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Can anyone suggest why girls at 6 change their view of girls' ability to be brilliant?

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Italiangreyhound · 28/01/2017 20:33

Can anyone suggest why girls at 6 change their view of girls' ability to be brilliant?

Just that?

What's the cause?

www.theguardian.com/education/2017/jan/26/girls-believe-brilliance-is-a-male-trait-research-into-gender-stereotypes-shows

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Italiangreyhound · 02/02/2017 20:23

Give the monkeys a truck designed to look like a baby and a baby designed to look like a truck! See who goes for what. Simple!

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Datun · 02/02/2017 17:56

La

I still didn't get it. As a monkey doesn't even know was a truck is, how can he decide it's for boy monkeys?

LaCerbiatta · 02/02/2017 17:27

Xenophile: animal models especially primates are incredibly useful for studying human behaviour. In this case even more so as we're eliminating all the human influences that we claim affect children's behaviour.

Xenophile · 02/02/2017 14:56

My apologies, I thought we were discussing humans, it appears you're actually discussing various species of monkey.

LaCerbiatta · 02/02/2017 14:29

Some references here

KateAdiesEarrings · 02/02/2017 14:28

xenophile and datun yy I wondered if I was missing the definitive statements and research about sex and toys, but it seems not.

To come back to your original question, italian I wonder if it's related to maturity. Studies have shown girls mature earlier than boys and this impacts on how they process their environment.* If they're maturing into a patriarchal society, it follows that their perception of both their abilities and their achievements will gradually wane. It would be interesting to see if the results were replicated in matriarchal societies.

Datun · 02/02/2017 14:19

This link talks about the different components in male and female eyes, but again it puts it all down to testosterone.

www.google.co.uk/amp/amp.livescience.com/22894-men-and-women-see-things-differently.html

Xenophile · 02/02/2017 13:57

Zero citations, so can't give it much credence.

Datun · 02/02/2017 13:53

La

I really can't understand that study. Trucks are an invention from less than a hundred years ago. How can an interest in them be 'innate'?

According to Alexander, one possibility is that girls have evolved to perceive social stimuli, such as people, as very important, while the perceived worth of social stimuli (and thus, dolls that look like people) is weaker in boys

There is no doubt that there are physical differences in men and women. Even our eyes see things differently.

Guys' eyes are more sensitive to small details and moving objects, while women are more perceptive to color changes, according to a new vision study that suggests men and women actually do see things differently.

That's not an innate preference for gendered objects though.

LaCerbiatta · 02/02/2017 13:27

And here's a link for the difference in the toys girls/boys prefer: [http://www.livescience.com/22677-girls-dolls-boys-toy-trucks.htm]

teta · 02/02/2017 13:25

I have boy/girl twins.They have both grown up doing ballet/modern dance,piano lessons,athletics,football/rugby.They're both very good at sport,musical,love cooking ( DD makes cakes whereas DS is big breakfasts and soup)and popular.The main difference I can see is that my DS is dyslexic and academics can be a struggle but his sister finds work easy.Also DD tends to 'wound' with words whereas DS physically will often try and thump his brother ( very occasionally his sister).
DS has had to suffer endless comments about his ballet and music though over the years from both pupils and parents.Dd has always been utterly convinced she's superior to her brother in every way.The increasing feminisation of Primary education has reinforced this.However at Secondary School level my 17 year old DDs friends ( co-ed) have all given up on Maths and Science subjects whereas dd1 (girls school) is heading for an A/A* in Maths and Sciences.

LaCerbiatta · 02/02/2017 13:24

I believe studies show that at 1 year old most girls will pick out a doll from a group of toys and boys will pick out toys with wheels. Ans this is independent of the clothes they were dressed in and the toys their parents give them to play with.
Boys and girls are different, they are innately different as they are genetically different .

But I very much doubt that the difference in girls' perception of how able they are has much to do with the toys and clothes divide. I would say one of the major influencing factors is the fact that in most families the mother doesn't work or has reduced hours whereas the father does the serious important job.

And just out of interest, in the country I come from girls are considered better at Maths and Maths degrees at the best universities have a much higher proportion of girls than boys. So this concept is not only but potentially specific to only some cultures / countries.

Datun · 02/02/2017 13:22

Teddies are the boys' version of dolls. Most of them are very fond of their teddies. But wouldn't dream of playing with a Barbie. But only because it is perceived as girly.

I know this is just an anecdote, but my youngest loved his Barbie (given to him by my mother, so as far as he was concerned it wasn't particularly gendered). He came home from school one day and reluctantly asked me if it was girly. Despite my explanations, he never played with it again.

Still loved his teddies though.

Seachangeshell · 02/02/2017 13:15

The interesting thing about my two boys is that although the eldest wouldn't play with dolls or teddies when very young, my youngest DS who's two does! He likes a wider variety of toys than my eldest.

Seachangeshell · 02/02/2017 13:11

datun yes I agree about the hormone thing.
I think hormones can cause some differences, but that these are amplified by socialisation.

sarahnova69 · 02/02/2017 13:09

Here is a 1998 meta analysis on parents' gender-typed interaction I dug up in a quick Google Scholar search.

psycnet.apa.org/journals/dev/34/1/3/

Seachangeshell · 02/02/2017 13:08

www.google.co.uk/amp/s/amp.theguardian.com/news/datablog/2014/aug/21/gcse-results-2014-biggest-gap-11-boys-and-girls-a-c-pass-rate?client=safari
This article shows the gap in achievement and puts it down to coursework being more suited to girls, but I think there's a lot more to it than that.
The underachieving boys are quite often ones who get into trouble and are turned off school. 9 times out of 10 the child standing outside the head teacher's office is a boy.
As educators it's our job to identify those underachieving, whether they're boys or girls. It just makes me sad when I see certain boys displaying really antisocial behaviour and getting into loads of trouble with their main class teacher ( a man, as it happens) and then coming into my Literacy lesson and responding really well to a bit of praise and understanding. Boys often get labelled as being naughty so they live up to the label.

Datun · 02/02/2017 13:02

I don't think anyone is denying there's a difference between boys and girls. I should imagine it's a lot to do with hormones, not brain structure differences.

Girls can't possibly like playing princess or pink or tea sets as an innate charactistic. None of that existed pre-history. They may well identify with their mother, as the person closest to them, and mimic her behaviour. But superficial choices can't possibly be innate as they are entirely socially imposed.

Maybe hormones like testosterone are related to strength, which is displayed through physical activity. Hence boys rushing around.

Although, when I was a kid the physical games were about the only way we spent our leisure time. Outside. On bikes, playing British bulldog, 4040, etc. No-one suggested the girls go inside and play with dolls. We could have of course, but wouldn't have dreamt of it.

Italiangreyhound · 02/02/2017 13:01

And thanks for the place to look but I can't find what I am looking for!

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Italiangreyhound · 02/02/2017 13:01

Xenophile I meant the bit that specifically said that mothers talked differently to babies they perceived to be female?

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sarahnova69 · 02/02/2017 12:59

There's also a great book by Cordelia Fine, Delusions of Gender, where she argues that a lot of neuroscience studies which claim to show differences between 'male' and 'female' brains have the maths on them done completely wrong.

(I think, it's ages since I read it, but it's a great book on this topic anyway.)

Italiangreyhound · 02/02/2017 12:57

sarahnova69 "Plus there's a whole culture relentlessly sending messages about what boys do and what girls do and the rigid line between the two. Encouraging your son to play with dolls is probably not going to be enough to override all of that, especially since your expectations of him, despite your best efforts, will already have been unconsciously shaped by your own ideas about gender."

So true. Even as a feminist I have ingested ideas about males and females from my own parents, who were born in the late 1920s/early 1930s, so some of my ideas are kind of from 'The Depression' era, how depressing!

It reminds me of a programme I saw about healthy eating and kids. Because messages about healthy eating are presented to kids by parents and at school, we hope to get that message across with information and diagrams of plates full of healthy food!

But messages about unhealthy snack food or junk foods are presented by television, in music, and generally presented with cartoons, action, stories, colours, 'fun' etc; also in playgrounds at McDonalds; also from ice cream vans that play songs and feature cartoon characters on the sides of the van; or perhaps through toys connected to films connected to fast food; and these messages are bombarding kids a lot of the time.

So then of all those messages, which will win out!

Unless we can present our ideas on healthy eating with cartoons and fun, and a lot of the time, then we can't really compete with messages about unhealthy food!

I think it is similar with sexual stereotypes! We can tell boys it is OK to play with dolls etc and we can tell girls it is OK to like football. But if boys and girls see mums tending babies, and other girls with dolls, and see men playing football on telly, then the ideas of who does what can be quite rooted in our culture.

I can't remember the last time I saw a televised women's football match even being advertised, or in fact anything much to do with women in sport except the Taekwando champion, Jade Jones.

and I just Googled 'Taekwando champion' and the first thing up was "List of World Championships medalists in taekwondo (men) - Wikipedia".

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Xenophile · 02/02/2017 12:45

Does anyone know who did the study or where it appeared, please?

It's Barbara Rothman 1988. There's more in Melissa Hines: Brain Gender, where she interestingly says that 10 studies might be done on innate brain gender differences, 9 of which will show there is no difference, and 1 will show there is, but that it is invariably the 1 showing difference that gets the attention.

Italiangreyhound · 02/02/2017 12:42

Seachangeshell it's great you care about the boys and the girls.

My experience is that some of the girls will be equally under achieving but they will not also be shouting in class, fighting and causing mayhem and getting the teachers attention and time.

It's fine to help the boys, and it's right for them to be helped. But girls can be underachieving too, I think it is just less noticeable because the teacher is not as alerted to this by behavioral difficulties at the same time.

In my dds class there were handful of kids really not achieving well, it was a mix of girls and boys. It was not very obvious that the majority of the class who were under achieving were boys. If anything, it was more girls who were less able.

Yes, that is one class. I know. Can you share a link to the degree of the problem of boys underachieving?

It's good you are a teacher who cares. I have a son and a daughter and would want both to have equal access to good teaching. Thanks

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