Active discussions

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Feminism: Sex and gender discussions

Feminism: chat

Original poster

weirdest places you’ve encountered inappropriate behaviour and how you’ve reacted

28 replies

Booagain · 04/01/2018 13:22

First post but I’m livid. Was in a book shop this morning in the cookery section (irrelevant) and a guy just sidled up to me and grabbed my butt! I whipped round and glared at him but I’ll be honest, I was so shocked I didn’t say anything and he just walked away! Now I’m going over all the things I should have said and feel idioctic.
Where and what have your come backs been because I feel I need to arm myself with something to say!!!

OP posts:
phoenix1973 · 04/01/2018 13:52

This happened to me when i was young. Getting on the bus, guy behind grabs my butt i grab the hand, wave it in the air asking "who owns this hand? It seems to be on my butt" he actually went scarlet, retrieved his hand from my desth grip and got off the bus. He had to wsit for another one. Fecker. I can barely remember being that feisty young woman. ☹

guardianfree · 04/01/2018 13:43

Go back to the bookshop - ask if they've got CCTV and have it on tape - get them to copy and then - then report him to the police for assault plus evidence.
I he's done it to you, he'll do it to someone else.

losamsterdamos · 04/01/2018 13:41

"your hand feels so good on my butt, would you like to come back to mine for a coffee?"

or perhaps not what you had in mind?