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Can anyone suggest why girls at 6 change their view of girls' ability to be brilliant?

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Italiangreyhound · 28/01/2017 20:33

Can anyone suggest why girls at 6 change their view of girls' ability to be brilliant?

Just that?

What's the cause?

www.theguardian.com/education/2017/jan/26/girls-believe-brilliance-is-a-male-trait-research-into-gender-stereotypes-shows

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KateAdiesEarrings · 05/02/2017 04:43

And yet the boys still end up running the country and getting paid more. I wonder what would happen if they hadn't been "dumb boys'. Hmm
Although primary schools are mainly staffed by women, I wonder if 6-yr-olds view teachers more as caregivers than as women having careers (Only musing - no studies to back this up).
I also found the 'you can't climb in a skirt' jarred with my experience. I wasn't particularly a tomboy and I was rules obsessed but I have lots of memories of climbing trees in a skirt (both in and out of school). I didn't care about boys seeing my pants. And in fact I'm the parent that taught DS to climb trees.

HelenDenver · 04/02/2017 20:21

You are on FIRE tonight Meagan.

Miffer · 04/02/2017 19:41

Me too Meagan. I am now a 35 year old woman and witnessing yet another female prime minister. Fucking feminists.

MeaganRain · 04/02/2017 19:22

When I was a child in the 80. The girls were always the smart ones in the class and that I witnessed that boys believed they were dumb boys and not meant to be smart because they were boys.

RebelRogue · 04/02/2017 17:15

Funnily enough i had a conversation about this with dd today. She told me x said boys do boy things and girls do girl things. I asked her what she thinks. She said she can do anything she likes and play with anything she likes,but x said that. I told her x is silly and by thinking that way he has less choices in what to wear and what to play with,so isn't she lucky she knows there's no such thing as boy things and girls things. She was happy with that,but insisted i have a chat with x and set him straight.
Sorry kid, I can't fix sexist parenting as much as I'd like to.

RebelRogue · 04/02/2017 17:10

Errol at my daughter's school except for 3 males,all the other staff are female. Head,deputy head, teachers,ta's,office staff,dinner ladies,pastoral care etc. So the majority of her role models are working females. This was in answer to the pp that said that girls are surrounded by looks obsessed female role models.

Morphene · 04/02/2017 16:40

btw if anyone is up for a mass campaign against stereotyping in children's adverts then I am all up for that!

Morphene · 04/02/2017 16:39

whats relevant to kids aged 5/6 is the advertising aimed at kids aged 5/6. This includes "everyone wants to look their best for the ball" plastic castles, and "get the speed,be the best, beat the others" racing tracks for cars.

Guess which of the above shows exclusively girls and which shows exclusively boys......

ErrolTheDragon · 04/02/2017 16:15

most school staff is female

Speculation....Maybe the kids in the study don't perceive primary teachers as being 'smart'? I've been told that in the US, public sector jobs tend to be viewed as lower status, not at all aspirational.

Italiangreyhound · 04/02/2017 15:45

Lass "You introduced the subject."

Not denying that at all, but AI was talking generally, the thread had moved on. But I don't think mass media I'd relevant to the age 6 thing

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RebelRogue · 04/02/2017 14:09

Actually if you think about it,most school staff is female. So girls would be surrounded by at least 20 working females (ranging from positions of great power-HT to caretakers ,cleaning ladies etc) for at least 30 hours a week. There are very few women I know that are clothes,makeup and looks obsessed. None in mine or dd's close social circle.

Atenco · 04/02/2017 14:03

Sorry, I've skim read the thread so far, but just wanted to say that, although the subject is very interesting and well-worth debating, I think the study referred to in the article is much too small and localised to be significant. Overall they studied 300 American children of whom it seems 96 were six-year-olds and not the same children as the five-year-olds they studied.

WearingMidnight · 04/02/2017 13:53

Delurking because someone brought up that ridiculous monkey study. I heard about that a few years ago and looked into it. I'm on my phone and can't link right now but the details can be found pretty easily. They measured how long the monkeys made contact with the toys. I take "made contact" to mean touched. So because they say the boy monkeys touched a truck for a few seconds longer than the girl monkeys did, toy preferences are inate in humans.
I'm no scientist but that seems like a huge leap to me.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 04/02/2017 13:17

I think the magazines are a red herring actually, in terms of age 6 change, they are more a wider part of media children experience

You introduced the subject.

Datun · 04/02/2017 13:10

whoputthecatout

I can just see it!

ppeatfruit · 04/02/2017 13:09

That sounds like scene from Miranda Whoputthecat Grin

whoputthecatout · 04/02/2017 12:37

As the archetypal climbing tomboy as a kid I was always in trousers. However, in my young days many decades ago Girl Guides always wore a serge-type skirt. I had my salutary lesson about climbing in skirts then, when I scaled some very high pointed metal railings (to get into a park, which was closed at sunset Grin) hooked my skirt on the point bit and was left dangling upside down and, yes, flashing my blue school knickers.

Luckily no one was about, but also unluckily no one as about. So shouting for help was useless. The only way to free myself was to rip my skirt from waist to hem and plunge into the flower bed. Then I had to make my way home.. not a good look.
God bless trousers.

HelenDenver · 04/02/2017 12:14

Mmm, buns. With lemon icing, preferably...

Wink
Italiangreyhound · 04/02/2017 12:11

"Lass will challenge it." Will you Lass? Grin

At least this thread is mostly good-natured. I am overweight and so tired of bun fights!

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Italiangreyhound · 04/02/2017 12:10

"I am so bored of the "climbing tree" holy grail on MN. And no it is not hard to climb a tree wearing a skirt. Nor is it hard to climb a climbing frame in a play ground."

You may be bored but it is a reality. Girls are told not to show boys their knickers, and maybe feel naturally that they do not wish to do so. So to hang from any kind of frame or tree in a skirt is harder!

Lass What is your point?

That the images of women represented in the media are of women looking beatitful but not doing much!

Men on the other hand drive cars and fix things. Brilliant!

Gardening is, I guess, not much to do with this so sorry for bringing that in! Gardening is quite a mixed world, my only experience of it being having a garden and listening to gardeners' question time!

I think the magazines are a red herring actually, in terms of age 6 change, they are more a wider part of media children experience.

The only thing I am aware of at 6, is school. And the change from more play in Foundation/Reception to 'work' in Year 1 and 2 onwards.

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HelenDenver · 04/02/2017 12:09

Whenever that happens, Italian, Lass will challenge it. As indeed, she did a post or two after mine!

Italiangreyhound · 04/02/2017 12:03

HelenDenver "Oh, goddess, someone told Lass it was harder to climb in a skirt...

"

Please let me in on the joke!!

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YetAnotherSpartacus · 04/02/2017 11:32

Nor is it hard to climb a climbing frame in a play ground

But it is easy for boys to cluster underneath and try to see girls' knickers. That kept a lot of girls on the ground in my day.

HelenDenver · 04/02/2017 11:22

Yy.

It's also possible in some set ups for researchers to give some body language hints, if they are aware of the sex of the children.

ErrolTheDragon · 04/02/2017 11:19

to re-run his study to reach the objective he wanted (lol)

Blimey. Even worse than the issue of studies which show no differences being underreported (firstly, not written up, secondly maybe less likely to be deemed worthy of joirnal publication although that shouldn't be the case, thirdly almost never reported in the media).