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Thank you thread for those standing up for women

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ArcheryAnnie · 24/11/2017 23:04

I just wanted to start to say thank you to some of those who have given me the courage to begin to speak out, too. The calmness and persistence in the face of absolute hate and vileness is really something. (And it must become very tiring to know that when you google your own name, the search box will autofill "...should die in a fire", so I wanted to add something psoitive to the mix!)

There's lots here on mumsnet that I am grateful to, but I will start with people I got to know elsewhere first.

Linda Bellos. I have only seen her name recently on this issue, but she's been inspiring me since I was a teenage radical, so very long ago. I can't tell you how happy I am that she is here and still fighting. Linda, thank you.

Glosswitch. She was one of the first they went for. She's brilliant and brave and funny and I am so glad she's writing. Glossy, thank you.

Sarah Ditum. Also funny and brilliant and calm and persistent. If you haven't signed up for her tinyletter, I suggest you do so immediately! Sarah, thank you.

Claire Heuchan. Fantastic, thoughtful, insightful writer. Also introduced me to the fact that the Glasgow Women's Library exists! Claire, thank you.

Miranda Yardley. Calm, devastating, and unbelievably persistent. Currently filleting Peter Tatchell on twitter. Miranda, thank you.

There's plenty more, and I'll add them later, bit by bit, but I wanted to get a start. I have begun threads to express my disappointment and anger at those that have drunk the kool-aid, so I thought I'd come here and express my joy and gratitude to those that are standing up for women. I hope this can become a long list!

And anyone's non-appearance on it doesn't mean they aren't wonderful or their work isn't appreciated, it just means they aren't known to me. This isn't a list of any in-crowd, and shouldn't be read as such. We're all doing what we can!

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Datun · 26/11/2017 02:18

And thank you ArcheryAnnie for starting this thread.

It is being noticed. And appreciated.

Datun · 26/11/2017 02:12

I want to list all the women, but now I am terrified of leaving someone out.

So it will have to be collectively.

All the fabulous journalists storming away on MSM and backing it up on Twitter.

The kind, funny, feisty, genius women at Fair Play, Transgendertrend, A Woman’s Place and Gendertrender.

The astonishingly diverse women on here, all bringing their experience and perspective to women’s rights.

The women with stats at their fingertips. The ones who can make theory comprehensible, even to me.

The political women, who see the alarming trends and patterns developing. The ones at the coalface, helping women in real life.

Those who come on and tentatively ask questions because of something unsettling at the back of their minds.

The ones who have posted on Facebook and lost friends, or gained unlikely allies.

And the ones whose posts read like a series of blinding, crackling light bulbs, dropping sparks like raindrops as my brain goes into overdrive and relief in equal measure.

The only person I haven’t seen mentioned is Maria MacLachlan. The feminist who was beaten at Speakers’ Corner.

I believe that was the tipping point. The reprehensible behaviour of transactivists caused women everywhere to reach critical mass.

The traction it gained overnight lit the collective touchpaper of women’s outrage everywhere.

And boy, when women get angry, there is nothing like it.

Thank you. All of you.

And to Mumsnet feminism boards.

You wonderful women made me a radical feminist overnight. When I just couldn’t stop reading. It may have been one night, but it was a looong one.

Flowers
ImmortalityMyDarlings · 26/11/2017 00:47

Meghan Murphy is incredible! Owe a lot of my knowledge to her. Also Julian Vigo is brilliant academic / writer on this whole thing too. Sheila Jeffreys as well. Heroines the lot of them.

PricklyBall · 25/11/2017 23:31

Just to add my voice to those saying thanks to all the wonderful women ( and some great supportive men) names on this thread.

EmpressOfTheSpartacusOceans · 25/11/2017 23:17

Brilliant thread and it's not going unnoticed...

Thank you thread for those standing up for women
SelmaAndJubjub · 25/11/2017 22:58

Already mentioned, but Magdalen Berns is a legend for coming back from life-threatening illness as feisty as ever. I don't always agree with everything she says, but she is a brave, inspirational woman who has withstood constant abuse & threats from TRAs.

Also, MNHQ - I know you must be taking a world of shit for allowing us freedom of speech. Women have cause to be very grateful. (Now sort out those banner ads Wink)

Pepvixen · 25/11/2017 22:20

Thangam Debonnaire - another MP who has spoken out for women!

Gingernaut · 25/11/2017 20:45

Thank you

Germaine Greer
Julie Bindel
Maryam Namazie

Betty185 · 25/11/2017 20:43

In addition to the many great people listed already, I'd like to add Memoree Joelle, the editor of the After Ellen website, for returning it to what it was originally (a website for lesbian women) and, along with all the pop culture stuff, including articles on lesbian history that don't re-write gender-non-conforming women as men and articles on feminism which challenge the current narrative:

www.afterellen.com/people/547033-lesbian-feminism-asserts-future-female-not-fluid

WinnerWinnerChickenDinner0 · 25/11/2017 20:04

Great list!!!
Lots I admire and a few I’m off to google

An unexpected one, but Irish comedian Maeve Higgins beautifully confronted and stood her ground about a sexist remark fellow comedian Des Bishop made to her. Great example of how to call a spade a spade (about 20 mind into the interview)

www.dailyedge.ie/maeve-higgins-des-bishop-podcast-3714922-Nov2017/

BeyondAssignation · 25/11/2017 19:55

Maybe they should change that "by parents for parents" tagline to "21st century suffragettes" Wink

BahHumbygge · 25/11/2017 19:55

YY to all those already mentioned. And all you erudite and insightful lot, who I've learned the most from on these issues.

I'd also like to mention Lierre Keith, who wrote "The Girls and the Grasses" chapter in Female Erasure, and Rachel Ivey whose speech on Youtube was one of the earliest materials that helped crystalise my views on this. LK also got splatted with a chilli pepper pie at an anarchist bookfair in the US (can you spot a theme here?)

RaininSummer · 25/11/2017 19:52

Agree with every one of the above and especially to MN for allowing freedom of speech for women. 21st century suffragettes you rock!

BeyondAssignation · 25/11/2017 19:51

♥️♥️ Posie

therealposieparker · 25/11/2017 19:46

Hello! I'm back.

Thanks for the mention.

I have loads.... if I forget anyone then apologies.

  1. Dittany... without this wonder woman I would not have had the feminist awakening I needed, I did think I was a feminist before but she switched a light on and I didn't know I was in darkness.
  2. Anyfucker Just for being ace
  3. Jess Phillips and Caroline Flint, the latter being just a little braver than the former.
  4. Bindel, fighting this fight before most of us knew what the fuck was going on.
  5. Stephanie DA... the amount of work that woman has done and does is phenomenal... I bet she's literally saved someone's life with her stuff.
  6. So many amazing women on twitter.... go to any TERF block list and you'll find lots of women speaking out!!
  7. My secret sisters.... all of you. We are powerful.
  8. Mumsnet towers... you had me worried back along about whose side you were on, I'm glad it's ours...
For us x
YippeeKiYayMelonFarmer · 25/11/2017 19:41

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DamnDeDoubtanceIsSpartacus · 25/11/2017 19:38

and Wine to Germaine Greer, marvellous woman, and Mary Beard.

DamnDeDoubtanceIsSpartacus · 25/11/2017 19:37

I told her to give it another go Beyond, said things had shifted. Really hope she's back! Smile

OpalIridescence · 25/11/2017 19:28

Yes, Germaine Greer.

A formidable women with a formidable mind (and delivery style!).

bellasuewow · 25/11/2017 18:58

Germaine Greer highlighted the exact issues being debated now in her book, the whole woman, she is so ahead of her time. Thank you and thank god on behalf of me and my daughter for so many women now standing up for others against this new wave of misogyny.

InfiniteSheldon · 25/11/2017 18:48

Germaine Greer has inspired me through four decades of my life is like to add my support for her, Jenny Murray and all those brave women facing such emotional, social and political bullying. Wine

BeyondAssignation · 25/11/2017 18:43

She was banned, for hypothetically potentially not using a persons preferred pronoun at some point in the future. I think I saw her here recently though? Hopefully she's back :)

cuirderussie · 25/11/2017 18:34

PosieParker was banned? Wow. Love her on Twitter, she's relentless.

MrsTerryPratchett · 25/11/2017 18:22
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DamnDeDoubtanceIsSpartacus · 25/11/2017 18:20

Such a great thread!

Can I add Posie Parker, she's great on twitter and was a Mumsnetter. I think she was banned when we really were not allowed to talk about retaining women's rights.

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