Yeah, yeah, evil women, causing male violence. Except when there's a debate on which parent should stay at home with the kids, then it is the mother who is sooo much better at it because women are nurturing and gentle because nature. Except when a child turns out to have grown up into a criminal. Then it is obvously all the mother's fault. Because she wasn't as gentle and nurturing as everyone born with XX chromosomes allegedly is. Except when they're not.
The double-think makes my brain ache, it really does.
It makes no fucking sense whatsoever.