Yes Lass, I agree that legal wording is a different ballgame. It's useful to have a lawyer point that out.
Personally, I would like the word hate in there somewhere. Because it's high time this problem was highlighted and given the label it deserves.
I know there is a reluctance to 'grade' rape (culturally, I'm not sure if there is one legally) Which I agree with. Because there is a danger of minimising some rape a result.
But could you envisage a crime, that has misogyny at its heart, which could then be called a hate crime? Because many attacks on women do seem to be driven by hate.
And yes, I find male rape confusing. Not the rape, so much, but the fact that it is generally in prisons. It suggests that men will do anything to get their dick serviced. Which, in turn, indicates a sexual motivation.
And I know there is a power dynamic there too. But it seems to me to be very strange power dynamic. Unless there are an awful lot of men out there who can overcome their reluctance to anal sex, for the sake of the power it gives them? I would have thought a beating would have the same effect.
To me, male on male violence has more of a territorial, challenge, and power dynamic. Whereas male on female violence, although obviously containing a power dynamic, seems also to stem from bitterness, hate and resentment.