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Stop airlines charging women extra for travelling with expressed milk

107 replies

SantasBigHelper · 04/01/2017 15:12

Please sign and share if you agree:

www.change.org/p/justine-greening-mp-allow-women-to-fly-with-expressed-breastmilk-free-of-charge

OP posts:
geekaMaxima · 05/01/2017 11:23

Viking yes, which is why the right to transport expressed milk without charge shouldn't be limited to women. Anyone should be able to transport it.

However, only lactating women accumulate expressed milk while away from their baby. Men do not and non-lactating women do not. When a lactating woman is charged baggage fees to transport her breast milk, it constitutes unfavourable treatment compared to if she hadn't been lactating. Both sex and maternity are protected characteristics in equality legislation, so yes: the current system is discriminatory.

Just because some lactating women are not bothered by it does not make it ok.

VikingVolva · 05/01/2017 10:40

You don't have to be the biological producer to be the one carrying it on a flight.

Once outside the body, anyone could take breast milk anywhere (maybe travelling with the infant, or travelling between mother's and baby's locations).

geekaMaxima · 05/01/2017 09:38

For all those pp who can't fathom how a system would work or how it could possibly be fair/feasible to expect the current system to change to accommodate a minority of women... 🙄 A system similar to what the OP is asking for already exists in the US.

There, breastfeeding mothers (or anyone else) can bring unlimited quantities of chilled or frozen breast milk in hand luggage, along with any necessary ice packs, so long as they are declared to security. Same goes for formula. It's regarded as part of the personal medicine category for the purposes or air travel and the same rules apply regardless of whether you're travelling with or without a child. There is no charge.

The OP's proposal is simpler, in that she only requests storage in the hold rather than the cabin. It shouldn't be a big deal.

ChocChocPorridge · 05/01/2017 09:32

On a work trip, this is the responsibility of your employer - it's not the airline's responsibility!

SpeakNoWords · 05/01/2017 09:27

Viking but a man with a young baby won't be generating breastmilk when away on a work trip, so they won't have any extra breastmilk to bring back with them compared to when they left.

VikingVolva · 05/01/2017 09:11

"Men with young babies don't have to pay extra for hold baggage whereas breastfeeding women with babies the same age do."

Yes they do. If they are the ones transporting liquids. Because once outside the body, either sex can carry them.

And I just didn't see how you can be sure that milk has been stored at a safe temperature. Yes, I flew in business whilst still BFing. I discarded, because I was concerned about safe storage/temperature.

If the 'compromise' is packing a bit smarter so that you have the space to bring back what you know you'll be bringing back, that is no more than anyone who travels and knows they will bring back additional items. It is not unusual, it is not difficult and it is manageable by both men and women for all sorts of reasons.

ChocChocPorridge · 05/01/2017 08:54

Whatever the motivations behind these responses, all I can tell you is the overwhelming message that's coming through to me from them seems to have a really dark subtext about not getting ideas above my station if I want to work, breastfeed and keep my child healthy.

You may read it that way, but I see it as practicality.

If you can't take a few months out of your life while your baby is young to have short trips so you only need to express smaller amounts which can go in hand luggage, then, perhaps, either the job, or the baby feeding method needs to change.

Many of us here work, travel, and BF young babies. We looked at our options, and picked the ones that would sensibly work - be that a nanny, travelling with the baby, short trips for 6 months, different method of transport, or formula. Rather than 'I'm alright Jack' it's that we've been there, thought it through, and on balance can't support the petition on that basis.

As to the cost - if an MP is paid 76k, if they work 40 hours a week, 48 weeks of the year (this may or may not be correct) then for every hour one MP spends looking at this issue, one more of these very rare women could have checked a bag. A checked bag that it is the responsibility of their employer to pay for if they are travelling on business.

Rosa · 05/01/2017 08:10

I won't be signing either. there are too many ifs- If the plane is delayed and it defrosts, If the bag gets lost and misses the flight. There was the one incident that hit the papers . I would rather campaign for airlines to allocate FOC seats for children next to an adult when flying .

SantasBigHelper · 05/01/2017 07:45

This doesn't affect only me. Ive also posted this idea on a breastfeeding support group boards and have received nothing but positivity for the idea - 49 of the people that have read my thoughts about it have agreed that this is an issue and signed the petition.

Where do you get this figure that it would cost hundreds of thousands of pounces to implement this?

The petition is about asking the minister for equalities to open a conversation with airlines to see if there is a way to redress an imbalance.

The only cost of this conversation would be to the airlines who would lose out on a number of checked bag premiums.

As PP outlined - there is actually no need for a petition about this. There is a clear cut case for equality discrimination that I can take directly to the government dept. I have to pay more to fly because I lactate the food needed for my son than a non-lactating person does.

It's really been an eye opener posting about an gender related inequality which affects me and others financially and which acts as a discouragement and hindrance when it comes to the careers of women who also breastfeed on a board about feminist chat and to have received such a depressing of responses.

Responses have ranged from derailing my point with a debate about empty bottles, to 'well it doesn't affect me, so I'm not bothered' to 'you should be able to afford to stump up more' to 'who not just feed your child something other than breastmilk' to 'you need to learn to compromise as a mum who wants to work'.

Whatever the motivations behind these responses, all I can tell you is the overwhelming message that's coming through to me from them seems to have a really dark subtext about not getting ideas above my station if I want to work, breastfeed and keep my child healthy.

OP posts:
Bovneydazzlers · 05/01/2017 05:05

I totally understand that for you this is a real issue, and that it would irk as it's costing you money just because you're a breastfeeding mum.

I do, however, think that the number of ladies this affects is so so small, maybe a handful of people a year? It will cost hundreds of thousands for MPs to spend their time debating, updating airline regulations, then for airlines to review and adjust their own specific policies. Then practically, it will happen so infrequently that in practise, ground staff may not actually be aware of this rule. The cost on the flip side is for a few ladies a year to spend £20-£30(?) on checked baggage, and whilst not trying to pry into your own personal finances OP, these ladies are unlikely to be on the breadline.

To me, the group of people who are away for long enough that they have deemed that they don't want checked baggage anyway (given that you then have costs of new razors/deodorants every time you fly for hand luggage), are expressing that amount of breastmilkuet away from baby, and also trust the hold/airport transport as a constant temperature that they are not just going to chuck their milk anyway is so small.

By having this rule that you are asking, airlines may also be concerned that it would look like they are guaranteeing that this could be done safely, without it defrosting/refrosting en route, which isn't the case.-

SantasBigHelper · 05/01/2017 03:53

Thanks Milk and Speakno for understanding that this brave new world I am suggesting is not so impossible to imagine.

Lass - how many more ways can I explain this in this thread? I'll paint the scene this time.

Mother embarks on her return journey home. Takes expressed milk out of fridge or freezer. Places in cool bag along with frozen ice blocks. Heads to airport.

At check in/bag drop mother says ' I have a cool bag of expressed milk here, I believe I can pop it in the hold free of charge as it's too much to take through as hand luggage?'

Airline representative says 'sure madam, do you mind just unzipping it for me so I can see it is milk inside that cool bag?'

Mother - 'sure'

Airline representative - 'everything seems to be in order here, have a nice flight.'

NOTE: currently milk travelling in hold is not tested at this point, nor is it tested before it gets on the plane presumably unless airport security have worried about the bag. No change to this current situation proposed.

Mother then goes for a coffee (or potentially a bottle of straight vodka if she has been attempting to put forward a feminist suggestion to make working breastfeeding mothers lives a little easier on the mumsnet feminist chat board).

Plane takes off, milk stays in hold which is cold, plane lands. Mother picks up cool bag from carousel assessing how long the gap has been between plane landing and carousel pick up, checks whether milk is still cold/frozen and depending on what state it was in when she handed it in at check in, makes assessment on whether it is safe to put it in the fridge or freezer based on this, heads home, cuddles baby.

Showme + Cushion - This has already got far more personal to my own situation than I wanted it to, so I'm not going to get bullied into discussing my own child's medical condition or eating habits as it's irrelevant to my argument. However I will point out that given that airlines agree that breastmilk is an essential for a baby when the baby is travelling and thus will give it special conditions to be carried in greater volumes through security, is it such a leap to imagine that the same child needs the same milk when the mother has been travelling without the child, therefore that particular milk an essential medical item for that particular child, thus why should the airline profit from the mother being forced to pay a premium to carry that milk home?

OP posts:
nolongersurprised · 05/01/2017 03:47

I would suggest the grammatical errors are fixed before it's submitted. "When separated from it's mother" etc

I agree with pp - unlikely that large volumes of milk would be able to be ingested in time to be useful and it can't be refrozen. Sure, I'm extrapolating to my own situation but I've managed to bf 4 kids, each for around 2 years without asking airlines to change the rules just for me. I've not given any formula, worked, travelled, gone to conferences etc. There's always been ways around it, usually expressing for comfort and building up a stash before a planned trip. Not holding up people at airports with extra liquids.

CushionFiller · 05/01/2017 01:45

But your argument states that your baby NEEDS breast milk. I don't believe this is true. Yes, it would be nice if your baby has bm, but it is not essential. Heaven forbid you hadn't been able to bf for any reason - what would your baby have done then?

Definately not good for milk to be hanging around for a few days waiting to be used having been frozen and then defrosted.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 05/01/2017 01:21

I think lasswi has no grasp of facts and has a typical tory voter mentality of 'I don't do that/pay for that why would anyone else'

A typical Tory voter - how interesting.

SpeakNoWords · 05/01/2017 01:03

Presumably women who might need to do this would have thought about the practicalities. I guess I'd pack it all in a freezer bag with ice packs, it would freeze and then stay frozen for a good while. If it did defrost then you'd have to use it within 24 hours. It's not ideal but it's better than just having to chuck it away.

The more I think about this, it would be very easy for airlines to offer this service. Not many women would need to use it, but it would be very helpful for those that do. It wouldn't be any kind of impact on the airline either. So it seems churlish to object to it, I think.

showmetheminstrels · 05/01/2017 00:48

But the milk will freeze in the hold. And then defrost again. You'd need to feed it to the baby pretty quickly. And then where was it before the hold? Has it already been pre frozen? I wouldn't be feeding that milk to anyone.

OP I assume your daughter has allergies? Have you tried specialist formula? I'm not trying to be snippy; I think if you're determined to continue flying you would be prudent to look into other solutions- some degree of mix feeding or whatever. Your current set up seems too precarious.

Milklollies · 05/01/2017 00:29

Speaknowords, I agree and that seems the most sensible suggestion. Another backer here Santa. I'm going to sleep so I bid mumsnet goodnight. My tiredness is responsible for the typos and I don't have the energy to correct them. Good luck OP.

SpeakNoWords · 05/01/2017 00:19

I think that Santas has said that her solution is for airlines to allow breastmilk in the hold, without charge. So you could specify that your hold luggage will only contain breastmilk and check that in, without charge. Fairly similar to how some airlines let parents check in a buggy/pram and car seat for free.

Milklollies · 05/01/2017 00:14

Xposted but perhaps there needs to be another solution. I think technology is already developed so at the airport if there was an bottle of explosives covered as baby milk it would be extremely easy to test it and remove it. Also the fact that our dear govt had already gone to so many troubles should mean that before a potential terrorist goes to the airport that terrorist should be already arrested. Otherwise what's the point of stringent legislature that should've never been allowed to pass?

Milklollies · 05/01/2017 00:11

I think lasswi has no grasp of facts and has a typical tory voter mentality of 'I don't do that/pay for that why would anyone else'. I travel often internally for work and as a man I find it abhorrent that many users think its okay to tell a mother to take her extremely young baby on flights. It's disgusting and a new low on mumsnet. It's not enough users have to attack transsexuals but now even attacking mothers... I've read it all now.

The facts are that the user has clearly stated her cause and either you support or move on. Not post nonsensical answers which has nothing to do with facts.

I agree OP I believe that the best form of nutrition for a child if available is breast milk as it had other qualities other than pure nutrition such as a antibodies against things. I fully support your cause and I do think it is an extremely hard compromise put on mums. If I had a daughter I wouldn't want her to pay for something out of hand (the audacity of some to even suggest) for something that her baby needs.

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 05/01/2017 00:06

So how do you propose this works?

If it is in hand luggage exclude the liquid safety rules just because you say it is milk?

Apply the liquid safety rules and cause further delays at check in?

Just disapply all checked baggage fees as long as there is nothing else other than breast milk in your checked in luggage?

SantasBigHelper · 04/01/2017 23:39

I'm saying a breastfeeding woman can't bring expressed milk along with her when flying without paying extra.

I'm saying that this is sexist as it's a premium that only breastfeeding women are forced to pay.

But anyway, you lost me at 'sympathy'.

Is it really so difficult to imagine that a new mum who has to work might:

A) have to take flights as a way to minimise nights away from home.

B) be on a tight budget

?

OP posts:
LassWiTheDelicateAir · 04/01/2017 22:57

Nothing to do with airport security having to check bags either. It's about hold baggage

Are you saying it can't be put in the checked in hold luggage? I thought your gripe was you had to pay for checked in luggage because it could be put in the checked in luggage but not in the carry on luggage.

Re the rules for UK flights I never fly internally as always take trains. I still have no sympathy for anyone who can afford to fly complaining about the extra costs of paying for checked in luggage.

SantasBigHelper · 04/01/2017 22:43

All airlines in the U.K. charge extra for hold luggage on domestic flights.

Who is it for you to decide what people can and can't afford?

The whole point is that there is an imbalance - breastfeeding women who need to transport their milk need to pay more to fly than anyone else.

Nothing to do with airport security having to check bags either. It's about hold baggage.

OP posts:
LassWiTheDelicateAir · 04/01/2017 22:30

I will not be signing this. I see no reason at all why the milk can't be put in the checked in hold luggage. Not all airlines charge extra for hold luggage and frankly if you can afford to fly you can afford to pay the checked in luggage charge; particularly when if you are travelling for work the cost will either be charged to your employer or tax deductible if you are self employed.

I see no reason why airport security should be made more of a hassle whilst everyone else is held up whilst the security staff are checking bags of breast milk.