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Can I join you? The BBC made me peak!

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Ohyesihavepeaked · 04/02/2018 09:31

Hi all.
I was on mumsnet years ago before the who data breach geoff thing. I left and vowed never to return. I never looked at the feminism pages but in the last 12 months I began to lurk. I can't remember what it was that brought me here.
Anyway - I am like a lot of people a very accepting person. I didn't ever question the trans narrative because I likened it to the homophobia of the past. But then I read, I thought and then I read some more and I realised that a debate very much needs to be had about the trans issues. I have been provided with so much information and considered reasoning from you lot - especially Datun - what a legend!
I have read all the links, watched the videos, followed twitter feeds and I have been close to peak trans for a while. I resisted rejoining mumsnet because I didn't see the point and was worried about security because of last time. I 100% can not speak publicly about this because of my job. But I can take it no more and I need to vent.

The BBC video someone else mentioned today is what has finally tipped me over the edge. I have just sent off my complaint to the BBC and I have re-registered to tell someone, anyone that OH YES. I HAVE PEAKED!.

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ChattyLion · 08/11/2018 20:57

www.bbc.co.uk/news/world-us-canada-46142226

ChattyLion · 08/11/2018 20:57

BBC article about Ruth Bader Ginsburg’s recent fall .. in the final para they can’t even get sex and gender right when it’s spelt out for them in the name of a film! Shock

‘She [RBG] is the subject of both a recent documentary, RBG, and a forthcoming feature film, On the Basis of Sex, in which she is played by actress Felicity Jones. The feature film is about a landmark Supreme Court case in which Ms Ginsburg argued for fathers' rights and against gender discrimination.’

Hmm

What do the BBC think gender discrimination is??

MajesticWhine · 04/02/2018 14:30

Will watch that video if I can take the stress. My DDs think I’m transphobic and obsessed. DH has peaked though, over the refuge nonsense in the paper today.

CorbynTrouserPress · 04/02/2018 14:30

Whichever one you're offering, Hawkeye

HawkeyeInConfusion · 04/02/2018 14:20

Old proper Toblerones or the new ones with all the chocolate missing?

CorbynTrouserPress · 04/02/2018 14:10

By the sigil of the Toblerone shall ye know us!

DragonNoodleCake · 04/02/2018 14:00

Maresedotes yes! I wish my 18 YO DD would read some of this. She's said she thinks I'm being transphobic because I'm on the same page as the rest of you 'now'

Popchyk · 04/02/2018 13:58

Ugh. Just watched it - will complain.

I will ask them to do a companion piece entitled "What Defines You As A Man?" and to make sure that the majority of the people interviewed are not male.

And then another piece entitled "What Defines You As A Black Man?" and ensure that the majority of the people talking about it are neither black nor men.

Fairenuff · 04/02/2018 13:56

My dd is blindly accepting of letting anyone be whoever they want to be.

When I talk of the risks to women she just says 'You always bring that up. Let's just agree to disagree'.

It's become ingrained in her culture already and being 21 she doesn't have the wisdom to see beyond tolerance, inclusive and acceptance which is the young people are raised these days.

Mirrormirrorotw · 04/02/2018 13:47

I too until recently had stayed out of the debate. I reached peak trans a couple of weeks back. I fear for my daughter’s future.

UpstartCrow · 04/02/2018 13:40

Ohyesihavepeaked
why did they interview a trans man? By the trans ideology that so many follow blindly, a trans man is a man. So why were they included in a video about who or what defines you as a woman. He's a man right? No? Yes? How can such muddled thinking be accepted by so many? It makes NO sense.

I didnt even think about that. I guess I dont see trans men as men.

terryleather · 04/02/2018 13:39

Where the power & money lies shows you how much the establishment really believe women can become men i.e. not at all.

The fact that a TIF with a GRC can still not inherit a title etc because the laws on primogeniture were exempt or become a priest, tells you all you need to know about that...

HawkeyeInConfusion · 04/02/2018 13:38

The thing that made me first sit up and take notice was a thread on here about the trans agenda and its implications for girls on the autistic spectrum.

As a child I wanted to be a boy. As a teenager I felt more affiliation with boys - we had more in common, more similar interests, more we could talk about. I struggled with small talk with girls because I wasn't into fashion, make-up, celebrity crushes. Turns out I was on the spectrum but I didn't know at the time (or for many years afterwards) and that is quite typical for girls with ASD. In today's climate I'd probably be pushed to labelling myself trans. I may have opted for drug therapy. And I wouldn't have had the chance to grow up to be the person I am - a woman, with some non-gender-typical (if that's the word) interests. And I probably wouldn't have my DC who I adore because the medication could have made sterile. It's chilling.

Ekphrasis · 04/02/2018 13:32

Oh it's very one sided and incomplete.

There's been a few threads on this this morning; I posted this on the first I saw (nativitydiaper's)

It didn't mention prisons I noticed. So someone with a penis could be in a prison. Someone who has committed sex offences, as per the recent case.

It was a black and white argument. At least whoever the TW was said they didn't feel it was appropriate to call women bigots for wanting to talk about this, but there was really only Linda speaking for the women and no younger women talking about it. This gives the unconscious feeling it's out of date to think GRA is wrong.

It didn't include any TiMs who felt it was wrong.

Ohyesihavepeaked · 04/02/2018 13:27

Thanks for the welcome everyone.
I just wanted to point out something else that has annoyed me about that film. They interviewed a trans woman and a trans man and only one woman. Sorry it was two trans women. Anyway, why did they interview a trans man? By the trans ideology that so many follow blindly, a trans man is a man. So why were they included in a video about who or what defines you as a woman. He's a man right? No? Yes? How can such muddled thinking be accepted by so many? It makes NO sense.

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SchrodingersFrilledLizard · 04/02/2018 13:18

This is the complaints link www.bbc.co.uk/complaints.

ChattyLion · 04/02/2018 13:17

BBC do pay a lot of attention to public feedback, it’s in their governance, always worth getting in touch with them.

ChattyLion · 04/02/2018 13:15

BBC comments form for registering your views

ssl.bbc.co.uk/faqs/forms?contact=feedback

HawkeyeInConfusion · 04/02/2018 13:12

I've just written a complaint to the BBC about that article. I'm not expecting it to make any difference.

SchrodingersFrilledLizard · 04/02/2018 13:10

Welcome back, op.

I agree. Datun is fabulous.

And it is thanks to MN that I have a much better understanding of feminism and trans issues. Thank you, everyone at MN, for your helpful contributions!

terryleather · 04/02/2018 13:08

Thinking about it I probably peak every day, it just never seems to stop.

I think my original one was when the Hollywood actress Martha Plimpton was organising an event for reproductive rights called Night Of A Thousand Vaginas and was absolutely leathered by TAs/SJW for being "cissexist and bioreductionist".

I remember that I just couldn't get my head around this at all - women were not to talk about actual things that actually affected them because it was offensive, especially in a country where women's reproductive rights were and still are under seige.

It just blew my mind that something so important that affected so many women was to be rubbished and cast aside because of feelz.

I think that happened in 2014 and it makes me want to weep that it's got so much worse since then.

The only light I see is that more women seem to be peaking at a faster rate, so welcome all and pay it foward - peak trans a friend today!

OvaHere · 04/02/2018 12:57

I find myself increasingly thinking of this sketch in the wake of so much ridiculous reporting and trampling over women's rights and lives.

LonginesPrime · 04/02/2018 12:55

Yes, Fairenuff, I agree.

No-one talked about what they felt defines them as a woman (although one trans man seemed to touch on the question at the end). It was just about who defines them - feel quite miffed by such a disingenuous and clickbaity title on the BBC.

hipsterfun · 04/02/2018 12:48

It might be grasping at straws, but I too wonder if the Beeb are feigning credulousness in order to peak trans people by stealth.

It seems utterly incredible that so many intelligent people could be failing to apply any critical thinking whatsoever.

areyoufuckingcrazy · 04/02/2018 12:46

Nice though that thought is Natural, I think it's more likely they've downed the Kool-Aid.