Article Showing Autogynaphilia in Action

He uses the word "panties". Only the very old and perverts call them that.
I hope someone works out who he is and bans him from their store.

"It is always the Christians who get hung out to dry in this"

Isn't it funny that the story about the Christian teacher who was sacked for 'misgendering' came out in the last few days after quite a few gender critical articles

My partner likes to wear women's clothing and lingerie from time to time, and I quite like it when he does. That said, when we've shopped for lingerie (which needs to be tried on) we've always contacted the store in advance, explained the situation, and asked if thats ok, and usually arranged with them to ask for particular assistant with experience or who doesn't mind.

They've always been really professional and matter-of-fact and so have we.

I think there's nothing inherently wrong with cross-dressing (I do it too - but I do think it's easier for a woman) but agree that it has to be done respectfully and consensually with anyone who is involved - even/especially on the periphery.

I don't think there's anything anti-feminist about cross-dressing per se, and I do think it's really common...

It is always the Christians who get hung out to dry in this. They need some better advice.

Oh word, it's THIS attention-seeking wanker.

Only in the news a matter of weeks ago.

www.independent.co.uk/news/uk/home-news/christian-printer-refuses-turns-down-business-cards-for-transgender-consultant-nigel-williams-joanne-a8001491.html

He managed to find a beastly Christian who wouldn't print business cards for his trans business (which he conveniently publicised) and now he's also conveniently publicising it again.

Yes he gets the fake tits but no of course he's not going to get rid of his cock, he needs that to wank.

Another article today

www.portsmouth.co.uk/lifestyle/big-read-once-i-opened-the-box-it-wouldn-t-close-1-8240202

Said fetishist has setup a website offering trans consulting services, because in 2017 sexual fetishes are human rights.

seechangehappen.co.uk

I’d be delighted to start paying for the Guardian, if only they’d drop the bullshit identity politics and get serious.

The fucking Guardian. Has anyone done a statistical analysis on the number of transgender articles they feature? It reads as if every other person is trans while they ignore the inconvenient truth that every other person is female.
I must say, I'm really enjoying my Times subscription, especially getting to read Janice Turner every week.

The Guardian cant get enough of autogynephiles. There's another in today's paper.

www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2017/nov/04/letter-to-children-tell-them-transgender-letter-always-wanted-write

But I thought Autogynaphilia was making your body like the object of your desires?

It seems to me that a key part of the fetish for some (many?) is to coerce validation of their "femaleness" out of women, and particularly out of young women. The more discomfort elicited, the bigger the thrill.

QOFE Its called 'under the radar bullying'. the only people who can see it are the people involved, so its hard to deal with. If you try to explain what happened you sound like a loon.

The Guardian thinks its OK to print an abusive fantasy, but then deletes all comments that point out this is abusive behaviour, and those that mention autogynephilia.

the wink was disgusting - totally self absorbed,

But I thought Autogynaphilia was making your body like the object of your desires?

this sounds like a crusty cross-dresser

"...So I assume it would take balls to be honest that you're buying lingerie for yourself, as a man (yes - an odd sentence, I grant you). So the wink, and "assertiveness" I read as pride, and as two fingers to being judged, The guy enjoying buying his lingerie. If the sales person didn't, well that's their problem, and their prejudice".

Men really are from a different planet.

I think it's disgusting the creep is probably walking off at his own post and all the btl comments too. The whole fucking thing is a big narcissistic wank fest.

I’ll use my words. Three of them:

Shop online, creeps!

Definitely, to the last two posts. It's so difficult to explain this to decent men in my experience. They just don't get it.

And worse, if you get angry and he sees it, he's going to find it even hotter.

There's this feeling that's almost indescribable but I bet other women on here will know. The sort of sick fury that takes hold when you know a man is trying to put you in a situation you don't want to be in, but in a way that you'd sound bonkers if you tried to complain about. Powerless impotent rage, because you can't stop the vile bastards from thinking their vile thoughts but you hate the fact you feature in them.

The winking would definitely provoke it. Just fuck off you creepy fuck.

"Use your words"

But yeah the whole thing is just rank. I'd want to punch anyone wanking winking in that situation. Because you know they'd be going home to wank over the interaction and the part you'd played in it. Ugh.

Grim. Love this comment though:

"

As an ex lingerie sales assistant there is a world of difference between a man quietly saying ‘I’m actually shopping for myself’ and winking at you to convey that information.

The former got my time, attention, manners and respect to help with something taboo and potentially challenging for that customer. The latter got you banned from the changing rooms because the amount of men wanking in there was grim.

You want advice on how to buy stockings you feel sexy in? Use your words instead of trying to make it into Carry On Lingerie. That job was just constant sexual harassment and inappropriate comments from men and even as a teenager I was aware of how creepy it was that so many men can’t buy knickers without trying to get saucy with the shop assistant.

Not once did a woman make a sexually inappropriate comment in the same environment..."

Well, I don't love it but at least she's pointing out what a fucking grim thing it is to involve women doing a job in your filthy fetishes.

It's the obtuseness Olympics in the comments below that piece.

You know, I probably prefer the BTL comments on the Daily Mail to those on The Guardian.