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Sexist M&S toilet signs

92 replies

OlennasWimple · 08/08/2017 21:19

Small victory reported here although the complaints seem to have focused on the child with the woman on the sign, rather than the fact she is wearing a pink dress. (Though fortunately it wasn't THE pink M&S dress...)

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Infowars1 · 11/08/2017 10:58

What you wear has zero bearing on how you are, It's kind of illogical for feminists to be saying, oh she's wearing a dress how awful! She can't possibly be a strong independent woman in dress!

SweetieDarling11 · 11/08/2017 10:58

*de-robe

SweetieDarling11 · 11/08/2017 10:57

Also women have to de-tone exposing all their genitalia to do a wee. Men don't have to. That's why separate toilets should exist (in general).

SweetieDarling11 · 11/08/2017 10:56

If you have unisex toilets everywhere, some people will take advantage. Be careful what you wish for!

RolfNotRudolf · 11/08/2017 10:55

Thank you AB - you put it much better than me

AssassinatedBeauty · 11/08/2017 10:53

It is interesting that the male sign has a tie which is business dress or occasion wear, whereas the female sign has an informal dress. That's presumably what stereotype the designer could drag out of their brain when thinking what a man or woman would wear.

As an aside, I find it fascinating how other people want to police idle chit chat on the internet.

RolfNotRudolf · 11/08/2017 10:51
  • wear suits
RolfNotRudolf · 11/08/2017 10:51

Pink, floral frocks are not generally considered suitable attire for women doing the sort of jobs where men are expected to where suits- ergo the M&S depiction is of men at work and women staying at home as carers.

RolfNotRudolf · 11/08/2017 10:47

Amateee please let us know what is the no. one problem today and we can all put our energies into solving that. When that's done we'll go on to no. 2, then 3 ...

Infowars1 · 11/08/2017 10:47

so u can't be authoritarian in a dress?

RolfNotRudolf · 11/08/2017 10:45

The man gets to wear clothes of authority - a tie, and by uminplication a suit; while the woman is in girly clothing - that sends a sexist message.

MamaMagellanic · 11/08/2017 10:39

This seems like such a huge waste of energy.

The symbols on toilets are understood by everyone. Leave it alone!

Infowars1 · 11/08/2017 10:34

It's just a toilet sign, really not worth getting "offended" over they have looked the same way all my life, why even waste time on it

Datun · 11/08/2017 10:27

In terms of symbols, Trafalgar Square decided to use the international symbols for man and woman on pedestrian crossings.

People did get very confused. Not so much because they didn't understand which was which, but because they didn't know if it meant women had to cross at a different time to men!

AssassinatedBeauty · 11/08/2017 09:49

No one at all has said it's the number one problem facing the world today. In fact it's been acknowledged as a very minor thing. Odd that you think otherwise.

Amatree · 11/08/2017 09:31

Yes, because this is clearly the number one problem facing the world today. Really?! Hmm

VestalVirgin · 11/08/2017 09:28

Bearing in mind that people learn new things all the time, I'm pretty sure that it would take about 5 seconds for an averagely intelligent person to learn XX and XY (or any other non-stereotyping symbols).

Yes, exactly.
Why should we have those outdated pictures of women in dresses when a new sign could be learnt in 5 seconds?

Also, in the UK most people are going to know which chromosomes are which (if they don't actively refuse to remember).

I suggest we show the y chromosome in its real size, which is much smaller than the X, that makes them easier to differentiate AND is factually accurate, too!

People who don't know can be taught by it being on the same sign as some other symbols, or by just following everyone else.

I didn't use to mind the woman in a dress thing, but it seems to confuse so many people about the facts according to which the toilets are separated, so I think it is time it was changed.

MineKraftCheese · 11/08/2017 09:15

There are international symbols for the male and female sex. These should be used.

elfinpre · 10/08/2017 03:21

Toilets in Irish pubs in the UK used to cause confusion.

Mná - ladies

Fir - gents

elfinpre · 10/08/2017 03:17

I don't mind unisex toilets when they are individual cubicles with sinks and mirrors inside and a generally good design.

I do mind sharing sinks and mirrors with men in a communal area near the toilets.

notevernotnevernotnohow · 10/08/2017 03:05

Take it up with Wikipedia and Google then. It doesn't much matter what you believe if it is so engrained to be that belief and as you say choosing the symbols for Mars and Venus aren't much better

It says "Citation needed" on wiki! It's just someones opinion with no referencing.

notevernotnevernotnohow · 10/08/2017 03:03

The complaint was regarding the child symbol being added to the womens toilets and not the mens.
It had nothing to do with the male or female signs or graphics.

Dontfuckingsaycheese · 10/08/2017 02:23

This is much more appropriate.

Sexist M&S toilet signs
WiganPierre · 10/08/2017 02:05

Pringle I think the days are long gone when women were ashamed of their periods etc. Men know about all that and are used to seeing women putting on their makeup.

Well i'm certainly not used to strange men watching me do my makeup, and don't appreciate being watched by men as I bend over the sink to look in the mirror, which has happened to me before in unisex toilets. Doing your makeup, adjusting your tights, looking in the mirror, changing a pad or tampon are all vulnerable moments for women. Nothing to do with "being ashamed of periods" or whatever.

I won't use unisex toilets, I leave and find segregated ones.

KickAssAngel · 10/08/2017 01:43

Again - whatever system people choose to use, it could very quickly and easily be learnt. It could be F and M or XX or any symbols. Given that most 5 year olds can learn the alphabet, I think it fairly obvious that people could learn a couple of new symbols - particularly if the old & new symbols were used together for a while.

And it's amazing how flexible people can be. I'm staying in a beach area atm, and the toilet signs abound with "buoys" and "gulls". Amazingly, I'm intelligent enough to work out which one I should use.