Most people have never even heard of the word cis.
And if you read any mainstream media below the line comments about this issue, you will see the general public saying things along the lines of
Oh, not this again.
Why are we pandering to such minority.
Do what you like, but stop shoving it down our throats.
From people who have no idea about the legal impact, or how misogynistic this ideology has become. They are simply fed up with hearing about it.
So the day someone is referred to as a cis woman or a cis man, in public and, upon questioning it, is told it's because they're not trans, is the day this will explode.
There is no way people will accept being renamed something in relation to, and entirely dependent upon, a minority that they are already sick of hearing about.
Like most women, I am not prepared to be renamed, in order that men who identify as women can claim my original name.
As to the rest of your post, there was a thread started here a while ago which broke down the various component parts of the ideology.
It might be useful, if you think there are gaps in your knowledge?
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3145470-Break-it-down-for-me