problems - OH RLY?), but I think this pod cast was a good thing. Anyone listening with an open mind would have picked up very quickly on how weak the arguments for self ID are.

BUT now NR needs to balance by interviewing the mighty Karen Ingala-Smith or similar. I'd really like to see how she does against a similar grilling. I'd love to hear our arguments tested in public.

AngryAttackKittens · 11/02/2018 09:00

Paris Lees is far too old to be acting like a petulant teenager. Maybe he thinks that's what women are like. In any case, even if we were to pretend that he's a woman his opinions on harassment etc are so far out of step with most women's that he'd be the wrong person to ask about this stuff even if you were 100% determined to pretend he was a woman. It's like asking someone from UKIP to represent the average immigrant's views on immigration.

thebewilderness · 11/02/2018 07:26

Men already do dress up as women to hide cameras in changing rooms and to wand in the women's loo.
Under the new rules they won't need to sneak any more. Any man who identifies as trans will have unfettered access to women's changing rooms and loos.

OlennasWimple · 11/02/2018 00:59

I'm not sure that you will have that reaction, Datun. I didn't.

The person who decided to promote the podcast with such a misleading tweet should be shot - it's far more about PL than about the specific issue of women's safe spaces.

Personally I find PL kinda fascinating, and I agree with him on certain things (like Brexit!). But also problematic for all the obvious reasons.

NR is a more robust interviewer than PL is used to and it shows.

Datun · 10/02/2018 23:37

OlennasWimple

Datun - have you listened to the podcast? It's worth it, actually.

No, I haven't. And I probably shouldn't have commented without listening.

I do, generally, always read links and see exactly what an opening post is all about. But on this particular occasion, I knew that Lees would drive me so mad that I decided to forego the experience.

I've noticed, of late, that I am becoming more reluctant to expose myself to what transactivists say publically on TV/radio/in the press.

I can see, with such clarity, how they are misleading and hoodwinking people, that my frustration levels go into the stratosphere.

The lies, the twisting, the arrogance and self interest are sometimes just too difficult to swallow.

And Lees is one of the worst, for me.

I think I will keep it in my back pocket, as something to possibly watch later, when I need a fresh injection of righteous fury!

Everyonematters · 10/02/2018 22:38

Also totally agree with this:

What was interesting was how this was totally personal to PL. Zero interest in society, justice, women's rights - all about wanting their own validation and rights. Totally self absorbed.

And Lang Cleg's response here:

It's why older, experienced women recognise it so well. It's identical to the modus operandi of the domestic abusers or potential domestic abusers older women have either had to escape or learned how to avoid before ending up having to escape.

I haven't personally experienced domestic abuse but I know how to spot a penis-owner without women's best interests in mind a mile off. You can smell it.

Everyonematters · 10/02/2018 22:33

Having listened to it, I actually think NR did a pretty good job. He had a good grasp of a lot of key points, asked about transphobia and prisons. There were quite a few things that didn't get picked up - eg inaccuracies about Paris's claims about the law etc but as an interviewer you can't pick up everything and it is complicated. This is an interview slot so wouldn't have a balancing voice - it comes down to the interviewer to provide that. Although agree would be good to have a balance with another interview with someone who is gender critical, and/or perhaps a transwoman on the other side of the debate. Who are our best spokespeople?

I thought the tweets that introduced it were the main issue - describing Paris as a woman and like a suffragette when a. She isn't legally, without a GRC and b. Describing her that way is basically accepting the premise of the argument many are challenging. Also setting it up as a discussion around women's safety rather than an interview with a transactivist.

Did anyone else noticed Paris basically saying she thought the whole Self-ID thing was basically a bad idea but she thought they had to follow through now?

TheGoalIsToStayOutOfTheHole · 10/02/2018 19:51

On a twitter thread about this I saw someone saying that its amazing that transwomen are getting say in this rather than women. Then someone saying women need a voice as its to do with their rights being removed. Then the first person saying women do have a voice and get to give opinions, as Paris got to give their opinion and Paris is a woman

So yet again a case of transwomen are transwomen when it suits, but also double up as women when it suits Hmm

hipsterfun · 10/02/2018 19:32

It’s a pity that it’ll be a few years before they realise the flags they’re waving ought to be red ones.

LangCleg · 10/02/2018 19:24

What was interesting was how this was totally personal to PL. Zero interest in society, justice, women's rights - all about wanting their own validation and rights. Totally self absorbed.

All the TRAs are like this. They literally cannot conceive of another perspective than their own. They cannot conceive of other people (especially women) having their own inner lives. You can't converse with them because they aren't talking to you: they're talking to a reflection of themselves in the mirror. Any words from you that aren't solely about validating them will be perceived as an attack. Narcissistic supply is their obsession and the tiniest refusal to give it results in a huge tantrum of narcissistic injury.

It's why older, experienced women recognise it so well. It's identical to the modus operandi of the domestic abusers or potential domestic abusers older women have either had to escape or learned how to avoid before ending up having to escape.

I feel for the young women who haven't learned these lessons of patriarchy yet and are flag-waving for these abusive men. Time and experience will show them the mistakes they are making.

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