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Ched Evans explains to women how to not get raped

143 replies

Collidascope · 18/05/2017 09:54

www.dailypost.co.uk/news/north-wales-news/ched-evans-warns-women-getting-13052701

We just need to not get drunk apparently, as genuine rapists will prey on us if we're hammered. Well, that's a relief. I thought there might be a bit more to it than that, but it seems not.

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dangerrabbit · 19/05/2017 07:02

Wow.

I came onto this thread to post the helpful rape prevention tips for men, but I see frankiemczoo has beaten me to it.

What next, Ian Brady's murder prevention tips?!

ProcrastinatingSquid2 · 19/05/2017 06:57

Also, apparently 12,000 men in England and Wales are raped a year (compared to 85,000 women), and yet I never hear this advice being directed at men. It's almost as if we don't think there's anything morally reprehensible about men going out drinking, so it doesn't occur to us to advise them to stop it...

ProcrastinatingSquid2 · 19/05/2017 06:49

May as well cut the whole service! Its quite clear they all get away with it.

I think it's 5.7% of reported rapes that lead to conviction in the UK. And most rapes aren't even reported. Clearly Ched Evans spouting drivel about drunk women putting themselves in danger and the police having an agenda is just what this country needs right now.

GardenGeek · 18/05/2017 20:45

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MadameSzyszkoBohush · 18/05/2017 20:36

The best way to prevent rape is by keeping Ched Evans away from all women for the rest of his life. Sadly impractical.

OneFlewOverTheDodosNest · 18/05/2017 20:35

I'm still shocked by the fact that two obviously bribed witnesses were allowed to give evidence.

Never mind that they'd also clearly been coached / were just repeating facts from the first case that had been published in the national media.

Brogadaccio · 18/05/2017 20:32

His poor victim. Not only was she raped by a man who is utterly determined to cast himself as a victim of raping her, but two men she'd slept with in the past came forward with "information" for money. You could say they owed her nothing, but for money they sided with a rapist.

Jesus Christ that poor woman.

Brogadaccio · 18/05/2017 20:29

I agree that he knows he raped that woman but he's a GENUINE NARCISSIST who wants to control the public's thoughts and perceptions.

OvariesBeforeBrovaries · 18/05/2017 20:24

What a cunt. His poor victim :(

He'll forever be Ched Evans The Rapist as far as I'm concerned.

SnipSnipMrBurgess · 18/05/2017 20:17

I wish I hadnt read that tbh. I feel so sad for my children, in particular my daughter that this is what is out there.

So many people read the shit this scumbag spouts and believe it.

That poor woman hasnt a chance to escape this prick.

squishee · 18/05/2017 19:56

Thank you Ched Rapist Evans for your unsollicited life coaching.

sobeyondthehills · 18/05/2017 19:39

Just read the title out to DP, his reply, not to be near Ched Evans

MrsDoylesTeabags · 18/05/2017 19:37

Gluteus, I'm so sorry that happened to you and your friend.
It's a sick world we live in.
This man knows exactly what he did and I wouldn't be suprised if he'd done it before. He seems to have a very self serving view of the whole thing, keeps talking about how sorry he is for the victim as if he was just some innocent bystander, but won't just STFU and let her get on with her life.

Terfing · 18/05/2017 19:36

I feel awful for his baby son. How selfish of him to bring an innocent baby into this mess! Sad

gluteustothemaximus · 18/05/2017 19:24

NoLoveofMine - no it doesn't sound trite Smile

Absolutely, there is only one person responsible for rape; the rapist.

Corlan - yes, this is what happened:

Ched appealed. Refused.
Ched's girlfriend offered 50k for anyone to bring 'new' information.
Two people came forward who had slept with the victim.
Ched appealed. Retrial granted.
Men who slept with victim (one prior to incident and one after) - explained how they had similar drunk sex with her, doggy style, and said 'fuck me'

Apparently this all sounded very familiar to ched evening - created reasonable doubt - and not guilty verdict given.

Plenty of twitter followers think not guilty means innocent Hmm

corlan · 18/05/2017 19:22

Dear God! So now he's giving us advice on how not to get raped? Funny old world innit? You can't make this shit up!

DeleteOrDecay · 18/05/2017 19:06

He appealed, got the conviction quashed and then got found not guilty in a re-trial based on the victims past sexual history. I kid you not.

Xenophile · 18/05/2017 19:04

He appealed.

corlan · 18/05/2017 18:48

I thought Ched Evans was a convicted rapist.
What am I missing?

Edsheeranalbumparty · 18/05/2017 18:44

Ched knows he raped that woman. He knows.

Yep.

gluteustothemaximus · 18/05/2017 18:41

Xenophile - thank you x

She was incredibly strong. I admire her so much for going through it all, to get him off the streets. He did go away, but probably out now Sad

NoLoveofMine · 18/05/2017 18:38

I hope you and your friend are alright gluteustothemaximus (and hope that doesn't sound trite).

That's the reality of rape. The only one in any way responsible is the attacker. The only way to prevent it is rapists stop perpetrating such abhorrent attacks.

MrsDoylesTeabags · 18/05/2017 18:32

Wow, he'll never finish hounding her will he? What a disgusing creature he is.

I wonder if he is aware that some women get raped while they are sober?

Hmm, heres a thought. Maybe it's not victims who case rape but rapist who case rape. Or maybe thats a bit to much of a stretch for people like him

Xenophile · 18/05/2017 18:31

Oh gluteus, I am so sorry. You being there for your friend might have been what saved her sanity, you're good people. Flowers

gluteustothemaximus · 18/05/2017 18:27

When you've sat with your friend in hospital, that you hardly recognise because she's been beaten so badly, holding her hand whilst she tries to tell the police what happened, when she has to wait 6 months for an AIDS test, when her attacker pleads not guilty so she has to go through the ordeal of a trial...

and they bring up her sexual history and ask how much she'd had to drink. That's when you feel anger you did not know existed Angry

Ched's 'advice' would have made no difference that night.