What does female sexuality tell us about evolution and pre-historic sex?

"Umm, we can play them ourselves or with a device."

Right, now I'm stuck with an image of myself holding a violin bow, and wondering what to do with it! . Not a great improvement!

I guess I'm objecting to the myself (and my body) as separate, and my body being a thing that needs playing. It's all me, and someone better get my head included before they start fiddling(!!!) with the tuning knobs..................

Or maybe I'm just not very musical..............

As regards the 'those babies are mine' line for supposedly explaining why men need to be possessive, I'm just reading Cordelia Fine Testosterone Rex, and the 'males compete for female' line isn't going so well for humans (chimps and bonobos 'cheat' a lot). Amongst chimps, a male being willing and enthusiastic to hold and carry babies makes him a lot of female friends, and improves his prospects. The simple big strong man brings home the bacon (or mammoth steaks), and laydees just want a big, strong hairy man to protect her from the sabre-tooth (and she'll expect him to be possessive and jealous cos how else will he know the babies are his) line is seeming to be a story that men told to explain their existing behaviour (hurrah, Darwin says it's just evolution!) -- but seems not to be the case when anyone actually measures stuff.

But since when do men care all that much about children? For most of human history they had nothing much to do with them - they were just collateral damage of their orgasms (especially the girls).

I don't agree with this. The idea of the heir has been important in many (most?) cultures that I have read about. And the need for more bodies to work the land and so on.

Ava5 - They care a lot about not being taken advantage of by other men, for example having to put effort into supporting a child that someone else fathered.
Later on, inheritance became a big deal for people with something to inherit, because it continues your status on after your death in the form of your son.

YES (YES, YES, yes, YES,.............)

"Women's bodies can be played like violins...."
I reject this type of language, that our bodies are something that need to be played by someone else!

If bonobos are anything to go by, sex in terms of a secondary 'purpose' (i.e. non-procreative) is an old part of our history and evolution. The fact that bonobos have sexual interactions amongst the group, male-male, female-female, as well as male-female, shows that our current PIV male-female is rather retstricted from a bonobo point of view. Also old given that humans are more than willing to engage in sexual activity when a woman is fairly unlikely to conceive.

"I heard some where that lesbians tend to have epic, long-lasting sessions." As one myself, I can of course confirm that the answer is YES (YES, YES, yes, YES,.............) .
Although this is of course something that anyone could achieve with a woman if the whole shebang wasn't required to stop when he did, or require the active participation of a penis......................

It isn't "supposed" to do anything unless you are a creationist.

I think female orgasms are the most convincing evidence for creationism.

Elendon
I agree - i'm sure it means a lot less piv and less pregnancy.

Some examples of Patriarchy. Perhaps it's because of jealousy that women can have multiple orgasms.

Jealousy that women are the the life givers, but it's their choice.

Subjugation. Subjugate women and their menfolk feel that as well.

Some examples of freedom from Patriarchy.

Perhaps men were not socialised so much to have sex every day.

Perhaps sexuality was expressed in bi sexuality, thus relieving the onus on a woman to be perpetually pregnant.

I'm sure that prehistoric sex, I'm presuming you mean heterosexual penis in vagina, was a rare thing, perhaps once every two or three years. I'm sure that men were in one group and women in another. Both coexisted but the twain had respect for each other. Shared ideas and healed.

I think the patriarchal (under the guise of religion) demonising of female sexuality + misogyny + enforcement of male dominance has really skewed sexual behaviour and driven out eroticism if favour of this spectrum of BDSM and rapeyness.

It is interesting that women get turned on by watching male singers, instrumentalists, artists and other creative at work.... the inference is "ooh I bet he'd be amazing in bed".

That makes me think there is a component in human sexuality a bit like other species - where the female judges the males' singing, dancing or nest-building skills.

I also think that the build-up to female sexuality suggests bonding - and possibly lesbianism - like bonobos - I heard some where that lesbians tend to have epic, long-lasting sessions.

I also think there might be a means of selecting out the males who have no tenderness, flair or sincerity towards a female from breeding.

However - I contradict my own hypothesis there, because the bloke who was the best in bed for me was also an incredible artist - but I didn't want his kids - he was too arty-farty and impractical for me....
musing....

Its worth remembering that just because a characteristic exists, doesn't mean its has been positively useful in survival and therefore evolution. It just means the characteristic didn't reduce survival, adaptive behaviour etc. It could just be a something hitching a ride on a useful bit of DNA.

Female sexuality is a highly complex set of behaviours and responses - some of which may have actively contributed to evolution and survival and other elements not. I doubt its the product of just one gene

I have no idea but I like that you've raised the issue.

Perhaps we really are here to enjoy, to go smiling.

I have always assumed it facilitates pair bonding. It isn't "supposed" to do anything unless you are a creationist.