Things men have called me and why.

Bit far-fetched!

@zzzzz
In war, collectively men see women and girls as the spoils of it, men's self reward, ripping into the flesh of females and mauling them for sport.

The apartheid men created, was separating themselves from the female, so they could then say they had a right to abuse her because she wasn't one of their bro's, she wasn't male and because she wasn't male she was inferior to them.

Men of every colour all unite under that one flag when trashing the image of the female to elevate the significance of themselves.

The war between men is about territory and who has the right to hunt down their favourite prey in it!

Whataboutery. perhaps men should stop each other abusing women if they don't want to be all lumped together.

@SophoclesTheFox
You know if you see an army of men coming over the hill, are you gonna run or stay put?

There have never been any armies of women on the hunt looking to rape men.. not once, not ever!
but OMG there have been millions and there still are millions of armies of men who look to hunt women and girls down to rape and mutilate them and that is how men are collectively.

In the patriarchy, women are not the opposing team, they are the ball men chase and kick around between themselves to achieve their goals.

In war, men see women and girls as the spoils of it, men's self reward, ripping into the flesh of females and mauling them for sport.

Maybe you can find one instance where armies of men have never done that?.

I will wait, but I won't hold my breath!

@zzzzz

Women and girls don't have safe spaces,
what they have are cages where men have cornered them in.

Women and girls have to take precautions when they venture out alone to make sure they are not raped and murdered by men.

And men regard this world as men's oyster, men's hunting ground, men's territory
and men believe in that shit!

Collectively men have always looked on females as something to hunt down and corner,.
It's men's entire history across the entire globe, it is not an exception it's the rule., it's how men's Kultures are and the glue that binds them altogether.

Why is unfair to point out there are entitled predatory men about?

To be fair zzzzz it's not some men, it's lots of men. But not all men.

Ok, asmen, I don't agree with your analysis. I don't think things are as a bad as all that.

@zzzzz @SophoclesTheFox

Women and girls don't have safe spaces,
what they have are cages where men have cornered them in.

Men are predators.

You only need to read the comments on this thread to see exactly how pervasive this male culture is, of self entitlement.

Men build up their own self esteem by smashing women's down,
that's the culture females find themselves in.

When dh and I were first together, we were in an amusement arcade. I was waiting for him outside the loo. Two men who worked there made comments about my "nice assets"etc. Told dh, expecting him to encourage me to report to the manager and he said "don't you realise that's a compliment?" WTAF! It must be ingrained in men from their schooldays or something? Anyway, reported the men, received an apology and had a good talk with soon-to- be dh. He's not at all thick but didn't seem to realise that a woman has full right to stand somewhere, without being commented on. It's interesting how I viewed it as insults and intrusive, whereas dh saw it as a compliment. Soon de-brainwashed him though and we've been married 28 years

I got a train a few times and got talking to a chap. He said I looked good for my age. New the day he said another such similar thing. Next day I got an earlier train. My dad couldn't understand why I was upset about this but I found a stranger commenting on my looks really intrusive. We only spoke about the weather and light subjects... Why did my looks have anything to do with him? Why did he think that I cared what he thought about my looks?

Marklah, schooldays, at least you were asked before the insults! All I remember from those days is being "lunged at" and groped Idiots!! This thread is quite cathartic, even though disgusting. Thanks, OP.

Yes, as a teenager walking to school, a coupke of boys would intimidate me and smirk at me. One day, one of them muttered “you bitch” as we passed each other and another time, there were four of them and he spat his chewing gum at me and the rest of them laughed.
Cowardly bastardised, no way would he have done any of those if I was either; a boy, with someone else or if he was on his own.

More recently, whenobkextong being called “sexy “or having a great arse, he tells me “don’t you like being called beautiful?” Er, that wasn’t what you called me though and why do you need to give your opinion about my appearance at all? Twat.

I've not had experiences like these but I can remember this from school days.

Boy to girl - "Can I touch you?"
Girl - "No"
Boy - "Frigid bitch!"

Boy to girl - "Can I touch you?"
Girl - "Yes"
Boy - "Slut!"

I've been barged out the way by a man when I was walking down the street with my DH - we both thought he'd grabbed my wallet, but no, he was just barging me aside.

A man also recently told me to Fuck off because I just walked past him.

I have a yo yo weight problem. When I'm slim, lots of attention from men. When I'm overweight, I am invisible (apart from the odd look of disdain) As I've got older (i'm slim-ish at the moment) the attention is more of a sort of fawning, smiling, rushing to help me, sort of thing. Pathetic! Women stay the same throughout.

I didn't feel safe there, So left, I few knew what had happened.

Bubbaleo I was 15 and the house the party was at, was a policemans, or ex policeman can't remember which.

TheWitch yesterday, actually got punched in the mouth! Unbelievable! I wish you had called the police, TheWitch and had him arrested for assault.

I've noticed as well how twenty years ago when I was thinner and better looking, I used to get propositions but also a load of insults - men who weren't exactly attractive blocking my path to tell me I was ugly etc. Two decades later, I never get insulted. Yeah to a point it's because I'm now 'invisible' but it does feel like I'm being treated with more respect- like an actual person.

What really irritates me is when dh is watching the darts on tv. At the start of each match, 2 young ladies, short skirts, make- up, big smiles, escort the 2 male contestants to the stage. In fact it more than irritates me, it makes me bloody angry! I mean, why? I feel sorry for them, sorry for their mothers and sorry for the viewers. So bloody degrading, all round.