Are you doing what you choose and for your reasons alone? Yes you can do the above and be a feminist because its about having the freedom to choose not following certain patterns of behaviour, whether they are traditional or whether they are the opposite to that.
As long as you are not doing it because you are expected to, or because you feel you have to be the one to make sacrifices more often than your partner.
There is no single way to live your life as a feminist.