You're under the mistaken impression I want to persuade you of anything, Mr. "I read something in Psychology Today".
I am a fifty-something career scientist who has spent five fucking decades fighting against this shit. I am so done with being polite to some random on the internet who's popped up from nowhere to come onto an established feminist board for the shitz 'n' gigglz to "educate" us poor wimmin. I don't give a shit what you think, I don't give a shit if you continue to think it (in fact I'm pretty sure you'd continue to believe in your ingrained superiority no matter whether I played nicey-nice with you or told you to fuck off - because you're not here for discussion, and any claims to the contrary are a pile of complete bullshit disingenuous wankery).
Normally I try to speak to the lurkers, but on this issue, frankly, either you're on the side of the angels or you've done a deal with the devil. I am not an inferior failed male who's almost okay at science despite my sex, I am a full and equal human being whose particular skill happens to be science. If you can't get your head round that, that's your problem, not mine.
I just want equal pay to my male colleagues, an equal chance of promotion on my merits. (Fortunately both of these seem to be getting a bit closer in my chosen bit of science - but clearly Silicon Valley is way behind the curve on this one).
Rant over. Ah, that felt better.