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Bluestocking lock in!

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QuentinSummers · 29/01/2018 22:00

Posted a whole thing on the last thread and it was locked!

Last thread here
www.mumsnet.com/Talk/womens_rights/3062013-The-Bluestocking-is-open-for-business
Here's my post replying to Moth
Thats an interesting article moth. Best not on the board or MRAs would be all over it!
I was wondering today, hopefully, if the news about darts getting rid of the girls means the overton window is shifting and maybe p0rn will become less acceptable?
If not all this hooha about F1 girls and the presidents club is just tinkering on the edges.

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Riverside2 · 04/03/2018 20:32

blimey Rufus, the way you've phrased that I can't tell which is worse!!

Sorry you've read something horrible.

the world is odd. My Twitter feed flagged a photo of elephants as "sensitive material" and I had to be sure I wanted to click on it!!!

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 04/03/2018 20:21

Someone made me read on another thread and now im a bit distressed

Its not 'what' i read...more the fact i had to read it

And dh wants to watch dirty dancing

Riverside2 · 04/03/2018 20:11

Thanks Quentin, I will save it for another night

I put Taylor Swift's "Reputation" on and whizzed through all my tasks, yay! I owe a lot of motivational energy to Taylor Swift! As well as commute survival....

QuentinSummers · 04/03/2018 20:05

10 cloverfield lane is very creepy, I liked it though, John Goodman is great in it

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Riverside2 · 04/03/2018 18:34

random boring announcement - I've had a protein bar and I feel better now. I think I didn't realise I'd worked out quite so hard today!! though I probably should have guessed when I hoovered up lunch like the aardvark in those old Pink Panther cartoons.

Riverside2 · 04/03/2018 18:29

Sophocles, not really, I'd just have the same amount of stuff in a bigger space.

I'm not someone who would look at a big space and want to fill it up with things, I'm not the type. But working a lot from home, having overnight visitors and all the bed linen etc....and I have one of those galley kitchens where you can only stick your arms out, and that is combined with the lounge....oh to be 10 years older and have had access to flats at less than half the price.

I recorded 10 Cloverfield Lane last night, maybe I'll watch that and see if I have motivation afterwards.....never seen it, heard very mixed reviews.

SophoclesTheFox · 04/03/2018 18:07

'lo everyone Grin Sorry I've not been by in a while!

I am currently sitting on the sofa with a glass of claret while my lovely Nigel cooks me sunday roast with all the trimmings. Mmmm.

More space just means more stuff to clean, river!

Riverside2 · 04/03/2018 17:56

feeling weirdly bored and irritable and like I can't settle to anything....not sure why.

have a bunch of cleaning that needs doing and should ideally be doing food for tonight and tomorrow.....

I need to do it because it's a small flat and it gets on my nerves when it's not tidy! What I wouldn't give for more space.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 03/03/2018 21:16

Sont...dont

Fuck sake

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 03/03/2018 21:16

40's is early Grin

Im 48 and quite grey...but my hair is very short so most people sont notice

Though i do get

'Your hair isnt grey you must dye it'

'No it is grey...look'

'Oh yes...your hair is really grey, look at Rufus's hair, its really grey'

And then im all Hmm

QuentinSummers · 03/03/2018 21:03

His is orange though?
GrinGrin
Errr it's not really early. I am just in age denial. (Am in my 40s)

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 03/03/2018 21:02

Having grey hair early is obviously a mistake of nature

Like trump

QuentinSummers · 03/03/2018 21:00

Brilliant thank you rufus
Today I am annoyed because I coloured my hair and a) my grey is dye resistant and b) my husband said I was betraying my feminist principles. Huh.

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Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 03/03/2018 20:59

quentin

Can i suggest kettlewell colours as somewhere for long sleeved tops

whitehandledkitchenknife · 02/03/2018 22:40

Ooh, it's lovely and warm in here. Liking the woodburner Hairy. We've finally had a proper snowfall out here in the sticks. We seem to have been in the corridor between the stuff from the east and the stuff coming up from the south west and have missed the worst of it all.
WFH today and also being a wuss of a certain age, I took more interest in watching an amazing assortment of birds stocking up at the feeders, rather than sledging. Hats off to those who braved the elements to get to work/played out.

QuentinSummers · 02/03/2018 22:39

Genius!!

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HairyBallTheorem · 02/03/2018 20:55

Stout bag for life. Spread on ground, sit on it, grasp handles, lift feet, launch yourself down the slope and off you go!

I wasn't even using a bag-for-life, just a 5p one someone had left in the park!

QuentinSummers · 02/03/2018 20:49

What is polybagging? No sledge here, maybe we can do that instead
I hadn't thought of monsoon but maybe I should..

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HairyBallTheorem · 02/03/2018 20:45

Feeling very chilled because (a) mulled wine and (b) work sent us home at mid-day yesterday (in theory I should have been doing loads of reading, but since DS's school also closed, and there was 6" of snow outside, we have just been doing loads of sledging).

I dunno how old you are Quentin, but as a "woman of a certain age" I am now doing a lot of shopping from Monsoon - I find they have quite a lot of nice 3/4 length and full length sleeve tops in nice patterns and knitted fabrics. I've also just bought some new polo necks on line - bit on the big size (their sizing is even more generous than M&S but v. nice colours and nice merino/cashmere mix). But I am a geeky research scientist so frankly I could turn up for work in a bin-bag and no-one would bat an eyelid.

Thinking of binbags, I have re-discovered poly- bagging. On a nice firm snow pack, you go like shit off a shiny shovel. It's great.

QuentinSummers · 02/03/2018 20:33

I'm a bit annoyed with fashion. Trying to find some long sleeved work tops, all I can find is shirts and I don't iron. The trousers are all cropped at the ankle and as I'm a shortarse they just look stupid. I really need some new stuff but it's all grim. Huh.

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QuentinSummers · 02/03/2018 20:32

Hey! I need wine, but snowed in Sad so virtual will have to do. How are you hairy?

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HairyBallTheorem · 02/03/2018 20:31

After a hard day's sledging it's time to bump the Bluestocking! I am imagining myself beside our roaring fire, in the wood-panelled lounge bar (bookshelves and comfy armchairs). I have a mug of mulled wine (thank you co-op, you may not have milk at the mo but you have mini bottles of red wine) and a pot of tiramisu.

WiggyPig · 22/02/2018 20:51

I’ve just got some of the Little People Big Dreams books for DD which are perfect for children not quite big enough for the Rebel Girls.

Riverside2 · 22/02/2018 19:33

Okay, potentially stupid question alert

second pervy charity guy talking about attempts to damage aid in general

www.theguardian.com/society/2018/feb/22/unicef-deputy-justin-forsyth-quits-inappropriate-behaviour-claims

now who would want to do that? and if a group did want to do that, is it likely they would use exposes of general pervy behaviour in order to that? Surely they'd be more likely to push the wasted money angle?

Riverside2 · 22/02/2018 18:21

Hairy - yes, friends outside London have said to me that the increasing pressure to look good at work is a bigger thing in London than elsewhere.