Autism and Trans

Not only needs researching more, better training needs to go to schools with much better counselling services, much better awareness of sensory needs with access to occupational therapy to find strategies to reduce discomfort and body awareness to help avoid body dysmorphia, much better support with social skills and relationships, and much more funding to CAMHS. (And a squadron of pigs would be nice too )

I am livid however at the 'identifying as having autism' fad emerging in and around the trans community. Yes, many people suspect they may have autism and it has never been picked up (especially women and girls), many are waiting on the pathway to diagnosis and whether or not they are diagnosed will always have needs around social communication, but to just say 'I identify as autistic' is hugely disrespectful. (I hadn't run into the 'I identify as having a chronic illness' a la playing Helen from What Katy Did, either until this weekend - rather like the girls in Victorian times making themselves up and getting as thin as possible to look as if they had TB, and be 'pale and interesting' as a fashion.)

The goal - when you say transboys in that context are you meaning girls who have transitioned/now identify as male? Or boys that now identify as female?

This was where I came into this issue. Autism creates a feeling of being an outsider. You do not understand why you are different, why you do not fit in, why there is a big barrier in communication, in relationships. If you don't understand it then you look to understand why. Is it something about you that is wrong? Are you adopted? Are you an alien? Are you in the wrong body? It has to be something major because it affects everything about you. Worse still for an autistic child who fears change like the devil, they reach puberty and suddenly the body changes. You would do anything to avoid being out of control. To avoid change. When I was a child 40 years ago I knew something wasn’t right. I even wanted to change my name to a gender neutral one. But I’m not trans. Was never trans. Just terribly frightened of growing up. And an undiagnosed autistic. I’m just glad I dodged the bullet and didn’t have the current fad to contend with. Because if someone comes along and tells you it’s actually yes you are in the wrong body for your gender I might well have accepted that.

It concerns me greatly. It’s dangerous and potentially abusive to autistic people.

nationalpost.com/opinion/susan-bradley-how-trans-activists-are-unethically-influencing-autistic-children-to-change-genders

This link really needs to be investigated more.

Same as the link between 'transboys' and sexual abuse.

As someone on the spectrum I do often feel quite marginalised by regular society. I would imagine that many autistic people do feel like outcasts at least at some point in their lives. I fitted in when I was younger but as I've aged the gap between myself and neurotypical women in particular has widened immensely. As soon as I came to the realisation that i'm very possibly autistic, I started to spend more and more time on autistic forums. I felt such an amazing sense of relief to finally find my tribe and i've found myself identifying more as a person on the spectrum than as a woman. I don't feel accepted by many 'normal' women and have been bullied and ostracised by women both at work and socially. Men generally leave me alone and seem to accept me as I am much more. I think that if I was twenty years younger and I found myself on forums promoting transitioning I may have been susceptible to the idea of being in the wrong body. As it is, I'm well into my thirties and very aware that it's a spectrum issue.

DJBaggySmalls has it nailed. This is written by someone who is an advocate for adults wanting to transition.
All these adults dabbling, meddling, grooming (and I use the word deliberately) in children and adolescent's lives with zero qualifications and zero interest in their welfare - just their own overwhelming desire to change the world in their own narrow image.

A lot of people on the Autistic spectrum are prone to black and white thinking, generalising and stereotyping. The world can be very confusing/intense for them so it's comforting to put people into boxes. They may believe if they like stereotypical boy things they're really a boy and same with girl things. I hope they really know what they're doing.

Sophie Walker was tweeting about autism and eating disorders/ mental health the other day. I cannot square that with her party's support for trans when there is such an obvious link there. Surely she must know?

What's even scarier is that most autistic women& girls go undiagnosed well into adulthood or their whole lives. Their no. could be as high as 3 in 4. Not knowing what's wrong with them makes them very vulnerable to the trans folk offering a "solution". It took me a whole decade of research to figure out that I have ASD. I feel like I dodged a bullet by never considering the " wrong body" brainwashing.

Female aspies r very logical, much less empathetic than NT women and see right through sexist BS of gender due to that. I know this because I am one. Some are also highly sexual. All this makes them GNC feminists, not trans. In fact, HFA women r walking proof that sexed brains are nonsense. It's beyond sickening that the trans cult is now preying on them.

I have an older child who is on the autistic spectrum and identifies as trans. What staggers me is that the gender difficulties here are treated as absolute and unchanging (although some reference to challenging stereotypes). The only thing which is unchanging about an autistic child is the autism.

There is lots of information about how young people with autism can struggle with their gender identity for a few years, for it to resolve itself further down the line. That is not to say they should be dismissed or not supported, but even WPATH suggests encouraging autistic people to look at a neutral option.

Looks more like a recruitment drive to me.

That reads like it was written by someone who supports transitioning in adults, not someone who advocates for autistic children. It doesnt surprise me at all that transing seems to make sense to kids who have autism.
If someone tells an autistic child the reason they feel awkward or different is because they are in the wrong body, that will make perfect sense to them. They may well believe if they present themselves differently they'll be better understood. They cant question it in the same way a non autistic adult would, and they wont play or experiment with it in the way a non autistic child might.
Listen to children but you dont put them in charge of life changing stuff. I'm always amazed that people who would be horrified at a child getting a tattoo or piercing will support them changing sex.