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FT investigation: Men only fundraiser and sexual harrassment

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RedToothBrush · 23/01/2018 22:28

amp.ft.com/content/075d679e-0033-11e8-9650-9c0ad2d7c5b5?__twitter_impression=true
Sexual misconduct allegations
Men Only: Inside the charity fundraiser where hostesses are put on show
FT investigation finds groping and sexual harassment at secretive black-tie dinner

It is for men only. A black tie evening, Thursday’s event was attended by 360 figures from British business, politics and finance and the entertainment included 130 specially hired hostesses.

All of the women were told to wear skimpy black outfits with matching underwear and high heels. At an after-party many hostesses — some of them students earning extra cash — were groped, sexually harassed and propositioned.

The event has been a mainstay of London’s social calendar for 33 years, yet the activities have remained largely unreported — unusual, perhaps, for a fundraiser of its scale.

Hats off to the FT for sending two undercover reporters

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RedToothBrush · 24/01/2018 12:10

Its also invalid if a crime has been committed.

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AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2018 12:08

Sorry for multiple posts...stupid phone.

AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2018 12:07

I would assume that having signed under duress invalidates the NDA. IANAL though.

AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2018 12:07

I would assume that having signed under duress invalidates the NDA. IANAL though.

AngryAttackKittens · 24/01/2018 12:07

I would assume that having signed under duress invalidates the NDA. IANAL though.

Bluelady · 24/01/2018 12:01

Just heard GOSH is returning money.

Bluelady · 24/01/2018 12:00

Firstly they're not prostitutes. Secondly I haven't seen anyone blaming them, not one. All the coverage in the media and on Twitter has been solidly condemning the men with the odd guy whining about all women events being just as bad.

Thehairthebod · 24/01/2018 11:59

GOSH are giving the money back and will no longer accept donations from the Presidents Club Charitable Trust.

www.bbc.co.uk/news/BUSINESS-42801178

AngelsSins · 24/01/2018 11:53

I'm so sick of this shit. Yet again, it's the women's actions under the microscope: "what did they expect?" "They knew what they were getting into" etc. Who fucking cares? It doesn't matter if they were all highly paid, consenting prostitutes, that DOES NOT excuse the actions of these repulsive, entitled, creepy men. Why is it ok for them to behave like this? And not one of them, in 30 years has done anything to fix it, but #notallmen right?

Ereshkigal · 24/01/2018 11:46

It should go to a sexual violence charity.

Ereshkigal · 24/01/2018 11:45

Apparently the women were made to sign a lengthy document in advance which they weren't allowed to read, nor were they given a copy.

That's duress, surely? Not legal.

Bluelady · 24/01/2018 11:36

Then what happens to it? At least, however appallingly raised, it's doing some good.

irretating · 24/01/2018 11:26

GOSH get tens of millions in donations every year. I reckon they could give the money back.

Bluelady · 24/01/2018 11:21

Apparently the women were made to sign a lengthy document in advance which they weren't allowed to read, nor were they given a copy. We seem to be going backwards, 40 years ago there was a strict and rigidly enforced no touching rule in the Playboy Club.

Queeniebed · 24/01/2018 11:15

I was disgusted at the sponsors response. We didn't see anything, we are no longer going to support it due to the allegations, what a shame as its a wonderful charity. Angry

badabing36 · 24/01/2018 11:10

Sorry raisins I was just trying to find a bit of grim humour in it all.

I’m just not sure that this one day will ever come. These are the same men who tell us that the culture in the city is changing. It’s bullshit.

nauticant · 24/01/2018 10:50

That's what was said to be on a document described as the "programme". Let's hope the FT get a copy or that the organisers can be persuaded to provide a copy.

GreenSeededGrape · 24/01/2018 10:48

They had to actually say 'no groping'

So much wrong with that Angry

ChemistryGeek · 24/01/2018 10:48

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RedToothBrush · 24/01/2018 10:44

SHOULDN'T*

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RedToothBrush · 24/01/2018 10:43

Why did the venue feel the need to actually put a no harassment disclaimer to cover their own arse policy on the programme at all.

IT SHOULD NEED TO BE SPELT OUT.

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BarbarianMum · 24/01/2018 10:42

Aargh

...does that mean that enduring sexual harassment...

BarbarianMum · 24/01/2018 10:41

So to those who said "the women knew what they were getting into" does that men ebdufing sexual harassment was part of the job description/terms and conditions? And if not, why not? The company hiring them must have known. So either they agreed to it or they've failed to put in suitable protection for their staff. Ditto the event organisers. Someone should sue the fuckers.

Bluelady · 24/01/2018 10:41

Kit HH Is a complete hypocrite in my view. Did he object while he was there? Did he take the money? He's just turned into rent a gob and taken the opportunity to show what a good guy he is.

The only way this kind of thing will stop in the context of fundraising is by charities to insist that events held in their name are ethical. If GOSH had said no it wouldn't have happened. It's unrealistic to expect men to police this kind of thing for lots of reasons - career limitation, fear of peer ridicule or even, God help us, not getting it.

nauticant · 24/01/2018 10:37

Kit Hesketh-Harvey said there as a "no groping" request on the programme for the event.

Is it my imagination or is there more push-back on this scandal than on recent ones?

It seems that Hollywood and its penumbra is a just target but this event less so. There's also the GOSH "but it will take money away from the kiddies" aspect. I suppose part of it will be people thinking "haven't we already done this? bored now".

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