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Until we organise as well as the transactivists we're not going to stem the problem

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dorade · 09/03/2017 10:13

Everyone, regardless of race, creed or sex is entitles to the same human rights.

I have three issues with much of the current trans ideology:

  1. The erosion of women's spaces, sports, achievements and quotas by biological males who wish to identify as females.
  1. The transing (and therefore subjection to lifelong medical treatments, invasive surgery and potential sterilisation) of children for failure to comply with societally-imposed gender norms.
  1. The erasure of lesbians, either by transing of potentially lesbian girls or by transwomen claiming to be lesbians.

The trans lobby is vocal and well funded. They have found an enormously soft target in schools/government/social care, all of whom unsurprisingly associate transgender with gay and lesbian issues and don't want to repeat the bigotry that gay and lesbian people were (and are) subjected to. Identity is not the same as sexual orientation. A person's sexual orientation treads on no-one else's rights. The same cannot be said for gender identity.

When articles, such as the recent transgender rapist one, appear in the press, the vast majority of comments show that the public is not fooled. Yet people keep quiet so as not to appear bigoted, thus allowing the movement to steamroller on at the expense of women and children.

I believe that the main target for opposition should be in our schools. Organisations such as Gires and Gendered Intelligence distribute material that promotes ideas such as pink and blue brains and that any child can choose whether to be a girl or a boy to impressionable children, backed up by teachers. Opposition to this is needed and it is not happening in any concerted way. I think a backlash has every chance of succeeding as there is huge latent support for it.

The average person in the street knows little to nothing of trans issues, but is likely to believe that a transwoman will have had his penis removed. The fact that in 2 weeks' time the Government is going to be debating replacing sex with gender identity as a protected characteristic is way off the radar of 99% of the population.

Mumsnet is brilliant in debating these issues, but we need to take it to the next level.

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Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:53

Oh dear - seems I've upset Bev too.

Its always difficult when facts get in the way of a good argument.

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:51

Blimey cooljazz we're not in the playground!

Your post illustrates the level of discourse that I refer to above and might be enough to persuade me stay! 😎

Keep reading folks. People show their true colours when they are under pressure. 😉

BevGoldbergsSister · 10/03/2017 10:50

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PageNowFoundFileUnderSpartacus · 10/03/2017 10:50

Ignore the attempt at derailing, Iris has tried this on most trans/gender self ID threads and isn't likely to stop their tactics now if people continue to engage.

I've posted in support of your Caroline Flint web chat suggestion, CoolJazz. A Twitter thread would be a good idea as proposed by a PP - it could become a directory of who to follow and also highlight any particularly prolific dangerous/vile/threatening Twitter accounts so that we could be forewarned about who is likely to turn nasty.

Datun · 10/03/2017 10:50

So you speak for a diverse minority now?

Nope. They have spoken for themselves. Categorically.

www.aissg.org/21_OVERVIEW.HTM

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:49

I have posted as much as I am willing to on this thread. It really is a waste of my time to continue given the level of discourse. Hopefully some will read what I have posted and have a clearer idea of the issues😀

WobblyLegs5 · 10/03/2017 10:49

I will define gender for you, it's a hyrarchy impossed on females by the patriarchy

CoolJazz · 10/03/2017 10:48

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WobblyLegs5 · 10/03/2017 10:47

There are numerous examples that have already happened in other countries who have passed this bill to show how rights of gender identity trample over the rights of females, including women being raped and murdered. That are linked on the other thread iris, and you ignored those examples then.

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:46

Thanks Bev.

Its nice to see the standard of response is as high as the standard of knowledge, understanding and courtesy in these threads. 😉

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:45

Datun Name one what? Your question, like so much in these threads is unclear.😀

BevGoldbergsSister · 10/03/2017 10:44

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Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:43

I'm quite secure in my knowledge of disorders thanks Bev.
Whilst you are correct in that most Turner's identify as female and most Klinefelter's identify as male it is not always the case.
I notice that you ignore the other disorders and my point about physical abnormalities 😉😄

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:41

So you speak for a diverse minority now? On what basis? From the position of the privilege of having a gender identity that is consistent with your sex chromosomes.
And repeatedly saying gender is binary does not change the facts.
Given the complexities of chromosome and physical abnormalities and of what constitutes femininity and masculinity how do you define gender?
If only it was as simple as some believe - has a penis is a bloke, has a uterus and ovaries and a vagina is a woman. But as I ahve shown above it just ain't so. 😉

BevGoldbergsSister · 10/03/2017 10:39

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CoolJazz · 10/03/2017 10:38

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Datun · 10/03/2017 10:37

Protecting the rights of one group - those who are trans - does not entail reducing the rights of another - women.

Name one.

PageNowFoundFileUnderSpartacus · 10/03/2017 10:37

Place marking with interest as keen to support some concerted action.

Please ignore anyone who tries to conflate transgenderism with being intersex. Many intersex people have requested that TRAs stop doing so as they feel their biological makeup is irrelevant to the debate and they resent being used to further a cause they do not believe in. The vast, vast majority of intersex people are not transgender. Anyone who continues to treat the two states as linked is being deliberately obtuse, rude and lacking in empathy.

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:36

There also seems to be a belief that there are many, many trans people who are just waiting to 'invade female toilets and changing rooms' so that they can wave their penises around and to dominate women's spaces and women's organisations etc.
This is all part of a familiar narrative of demonisation and the kinds of things that are being posted in these threads are from the very same narrative of racism and homophobia.
Protecting the rights of one group - those who are trans - does not entail reducing the rights of another - women. It is a tragedy that we are being divided as a community by this issue.
Focus on fighting for the equality of all and justice for all rather than attacking other victims of bigotry and oppression.

Datun · 10/03/2017 10:35

As you can see the area of sex recognition and gender identity is very complex.

Ridiculous. Sex is a binary - TWO. Even intersex uses that binary.

And Iris The intersex society in this country have repeatedly asked people to not include them in transgender debates. GIRES tried to pressure them into a collaboration, which they flatly refused.

It is utterly disrespectful to intersex people to try and co-opt them to endorse the transgender ideology. They have asked repeatedly that you don't do it.

CoolJazz · 10/03/2017 10:34

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 10/03/2017 10:32

Can we all agree not to be sidetracked? Iris has posted on several thread with intntion of engaging or dabate and while she has no idea what a woman is

I'm less charitable. It reads to me like the poster known as Iris is simply trying to sidetrack. ...

I think it is important to focus on doing something re this bill and the issue writ large.

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:26

*but not bit.

Iris65 · 10/03/2017 10:25

Hi Bev,

A woman is - well its complicated - bit that's not an answer that many accept. The existence of chromosomal and physical abnormalities means that we have to accept that a woman is someone who identifies as such.

If we try and define it any other way then we end up telling people who have abnormal sex chromosomes that they are either of the gender with which they don't identify or are somehow 'intersex' and cannot be categorised - which causes all sorts of problems.

The incidence of these abnormalities is surprisingly common: "The most common sex chromosome aneuploidies are 45,X (Turner syndrome); 47,XXY (Klinefelter syndrome); 47,XYY (XYY syndrome); and 47,XXX, which have birth frequencies of approximately 1 in 2500, 1 in 500 to 1 in 1000, 1 in 850 to 1 in 3000, and 1 in 1000, respectively." From: www.uptodate.com/contents/sex-chromosome-abnormalities

Those who are fortunate enought to have a gender identity which is consistent with our chromosomes and/or don't have sex chromosome abnormalities often find it difficult to understand or empathise with those who don't.

The other issue with using chromosomal or physical standards is that people are born with genital and reporductive system abnormalities. For example a female may be born with a large clitoris and be wrongly identified as male at birth. Others are born without a uterus or without ovaries or without a vagina. A chromosomally normal male may be born without a functioning penis and/or testicles. Others are born with a micropenis which is mistaken for a clitoris and the boy registered as a girl.

As you can see the area of sex recognition and gender identity is very complex. So..... a woman is someone is someone who feels that they are female. For this to be recognised by wider society the person must satisfy the standards of the current legislation. See my earlier posts for clarification on that. 😀

RakingUpBadMemories · 10/03/2017 10:19

Frankly, by this point, I'd settle for labelling loos as 'Dicks' and 'Non-dicks'.

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