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Feminists who are Lord Peter fans......

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BertrandRussell · 06/02/2018 19:56

I just noticed this reference to domestic violence in Busman’s Honeymoon.
“"O-o-oh! I do hope he won't be violent."

"Violent?" said Harriet, half amused and half angry. "Oh, I shouldn't think so."

But alarm is infectious...and much-tried men have been known to vent their exasperation upon their[Pg 330] servants. The two women clung together, waiting for the explosion.

"Well," said the distant voice, "all I can say is, Bunter, don't let it happen again.... All right.... Good God, man, you needn't tell me that ...of course you didn't.... We'd better go and view the bodies."

The sounds died away, and the women breathed more freely. The dreadful menace of male violence lifted its shadow from the house”

Aren’t those last two sentences chilling?

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HelenDenver · 07/02/2018 14:11

Which one did you read, Carefully?

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 13:26

I think it's intellectual snobbery rather than straight classism - she's broadly sympathetic to anyone with a desire to think deeply, read widely and aim to 'better themselves'.

(I was terrified of being found out as an intellectual lightweight at university and having some shrewd middle-aged Dean kindly tell me that I had a 'small, summery kind of brain with the staying power of a mayfly'...)

CarefullyDrawnMap · 07/02/2018 13:22

I shouldn't be commenting on this thread because I've only read one, so just ignore me, but I'm interested and kind of thinking out loud.

The classism is spectacular, yes. Even bearing in mind the time she was writing, and that characters are characters and not the author, I thought there was so much author coming through, intrusively, and I didn't like her. I don't need to like characters in a book or find them sympathetic, and am happy reading many books with views very much of their time. But there was something so jarring and unpleasant to me about this author's voice, but there is so much love for these books and I feel confused by my reaction. Maybe I came to them too old. For example, I read a Monica Dickens book called Marianne when I was about 11 and liked it, but reading it now I see classism and sexism I didn't at the time, yet still find it a cosy, comfort read and can set those things aside.

Sorry to ramble unhelpfully on an interesting thread.

tobee · 07/02/2018 13:21

Sorry, I meant contemporary readers, not friends.

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 13:19

Sayers lived with (? not sure) and had a son with a lover who was possibly a bit below her intellectual level.

Back to Busman's Honeymoon -- I think little Miss Twitterton was probably quite frightened of both her cow-hand father and her nasty-tempered uncle. She probably took it out on the chickens.

tobee · 07/02/2018 13:05

I'd love to know, without prejudice of 21st eyes, how Sayers appeared to her contemporaries. Exactly how shocking or not that Harriet had lived with her lover in Strong Poison etc. And how Annie Wilson was seen at the time.

BertrandRussell · 07/02/2018 12:56

She is, in some ways very much of the time. The fascination comes from the ways in which she isn’t. The classism is particulaly spectacular- but it’s interesting to see how Peter is seen by many of his relations as embarrassingly non class conscious- what with the Rumms as wedding guests and being friends with Parker and encouraging him to marry Mary. It’s the depiction of working class country people that grates most for me. And the least said about the Scots in Five Red Herrings the better!

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EmpressOfJurisfiction · 07/02/2018 12:34

I noticed a bit in The Nine Tailors when I re-read it recently, about Mary Thoday, whose first husband was a bastard but whose second is portrayed positively.

"He guessed her to be about forty, though, as is frequently the case with country women, she had lost most of her front teeth and looked older."

It's slipped in so casually.

InvisibleUnicorn · 07/02/2018 12:25

I have found my thread ☺️

There were all those letters as well that were published in war time. I want to read them!

gnushoes · 07/02/2018 12:25

Back to the Busman's Holiday quote - I'd always noticed it too. But the context is that the woman clutching Harriet was older, unmarried, and had been led on by the murderer (not a nice man) who later in the book completely humiliated her. She might have had every reason to be scared of men. Think it's also written in a pretty ironic way - the "explosion" is about bottles of wine which have been shaken up...

CarefullyDrawnMap · 07/02/2018 12:05

Interesting. I read Gaudy Nights recently because I'd seen it recommended on here. I hated it. I thought it was full of the most horrible attitudes from women towards other women, and did not find it at all enjoyable.

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 11:12

Thank you!

I now need a plane ticket to Illinois and a plausible excuse for going and reading just those fragments, in order to have her voice back in my ear.

BertrandRussell · 07/02/2018 11:10

Such a shame she got side tracked onto bloody Dante. Who needs Dante!

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HelenDenver · 07/02/2018 10:54

Found it! Sounds even more fragmented than I remembered.

www.greenbay.co.uk/books/folio.html

HelenDenver · 07/02/2018 10:49

Me too, Lancelottie. I tried to google and find out once. IIRC, DLS wrote the first six chapters or so and left notes and the odd bit of drafting for the rest.

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 10:47

I would also like to see Miss de Vine's take on the current 'forcing oneself into appropriate feelings'. A propos of nothing in particular, of course.

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 10:45

I would love to read just the bits DLS wrote in Thrones, Dominations. I doubt she wrote the tosh about sitting stiffly at opposite ends of the table, for one.

Betcha she did write the line in which Peter says he's callening his child Kerenhappuch, and the one in which the elderly relative eyes Harriet and says, unexpectedly, 'Good girl.'

HelenDenver · 07/02/2018 09:51

"She's very sound on sexual consent."

Agree. Which is why...

..the discussion about the victim in T,D annoys me; I believe that DLS wrote the first third or so and I really don't think her LPW/Parker would've been so... dismissive.

HelenDenver · 07/02/2018 09:49

I think the 'riding rough-shod' bit was self-criticism from Harriet re 'overthinking' - unable to trust her feelings, she was trying to make the intellectual case for marriage/celibacy and was tired of being trapped and indecisive.

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 08:41

Oh yes, Mrs Grimethorpe! And come to that, the other driving-a-chap-wild woman in the same book. Clearly not quite the same species as your decently reserved and intellectual English woman.

Lancelottie · 07/02/2018 08:39

No, you haven’t, but the context means that English makes sense, I think:
‘I have now completely given myself away. No English vocabulary. No other Englishwoman.’
Or something like that.

BertrandRussell · 07/02/2018 08:38

It's all a strange mixture, isn't it. The extraordinary snobbery, the cast of hilarious working class characters coupled with the sensitive and really modern writing about sexual consent, the problematic nature of marriage and the depiction of women living free and independent lives. And that breathtaking cameo of Mrs Grimethorpe......

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Gruach · 07/02/2018 08:19

It was the 'no English woman' thing that stuck in my craw ...

(Hope I'm not mis-remembering.)

Gruach · 07/02/2018 08:16

(approximately, as I can't find the book): Flowers

But yeah, wot meditrina said.

HairyBallTheorem · 07/02/2018 08:03

Good point, Med - though there's also that odd little exchange when they're in bed together "Did you just call me 'my lord'? Two words I never thought I'd get a kick out of." I wonder, was there a hint in Sayers' personality of perhaps being a bit like the sort of woman I've talked to occasionally, both on here and in RL, who is totally in control in their working and outside of bed lives, and finds it relaxing to be a sub in bed because it's "time off" from being in control?