On 'agreeableness' : The problem with this is that not only is it a survival mechanism for women, it also begs the question, what would the results be if women stopped behaving in an 'agreeable' manner.
There is amongst JP's talks and lectures a fair bit mixed in about how men deal with disagreement and how ultimately if there isn't agreement it can be dealt with through violence. He also says that this means that men and women do not know the 'rules of engagement' when disagreeing with each other. I think his point was that men ultimately deal with disagreement through violence if necessary and woman do not.
This resonates with me as I work in a male dominated industry, and now I manage mostly men. I also have 2 sons. It has taken me many years to figure out how to deal with disciplinary issues I have with men successfully, and I have changed my behaviour accordingly.
When dealing with an angry het up man it does occur to me that a man dealing with the situation would possibly have faced violence in my position (I've seen it happen). It strikes me that I have changed my behaviour towards dealing with these situations, and one way I do that is by not considering the possibility that my 'disagreeableness' will end in violence, as if I was to consider that I would not be able to carry out my job properly. I would probably back down / avoid the situation.
This goes against my natural instinct which is to fear an angry man, as I have been subject to male violence in the past. Added to that the daily relentless reporting violence towards women by men. It's a reality to me that my interactions with men are far more likely to end in violence than my interactions with women
I do not find it anywhere near as stressful to deal with females possibly for this reason. I know that this is an issue for other women in my industry and the ones that do make it tend to be accused of 'acting like a man', which quite oddly is used as an insult towards women by men. I'd like to hear more about that from JP.
Also in one of JP's lectures he said that in any group of men and women there will be more in common amongst men + women than men + men or women + women. I find that very interesting but it wasn't explored too deeply.
I find his stance against the Canadian government and his fight against 'compelled speech' regarding the trans / pronouns issue to be both compelling and brave. It seems to be a hill he's prepared to die on and I find it interesting that he has chosen to fight so publicly to the point he is prepared to lose his license as a clinical psychologist of over 30 years.
It's interesting that he has not once in his many interviews / talks on the compelled speech issue he does not mention any feminist arguments that support his case. On the one hand he seems to be critical of female agreeableness and on the other calls some disagreeable women raging harpies. It seems like he is contradicting himself somewhat there