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So now there is a K (for Kink) in the LGBTQIACHKP+

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AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 30/01/2018 21:49

www.thegayuk.com/there-is-now-a-k-in-lgbtqqicapf2k/

And the commenters in this mag not too pleased about it

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MrsTerryPratchett · 31/01/2018 02:19

We have 2S in ours. Two-spirited for First Nations.

AngryAttackKittens · 31/01/2018 01:17

Allow me to introduce you to the living encapsulation of "queer kinky sex positive feminism". Also known as, a married woman who thinks her relationship with her husband is queer because, um, short dyed hair?

www.ohjoysextoy.com/bdsm/

Not safe for work, obviously. Or for impressionable young people who might try to use it as a life guide.

womanhuman · 31/01/2018 01:13

bossy, confused could probably be Questioning so you’re covered.

Does this K cover K between two committed het partners? Do fluffy pink handcuffs or reading 50 Shades qualify for joining the LGBT+ soc now?

Ereshkigal · 31/01/2018 00:26
Grin
doctorcuntybollocks · 30/01/2018 22:44

Having sex with the light on probably counts as Queer.

Ereshkigal · 30/01/2018 22:42

Also, can I be a K on the grounds of being an OTEV as in 'open to experimenting vanilla' type then?

Pretty sure you can. Heterosexual? Self obsessed? Have blue hair or a pair of pink fluffy handcuffs? You too can be part of the queer movement!

BossyBitch · 30/01/2018 22:36

I'm definitely an F, S and C in the LGBTQABCDEFGHIJKLMNOPQRSTUVWXYZ+, as in Female, Straight and most definitely massively Confused at this point, despite multiple degrees and a successful professional career. Confused

I genuinely do try and keep up and make and effort not to be a bigot, but I'm quite frankly not willing to invest 8+ hours a week. It's a work-life-balance thing.

Also, can I be a K on the grounds of being an OTEV as in 'open to experimenting vanilla' type then?

OvaHere · 30/01/2018 22:33

I've not seen kinkphobia used yet (I'd bet quite a lot of money I will soon) but kink shaming is definitely a phrase chucked around a lot. Usually against women who want to point out abuse tactics.

Ereshkigal · 30/01/2018 22:26

This is the title of an actual study:

Comparison of Self-Identified Minor-Attracted Persons Who Have and Have Not Successfully Refrained From Sexual Activity With Children

No comment.

Original poster
AssignedPuuurfectAtBirth · 30/01/2018 22:25

And this is Kink.

www.glamour.com/story/a-to-z-kinks-and-fetishes

How did I get to middle age without knowing this crap. Admittedly I stopped reading when I reached 'arousal by enemas'.

aggghhhhdddddddidnyseeit

Will there be Kinkphobia, do you think?

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thebewilderness · 30/01/2018 22:22

Since the trans identified males too over leadership of all LGB organizations it has been all abusers all the time.

OvaHere · 30/01/2018 22:21

Wtaf have we done to this up and coming generation that made them this blindly and self righteously destructive?

We gave them the internet.

OvaHere · 30/01/2018 22:18

I think it's more likely to an M for minor attracted people. I've seen that phrase used frequently on sites like reddit. It smacks of more Newspeak designed to obscure reality.

Myunicornfliessideways · 30/01/2018 22:18

Well that alphabet soup means that the only remaining people it doesn't include are an endangered species, consisting of a small group of totally heterosexual, exclusively vanilla, committed couples with no friends or family. We probably ought to set up an enclosure for them quick at Whipsnade Zoo.

Basically - like feminism - what started out as a movement focused on a specific small group supporting each other and seeking equal rights and did so successfully for decades, has been recently and rapidly made so inclusive and so focused on ostentatious virtue signalling that it no longer achieves or stands for anything comprehensible at all.

Wtaf have we done to this up and coming generation that made them this blindly and self righteously destructive?

AngryAttackKittens · 30/01/2018 22:04

Yep! I'm the B and don't much appreciate the acronym turning into "assorted perverts grouped here".

They'll eventually try to add another P for pedophile, just wait.