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Women only swimming stopped

191 replies

Nickynackynoodle · 09/08/2017 23:14

Because of a complaint. Article and petition link here Angry

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RebelRogue · 11/08/2017 00:28

Well the person who complained did not want men only sessions,they just didn't want women having something just for them. That's where the thinking and protesting and complaining stops.
Equality innit?

purpleme12 · 11/08/2017 00:27

Our swimming pool does women only and men only sessions

Datun · 11/08/2017 00:22

I'll be more than happy if a swimming pool wanted to provide men only sessions. I'd be bloody shocked if there was any take up.

TitaniasCloset · 11/08/2017 00:21

But are men even requesting that? No point offering men only sessions if there are no takers.

buggerthebotox · 11/08/2017 00:17

I'm ok with women only sessions provided there are men-only sessions where women are prohibited.

Only fair. Imho. Smile

RebelRogue · 11/08/2017 00:17

@LassWiTheDelicateAir I never said it was? I just added it as another reason why they are needed/beneficial.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 11/08/2017 00:13

And yes @RebelRogue "there are women from other cultures and religions that can't or won't freely swim around men

If that were the only reason for having single sex sessions I think it is a very poor one, but it isn't the only reason.

Nickynackynoodle · 10/08/2017 23:58

vestal well said. Well fucking said.

airo so whilst we are not aspiring to that, these women can just... what? Sit in their houses? Have a word with yourself. Maybe do some reading or something to understand this issue.

Well done for being progressive, but fucking hell, listen to what women are saying?

98% of sex offenders are men. Women get wanked on whilst they are ON THE TUBE.

One fucking hour. Does that offend you so much?

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DJBaggySmalls · 10/08/2017 23:55

There is no harm whatsoever in having groups for a specific demographic.
People who dont like it can use the mixed sessions only as a point of principle and stop dictating to everyone else how they should live.

VestalVirgin · 10/08/2017 23:47

What are we not allowed to say we feel uncomfortable any more?

Because men don't like hearing that their behaviour as a class makes women uncomfortable. We are not allowed feelings. We are to be good little sex objects and shut up.
See also, men throwing tantrums about women not wanting to talk to them at fucking three a.m. in a lonely hotel hallway.

I don't believe that segregating women from men in swimming pools is of benefit to society.

I don't fucking care whether it is of benefit to "society". I am content that it is beneficial to women.

And for your information, I wouldn't mind a segregated society, either. If men can't behave, let's build a wall around half of the country and put them there until they have learnt to fucking behave themselves.

It is not women's job to smile and pretend that all is well when men harrass and rape us and then whine that it is oh so very difficult to prove and punish rape.

If I could just walk away from it all, if there was an island that was only for women, well, I'd go there.

But such things only exist in the Wonder Woman movie ...or not even there, as there's a dude there, too.

RebelRogue · 10/08/2017 23:46

@Airobnb indeed it is not. But until the day when their lives will change do you not think that them having a safe space,doing something they enjoy,socialise and mingle, out of the house,with no constraints is a good thing?
Do you think taking the option away from them is the way forward instead?

DeleteOrDecay · 10/08/2017 23:25

but I don't believe that segregating women from men in swimming pools is of benefit to society.

It doesn't do any harm either. Seriously it's one hour a week.

Do you feel the same about sessions for disabled people or pensioners?

TitaniasCloset · 10/08/2017 23:22

But I'm here telling you I don't feel comfortable and won't go swimming if it's mixed? Why I am not allowed to feel this way?

TheresSomebodyAtTheDoor · 10/08/2017 23:18

This is my local pool :(

Airobnb · 10/08/2017 23:17

Why @Nickynackynoodle are we only allowed to opt in the feminists board if we agree with the OP?

I'm a feminist and believe women are equal to men a d I understand the need for separate changing facilities and toilets but I don't believe that segregating women from men in swimming pools is of benefit to society.
And yes @RebelRogue "there are women from other cultures and religions that can't or won't freely swim around men".
You are right, but I do not think that as a civilised society, that is something to aspire to.

Of course abused women feel uncomfortable around men in close proximity situations. But there are men everywhere, on the tube, sharing lifts, etc, which are much closer than swimming pools and often unavoidable situations in life. We can't hide from them. If we go down that road, we end up with a segregated society.

TitaniasCloset · 10/08/2017 23:17

What are we not allowed to say we feel uncomfortable any more? We always have to justify our private spaces and there is always some woman who bounces in and says she is fine with complete nudity in front of strange men so we all should be. Fuck off.

TitaniasCloset · 10/08/2017 23:14

I just don't like being around men when I'm half naked/in a swimsuit, this would put me off going swimming.

I come from a religion where you are supposed to cover up, I'm overweight and have had nasty comments from men while out and have had bad past experiences. I don't want to go to mixed swimming sessions.

TheNightmanCometh · 10/08/2017 22:58

Apparently you don't do law either angel...

BakedBeans47 · 10/08/2017 22:31

That is terrible I would be lost if they did that where I live and talking to other women at swimming I am not alone. In fact they did stop the ladies' session a few years back but brought it back again shortly afterwards.

DearMrDilkington · 10/08/2017 22:29

I've signed.

Surely they can do another session the same for men only, then nobody can complain. Problem solved.

NapQueen · 10/08/2017 22:29

Benefit of living in the midst of an orthodox jewish community Grin there would be uproar if the women only sessions were cancelled here. Our pool also does male only and adult only too.

ITCouldBeWorse · 10/08/2017 22:25

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RebelRogue · 10/08/2017 22:07

Can you not even imagine how a woman who has been abused might feel in a mixed sex swimming session? Go on, try. Imagine.

Not only that but there are women from other cultures and religions that can't or won't freely swim around men. I guess they don't deserve one hour a week either.

OytheBumbler · 10/08/2017 21:47

Looking at my local baths - the main pool has loads of sessions aimed at particular groups -swimming lessons, fun sessions, disabled swimming, over 50 swimming, aqua-aerobics, synchronised swimming and a women only session.

If a person needs to swim at one particular time it's up to them to find a pool that accommodates them.

Nickynackynoodle · 10/08/2017 21:47

airib have you done any research into this outside of your own bubble? Do you know how many women experience sexual harassment even when fully dressed and in broad daylight?

Can you not even imagine how a woman who has been abused might feel in a mixed sex swimming session? Go on, try. Imagine.

One hour. One fucking hour. That's all they were asking for. One. Hour.

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