Did I over react ?

He withheld information for no reason and rewarded you for compliant behaviour. I'd be extremely concerned about any female partner and children.

Are you actually being serious? He probably just couldn't be arsed to text complicated directions. She was being lazy herself by not just googling the directions!

Really VerySmall? You say good boy to your boss? The only creature I use that kind of language on is my pets

I think on its own that's fine and you over reacted. I say good boy to my boss, he's 30 years older than me. It's just a jokey phrase not sexist unless in specific context surely?

He withheld information for no reason and rewarded you for compliant behaviour. I'd be extremely concerned about any female partner and children.

Tell him about Google Maps, and how you can get a route postcode to postcode.

It does infantile you, no doubt about that.

I also don't like the implication that you would have been a "bad girl" if you didn't want to meet with him and let him walk you etc.

Also, it just doesn't make sense. It's such an odd reply. 'Good girl for agreeing with me'.
'Good' would have been fine, as the implications is the agreed situation is good. Adding girl makes it seem like your agreement to him was good.

Also, I know he didn't mean that it was 'too complicated' to explain to you because you're a woman (directions are hard on text, I can't even give them verbally most of the time when out and someone asks), but couple that statement with the 'good girl' and it changes the tone of it.

I probably wouldn't have made a huge deal out of it. Perhaps I would have asked him not to call me 'girl' and not told him his reply was rather patronising. I would probably just keep an eye on him when you're out, see if he gives off anymore slips like that.

Save up all the slips... Unleash the beast later. That's what I do in life anyway. Not healthy though.

No he was incredibly rude. 'Good girl?' FFS. You are a woman and one quite literally old enough to be his mother at that, and what, he's saying you're behaving yourself by dutifully doing as you're told, allowing him to polish his shining armour by helping the damsel in distress who wouldn't be able to get her lady brain around complicated directions!?

In the right frame of mind I would also have gone postal. Best result would be a clear factual explanation of why his attitude stinks though, delivered calmly and with a smile so he can't accuse you of being hysterical.

But bloody hell get on google maps and work the directions out for yourself

Then i wouldnt ever put myself in a position where i needed him to help me out.

He has probabtly text that to get that exact reaction out of you.

Unless he has form for being a twat, i woild have politely told him not to call me that and given the reasons.

I dont see tge need to go 'postal on his ass' and 'rip him a new one' .

Lunch is going to be awkward and he would have probably listened and taken it more if you had been calm and polite about it.

That would really, really piss me off too

But I am a bit of a 'waiter and hater' rather than being immediacy firey.

If someone called me a 'good girl' I'd mark them down in my head as a bit of a twat, and I'd remember it (irrespective of how lovely they were), but I probably wouldn't go postal on their ass.