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Rapist copied scenes he'd seen in pornography

296 replies

NoLoveofMine · 25/08/2017 23:16

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-england-derbyshire-41039754

OP posts:
CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 14:08

Well you seem to doubt me. I've not said anything out of the ordinary. In fact by state quoted on here I'm pretty typical for a sex worker. Previous history of childhood sexual abuse, teenage mother, been raped as an adult, history of abusive relationships. What have I said that is so unbelievable? That I'm happy in my job? Do I skip off to work every day. No. Do I enjoy having sex with men I don't want near me no. But it's a choice and its MY choice. I couldn't imagine doing anything else. I certainly could earn as much.

QuentinSummers · 27/08/2017 14:08

I'm reporting now as I'm getting too close to troll hunting

Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 27/08/2017 14:07

Woman works in the sex industry. That sound so unrealistic

No one has said this

CeeBeeBee · 27/08/2017 14:07

Your experience may not have been harmful to YOU but unless you know every single porn actress in the world, you can't say the industry doesn't damage them when there is plenty of evidence to show it does.

QuentinSummers · 27/08/2017 14:06
Confused What unrealistic is that you write off so many things that are blatantly not ok as ok. Either you are making stuff up or you are a severely damaged individual. I'm not sure what support you were hoping for on this board, but people cheerleading your lifestyle isn't going to happen. Because it's not ok for anyone to live like you do. If you do.
Rufustherenegadereindeer1 · 27/08/2017 14:06

coin

There have been people on here trying to be supportive towards you

QueenLaBeefah · 27/08/2017 14:04

Not especially, no.

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 14:03

Wow. Woman works in the sex industry. That sound so unrealistic.

QueenLaBeefah · 27/08/2017 14:01

*didn't (not didn't not)

QueenLaBeefah · 27/08/2017 14:00

I didn't not accept anything you say because it all sounds made up. I rest my case.

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 13:59

You're not going to accept what I say because you want to believe all women in the sex industry are victims. I rest my case.

QueenLaBeefah · 27/08/2017 13:55

Nope

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 13:54

There may be plenty of lite it my experience is that bar injury (which can happen in any job) it's not harmful to women. It hasn't been harmful to me. Being on the dole would be harmful to me. And yes it's all about money.

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 13:53

You don't have to believe me. Your opinion of me doesn't pay my bills. But at least accept what I'm saying as a woman who works in the industry.

CeeBeeBee · 27/08/2017 13:52

I don't believe anything Coin has written either. It's as if they have come on here to deliberately derail a thread and piss the feminists off.

There is plenty of literature containing studies about the harm porn does to users and women as a whole.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 27/08/2017 13:40

You were given expressions of sympathy on the Macron thread which you rejected. You told posters to stop feeling sorry for you. You rejected even considering the idea that what you were describing was sexual abuse- in your own words pre-teen sex with adults was "fun and enjoyable".

You then came on here and mounted a defence of the porn industry.

What "support" are you looking for beyond looking for posters to agree with you?

stitchglitched · 27/08/2017 13:40

Coin what about the poster who asked for support with her abusive partner? She currently has a social worker trying to help her end the relationship safely and you saw fit to go onto her thread and blame her and say how sorry you felt for her abuser.

I know this is a public forum and everyone has different opinions but yours are so harmful and damaging that were this my site you would be banned.

thesleepystorm · 27/08/2017 13:38

Also coin you will find that there are loads of feminists who support sex work and porn. Sadly.

thesleepystorm · 27/08/2017 13:37

Thank god I'm not after any kind of support from my fellow "sisters" eh?!

Good because I couldn't support anyone condoning and enabling the exploitation of women, female or not.

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 13:37

Not #allwomen yes #allfeminists

QueenLaBeefah · 27/08/2017 13:36

Well you're not after support from us are you so why are you upset that you didn't get it?

thecraddock · 27/08/2017 13:35

#not all men

but

#yesallwomen

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 13:34

Considering we're all anon on here none of us may be telling the truth. Thank god I'm not after any kind of support from my fellow "sisters" eh?!

QueenLaBeefah · 27/08/2017 13:33

That's the only truthful words you've written so far.

CoinOperatedGurl · 27/08/2017 13:32

I don't accept any kind of feminism tbh.

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