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Sex and relationship education.

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Moussemoose · 14/08/2017 16:27

A thread I inspired by another thread.

I work - think teacher but not quite - with young people from challenging backgrounds. Every year I have to deliver 'Sex and Relationship' education. When working with traditional groups, inner city boys and girls, we cover most issues you would expect and it is quite easy to add a feminist slant. Think indoctrinationWink

The point of the thread is when dealing with boys and girls - we teach them this separately - from outside the UK (asylum seekers, economic migrants)
what are the key messages to get across from a feminist perspective?

You can't get everything across. You need to pick key points to focus on. You have to be non aggressive or you loose the whole message. Some don't know the basic facts of life.

At the moment I cover a lot but focus on:

  1. basic biology
  2. wear a condom
  3. no means no

I'm going to integrate it more this year so will have a bit more scope. I want to cascade this to colleagues so we are all pushing the same message.

What will enable the women to control their lives and the boys to move towards a less patriarchal mindset? I say that because I am not going to win this battle just shift the ground a little we need to be realistic.

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DJBaggySmalls · 14/08/2017 17:09

I get where you;re coming from, we need to use a step by step approach. I think you've got the basic message in those 3 points.
Can you say something about sexual health and regular check ups being important for both sexes, and how women can see a female doctor or nurse? Men in some cultures seem to have a problem with women accessing healthcare.
Maybe you could use cystitis and thrush as examples, as they live on the skin and can flare up when we feel run down. You dont have to catch them from someone else. People sometimes assume their partner has been unfaithful.
But you can pass them on and both partners need treatment.

grasspigeons · 14/08/2017 17:08

Do you just teach boys?
I would remind girls to say no and I would explain to boys that 'no' might be quite subtle - anything less than enthusiasm is probably no
Both times I was sexually assaulted (minorly thank god) I froze.

AssassinatedBeauty · 14/08/2017 16:59

Do you have a set curriculum that you need to stick to or include specific content from?

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