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Changing gender without any medical care/advice/opinion - just saying 'I'm a woman' and it being so

240 replies

Oscha · 23/07/2017 07:49

www.bbc.co.uk/news/uk-40692782

I feel so naive right now-I didn't think this would really get to this point: So they actually want to make it possible to turn around and say, 'I am a man/woman' without any kind of doctor's confirmation of gender dysphoria?

What the fuck is this going to do to women's prisons? How many female criminals will end up abused, raped, killed by MEN in what should be safe places for them?! This is nothing to do with trans people-this is just going to be taken advantage of by predatory men.

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Lemonjello · 25/07/2017 23:18

These threads get so bogged down with the ins and outs of bathrooms and such like, but the real issue, for me anyway, is that of truth, living a truthful life and living in a world where truth, facts and reality are upheld. the self id proposals chick that completely out the window as that article expresses so well.

Lemonjello · 25/07/2017 23:14

Puff paw that article is outstanding.

BertrandRussell · 25/07/2017 22:28

Does anyone know how all this started? It seems extraordinary to me that we've gone so incredibly quickly to self identification and anyone who thinks even slightly differently is a transphobe. How did it happen? Governments don't usually do things unless they are lobbied. Who is lobbying? Cui bono?

IndominusRex · 25/07/2017 21:52

Do we know of any MPs who are on the feminist side on this? Just seen Stella Creasy (who I usually love) tweeting about trans phobia.
Was it Caroline Flint who raised concerns previously?

VestalVirgin · 25/07/2017 19:16

But my colleague's view is also that it is difficult to imagine that, after living an almost entire life as a man, including under wartime conditions, that Barry would not have started to "identify" [not in a TRA use of the word] as a man in daily life.

Well, yeah, in a way.

I also "identify" as man if I pretend to be male on the internet. (Which I sometimes do in order to not be harrassed) I then try to act like the man I would be if I were a man.

I guess if you do this full time, you can get to the point that you are mildly surprised to find that your trousers don't contain a penis when you go to the toilet. But all this proves is that "gender identity" is learnt.

And instead of harming themselves with surgery, transmen could just learn to identify as women.

There's probably some few people for whom transsexuality is a body-map issue - the brain has a map of the body, and in some people, a body part is missing, resulting in them feeling that body part does not belong to them.
That probably can't be cured with psychotherapy.

But this new wave of female trans who "feel like men" and many of whom just so happen to be lesbian - no one will tell me that this is not caused by internalized misogyny.

Datun · 25/07/2017 19:06

Masculinity can definitely be learned.

Some of the most foul mouth abuse I have seen has come from transmen. Ragingly misogynistic. Really foul. With a female bent. So a bit more 'lavatorial' than sexual.

WeyHay · 25/07/2017 18:58

It is outrageous that James Barry is now considered transgender. She had no other option at that time as a female but to masquerade as a man

I've discussed this historical case with a colleague working on writing her/his history. My colleague's view is interesting: that yes, Miranda Barry needed to become James Barry to do what she wanted to do.

But my colleague's view is also that it is difficult to imagine that, after living an almost entire life as a man, including under wartime conditions, that Barry would not have started to "identify" [not in a TRA use of the word] as a man in daily life.

My colleague is very far from a transactivist (although also not really a radical feminist), and I think there's a point there - it shows that masculinity can be learned. Which is precisely the point that any of us would want to make, I think. That gender roles - masculinity & femininity - are learned, ie socially constructed.

But my colleague's work doesn't attempt to erase Barry's femaleness, and recognises that her cross-dressing came about because of the restrictions on Victorian women. My colleague is not the English HEritage people either!

Elendon · 25/07/2017 12:09

Pen names in male names are of course still going on. Take J K Rowling for instance. This is a good link regarding female writers

mashable.com/2015/03/01/female-authors-pen-names/#UAg9B7MGGPqD

Elendon · 25/07/2017 12:06

It is outrageous that James Barry is now considered transgender. She had no other option at that time as a female but to masquerade as a man.

cuirderussie · 25/07/2017 11:37

Don't forget the Brontes who published as Currer, Acton and Ellis Bell, clearly trans! Oh wait. It was because it wasn't respectable for women to write novels. God these ignorant ahistorical fuckers drive me mad.

StormFrontage · 25/07/2017 11:15

Fucking hell. Next it'll be Gertrude Bell as transman for wearing a split skirt for riding horseback astride.

George Eliot, is she now a transgender figure, too? Or is it just a clothes and hair thing?

This is meddling with the history of women's lived experiences.

And am I am transperson because my MN name is gender-obscuring? Utter madness.

cuirderussie · 25/07/2017 11:08

How fucking dare they do that to James Barry. I just read her recent bio and I'm furious.

PoppyJ1 · 25/07/2017 11:02

Classics erasure of women's oppression there, NoLoveOfMine! I suppose that would make Jane Austen a trans man too. What rot!

thegoodnameshadgone · 25/07/2017 10:34

It's just fucking stupid. I have no words. Next will be I can identify as any animal as I want.

NoLoveofMine · 25/07/2017 10:13

www.theguardian.com/society/2017/jul/25/secret-transgender-victorian-surgeon-feted-by-heritage-england

Apparently a woman who was forced to claim to be a man as women weren't allowed to practice is now "trans" Hmm

NoLoveofMine · 25/07/2017 08:41

Could you try asking her to define what a woman is notafish? Or ask what she thinks about anyone who merely decides they're "defining as a woman" having access to women's refuges or rape crisis centres? I empathise with the frustration as I experience similar with some friends.

notafish · 25/07/2017 08:37

If labour are supportive of this they can change their slogan to 'for the few, not the many'

I'm also very scared, having teenage daughters, what this means for their future. However, BBC programmes showing sad children transitioning have got to my eldest and she rolls her eyes at any of my criticisms.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/07/2017 21:58

It's very graphic but on the basis that a picture is worth a thousand words it might help if more people knew what's involved in gender reassignment surgery (for both men and women) and saw the effects on previously healthy young women of binding their breasts. How the medical and psychology professions aren't up in arms about this absolutely beats me. How can it be ethical to be pushing people, who in most cases are clearly very troubled, down a surgical route instead of getting them some sort of therapy? I'm not one for conspiracy theories but Big Pharma has a very obvious interest here. Sad Angry

Lancelottie · 24/07/2017 21:48

'this had shifted a wee bit...'
Thought you were talking about the reassignment surgery for a moment there.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/07/2017 21:37

And yes, they took it down because of the petition itself. On this thread or the AIBU one somebody has pasted the explanation in.

Gasp0deTheW0nderD0g · 24/07/2017 21:36

There's a new 38 degrees petition. Get in quick before this one is also taken down.

WeyHay · 24/07/2017 21:27

WHAT happened to the 38 Degree petition? I signed, but have also seen the notice that it's been withdrawn because of content? What comments were left which could have caused this?

Or were 38 Degrees pressured about the nature of the petition itself?

tosto · 24/07/2017 19:19

As someone who has been wanked at as well as being rounded on by a group of 8 or so men and verbally abused (sexual language) on tube carriages at night, I wasn't quite as opposed to Corbyn's suggestion of women-only night carriages as others who called it "barmy". Now he's happy for men to self-identify as women and have access to the most vulnerable of safe spaces... that really is fucking barmy.