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My one person, little act of protest

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MrsFogi · 23/01/2018 23:02

I find it really scary and sobering that freedom of expression and thought do not apply when it comes to trans-issues. I am particularly frustrated that in rl and in my rl name I cannot voice my views about the subject given the risk of reprisals that doing so could jeopardise my job etc. So, today when asked my name for my coffee cup I chose "Spartacus". It felt slightly more tangible than posting on mn. I will be doing the same whenever asked for my name in this sort of context and hope that any mners with the same concerns will have a little inward smile if they overhear me when I order or see my cup.

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SusanBunch · 28/02/2018 19:18

Love it. My little act soon is going tobe to set my students a discussion task on all women shortlists

Let me know how it goes. I am too much of a wimp to do stuff like that at the moment, but I would be fascinated to see how it pans out. A couple of my students are trans as well so I have to be really careful. I do talk about feminism and discrimination against the sexed body but not in the context of trans rights- just in terms of explaining the history of women's oppression. I have not been challenged yet, but my students are not always the most awake...

LadyScience · 28/02/2018 19:10

I know, Grainne. Maybe my eggs are poor quality because I’m just not feminining hard enough.

GrainneWail · 28/02/2018 18:36

Ffs, LadyScience, as if ivf could be based on anything other than sex.

LadyScience · 28/02/2018 17:09

Love it.

I crossed out ‘gender’ and wrote ‘sex’ on my HFEA form re storage of embryos etc during IVF.

No one will ever notice, but it made me feel better.

HuckfromScandal · 28/02/2018 16:50

I’ve just asked to join the round table as a self Id male. I have also asked for their policies on this.

MagnusMama · 24/02/2018 11:28

Just did my bit today- we had prospective councillors doorstepping this morning, asking what issues concern residents.
I blurted out that the GRA is my biggest concern ATM, and people gaining access to women's safe spaces!
I think I surprised them tbh, as the issues here are more austerity/local services, NHS etc

I'm going to get "TERF" daubed on my house now, aren't I? Or they'll know not to knock next time Grin

thebewilderness · 24/02/2018 03:44

Brilliant idea. I am rarely asked my name for an order but I am Spartacus.
I shall be using 2+2=5 on twitters too.

PhilODox · 23/02/2018 18:01

I'd be a little nervous that when they called out 'Spartacus', and I tried to collect my drink, others would stand and say "I'm Spartacus" for a laugh.

BeUpStanding · 23/02/2018 18:00

Can someone link to the Spartacus thread please?! It gets mentioned all the time and I missed it

Great idea though OP

UpstartCrow · 23/02/2018 14:38

PositivelyPERF I would stand up and announce 'My wife and I are both Spartcus' Grin

I need more of these. I'm going into town tomorrow and will try to leaflet the womens toilet.

dragongirlx · 23/02/2018 14:30

Brilliant idea - alas all the staff in my coffee shop know my name cause I am in their far too much and I bring my own cup
I shall have to think of something else

Waspnest · 25/01/2018 11:58

Love this as an idea. MrsFogi DH always calls himself Dave at these places because his name can be spelt at least 3 ways and the workers always asked how he spelt it despite him being the only one in the queue with that name.... Worked well until dd piped up 'But Daddy that's not your name'.

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 25/01/2018 11:43

positively

And poor Spartacus the italian exhange student wont have a clue whats going on

PositivelyPERF · 25/01/2018 10:50

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 😆 I’m just picturing a rush of women up to the counter when Spartacus is called. We won’t know if we should fight for the coffee or just have a group hug.

redshoeblueshoe · 24/01/2018 22:31

MrsF well that's my mission for tomorrow

whitehandledkitchenknife · 24/01/2018 22:04

I can't wait to do this. I'm a regular at a certain motorway service station. They remember my name from one visit to the next. It's going to be fun stopping them from starting my order as I walk in and saying, 'I'm not WHKK anymore.............. I'm Spartacus'Grin

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 24/01/2018 21:45

If i do this and one of you buggers nicks my latte I won't be happy

Grin
MrsFogi · 24/01/2018 21:43

Why coffee cups have names in Starbucks I have no idea - makes no sense in the one I visit there is no queue so no chance of a mix up. I'm sure there are other places that ask for names where it is of no consequence to give the wrong one in order to signal membership of The Least Secret Feminist Women's Secret Society (name courtesy of PositivelyPERF Flowers) and speak out in a small way.

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crustychristmastree · 24/01/2018 21:39

Awesome idea!

Why do coffee cups have names?

I don't go into many coffee shops!

MrsFogi · 24/01/2018 21:36

No need to boost Starbucks' coffers redshoeblueshoe you will no doubt find other ways to protest. Smile - do report back Smile.

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redshoeblueshoe · 24/01/2018 21:27

I have never been to Starbucks, but I'm prepared to for this

MrsFogi · 24/01/2018 21:17

PPERF - great name, very snappy "The Least Secret Feminist Women's Secret Society" carrying out small guerrilla acts of feminist protest on a daily basis.
Vive LA Revolutionne! (yes sp intentional before I get the pedants piling in Wink)

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PositivelyPERF · 24/01/2018 11:01

That’s a really good point sweetpotatosteak. It would be like the least secret, Feminist Women’s Secret Society. uses secret handshake, rolls up left trouser leg and hops on right foot, winks 😬

QuentinSummers · 24/01/2018 08:44

My little act soon is going tobe to set my students a discussion task on all women shortlists
That is brilliant, thank you

Glitterypinksoap · 24/01/2018 07:45

If there's a Spartacus day I will go and find a Starbucks on purpose! which around here involves an expedition including pack horses, machetes to clear the paths and probably hiring a professional guide.

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