Ah bollocks, are we going to have to start a new thread to discuss sensibly again?
I listened to a couple of lectures - the one on agreeableness linked to above and part 2 of the psychology of the lion king. If nothing else, he is an engaging teacher, far superior to many I have endured. And actually I realised he is a teacher - so I think he engaged with CN as a teacher and just discovered she really wasn't interested in learning anything, whether by agreement or disagreement.
Anyway, he made a by the way sort of comment about liberal / conservative views, in the context of agreeableness and that there are two components - politeness and compassion (maybe not the only 2), and although liberals and conservatives score similarly on agreeableness on average, liberals tend to score high on compassion and low on politeness and conservatives the other way about. So they average out to a similar overall measure on the composite agreeableness trait, but actually it manifests quite differently.
I think it's an insight into how the public discourse plays out - because liberals think that conservatives are evil because they lack compassion, while conservatives disagree but tend to default to greater politeness and therefore don't shout as loudly about their views. Am I way off base?
So liberals think it's fine to announce this person is immoral or even amoral for their views and no further discussion needs to be had. Whilst conservatives want to debate the content but complain about feeling shut down (politely of course!). Oh and deliberately small c lib/con.
What I was struck by was that JP didn't ascribe a value judgment personally to someone's traits - they just are, and you have to deal with what you have and then try to develop the ones that are weak. Whereas CN had already ascribed a value judgment to JP's views and having cast him as a fascist, thought there was no need to engage in the content, just show him as evidently evil.
Sorry, that's long and probably a bit waffly. But for those who are prepared to listen to the details and consider his lines of argument on their merits, I'd be really interested to discuss further.