The fundamental conflict:
Why can a man assert he is NOT a man like other men
but
a woman is not allowed to assert she is NOT like that man
Even whilst the whole world observes that her claim has an obvious merit that his lacks?
Either we ALL have the right to say "I am NOT like you" and evidence this, or NONE of us should have it.
I want the right to say "I AM NOT LIKE A TRANSWOMAN" and have society accept that unequivocal truth