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Shannon Mathews

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user1477282676 · 12/12/2016 07:36

This was a shocking case. The child was without a doubt a victim in terrible circumstances. Her own Mother stashing her away under the bed of her partner...drugging her, lying to the public and to her friends about such an awful thing.

But.

Does anyone here think that the press and the public demonised her in a far worse fashion than criminals who do worse have been?

She was pilloried, called terrible names...really made into a sort of figurehead for everything "unwomanly" when there are plenty of men who commit arguably worse crimes and who get away without the public disgrace.

Yes she did a truly awful thing but the fact that she was

A: A woman
B: Working Class
C: Ignorant
D: Unattractive

All added up to ensure that she was the perfect example of a demon woman. Can anyone expand or tell me more about this sort of thing? Do you agree with me? Are there other cases which are similar?

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sashh · 13/12/2016 05:36

I'm not sympathising with the actions of Hindley, all I'm saying is she was not as complicit as Brady. What she did was abhorrent, what he did was much worse. Though, she obviously is just as bad as him eh?

WTF?

Other than the recording of a little girl no one except Brady and Hindley knows (knew) what happened.

Hindley always claimed she turned a blind eye, was not present at the murder/had some other excuse but then the police found the recording - and she still denied she took an active part.

She claimed she was 'looking out the window' or 'running a bath'.

She was photographed by Brady at the graves.

I think part of the reason why we know these names is that it was a woman, until then children were warned about 'strange men' but suddenly a woman was just as bad.

user1477282676 · 13/12/2016 04:20

Goats well this happens with most big crimes doesn't it? They make a dramatisation out of it. However this is rather too soon in my opinion.

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Twogoats · 13/12/2016 03:43

Oh wow, that TV show idea is in very poor taste.

user1477282676 · 13/12/2016 01:52

Lass Oh I'm certain it will be aired. It's got too many big names attached to it. The agreement has been made with the people who were involved and permission sought from Shannon...

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LassWiTheDelicateAir · 13/12/2016 00:49

I know that they're filming a dramatisation of the events with Sheridan Smith playing Karen Mathews next door neighbour....I also know that they had to move where they were filming as there had been protests

I hope this never sees the light of day.

DeepanKrispanEven · 12/12/2016 23:39

With regards to Maxine Carr, I'm not even sure if that venom towards her was because she was a woman or simply that it was such a high profile awful case. I just don't know

I got the distinct feeling at the time that the tabloid press wanted to frame her as the new Hindley, and unfortunately to a great extent they succeeded.

I have a very hard time believing that she thought he was innocent, but even if she did....a false alibi is false....it was not up to her to decide he wouldn't have done it and she should have given the police the facts. That said, the police should not have trusted her at all.

Like many women before and after her, she believed the man she loved. Goodness knows, we see enough of that on relationship boards here. In the previous case where she provided an alibi for Huntley, the victim said that Huntley was not the person who attacked her and it appears to be the case that the alibi was genuine. Once she realised what Huntley had done she gave evidence that was very material in convicting him.

Yes, what she did was absolutely wrong. She was convicted and sentenced accordingly and has served her sentence. The point is that she has suffered far more than her prison sentence - she had to move to a new identity and lives in daily fear of exposure and lynch mobs. That is massively disproportionate to her crime.

user1477282676 · 12/12/2016 23:08

I'm not sure. The last I heard, she was under the care of a local authority. She may have been fostered or adopted...I just hope she's happy now.

I know that they're filming a dramatisation of the events with Sheridan Smith playing Karen Mathews next door neighbour....I also know that they had to move where they were filming as there had been protests.

It does seem very soon after the events to put it on tv and make entertainment out of it.

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Beebeeeight · 12/12/2016 23:06

Was Shannon ever adopted?

Given the Internet I'm sure she's very aware of any media coverage of her. (Inc pos this thread)

user1477282676 · 12/12/2016 21:30

Grind yes I worded the title badly....but if you read the OP, it's obvious I wasn't talking about demonising a child. Hmm

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Grindelwaldswand · 12/12/2016 21:25

Yes but the OP doesn't actually mention Karen Mattews it says Shannon Matthews and jumps from how horrible it was to how people demonised her ? Confused ive requested a title change to Karen Matthews.

whattheseithakasmean · 12/12/2016 21:23

The thread is about demonising Karen Matthews, the mother of Shannon Matthews. No one is demonising the victim.

Grindelwaldswand · 12/12/2016 21:21

How did the press Demonise a 9yr old child Hmm have i hit my head here or something ? If anything she was treated with respect and privacy and has lived her life in private with her new adopted parents since. She'd be in her late teens by now and is probably very happy and oblivious to any media coverage about her which is non these days.. let's keep it that way and let the poor girl live a happy life.

whattheseithakasmean · 12/12/2016 21:17

How would you describe rape and murder? I don't think you can really over egg the awfulness of Myra Hindly or Rose Wests' crimes, Or those of Ian Brady or Fred West or Robert Black. They are all utterly heinous and I cannot comprehend why anyone would want to offer any kind of excuse for any of them or how any public revulsion can be too strong.

Karen Matthews is of a different order, but as it was her own child it is in many ways as repugnant a crime, but a different crime, as Shannon Matthews is still alive.

Murder is the worst crime as there is nothing to be done to make it OK for the victim, no hope for a better future. I think some people forgot that in their rush to show compassion for certain murderers.

HermioneWeasley · 12/12/2016 21:17

Well, ok but they're not actually being turned into demons are they?

Does it matter if we say some crimes are reprehensible and exclude you from society, I guess is the question.

But this is OP's thread so ignore my question.

Gwenhwyfar · 12/12/2016 20:51

"Does it matter if awful criminals are demonised?"

Probably does if their crimes were awful, but not demonic.

LouisvilleLlama · 12/12/2016 20:29

Just to say I didn't want to get caught up on the DV stats it was just that as it was quoted as so high that alone would suggest that there was violence daily even if it had been 1000 it still lends to the fact that it probably happens daily, it was just the stat I remembered. My point was more the other half of my post

SomeDyke · 12/12/2016 20:27

"Double deviance conversely suggests that men are naturally violent, and that this behaviour is totally expected from them."
Expected, yes, that's toxic male socialization, but reading the first few paragraphs of the linked article, it says nothing about men being 'naturally' violent. They may be perceived or expected to be naturally violent though, that is quite common, and hence part of the problem. And conversely women are expected to not be violent (unless they are protecting their children, for example, where violence is expected?). Hence women that are violent are somehow non-women as well as being bad.........

HermioneWeasley · 12/12/2016 20:25

Does it matter if awful criminals are demonised?

Serious question.

SomeDyke · 12/12/2016 20:17

The figures here give a broader picture as regards domestic violence:

www.refuge.org.uk/files/Statistics-domestic-violence-and-gender.pdf

LassWiTheDelicateAir · 12/12/2016 20:15

No Elendon I did not say there were no public executions anywhere in the world. I was referring to the UK.

Your level of what aboutery on this thread has been impressive.

Historic executions in the UK, public execution elsewhere, throw in The Handmaid's Tale for good measure, lob in irrelevant reference to bringing back hanging.

Your minimising of Hindley's crimes was breathtaking.

Elendon · 12/12/2016 20:08

So I do have to leave this discussion now. Thank you OP for bringing it up. It's a valid argument you bring to the table.

Elendon · 12/12/2016 19:55

Double deviance conversely suggests that men are naturally violent, and that this behaviour is totally expected from them. I don't believe that men are naturally violent at all.

Elendon · 12/12/2016 19:49

Lass, are you saying that there are no public executions on this planet? I do believe that a cabinet member who likes to roam foreign lands, recently spoke out against one of those countries that use public executions as a day out for the family.

There are people out there who would love capital punishment brought back for a lot less than the 'most heinous of murders' - and who decides what is 'heinous'?

MsUnderstanding · 12/12/2016 19:46

Going back to the original point made by the OP. Double deviance theory Argues that women are punished twice, 1st for their crime then behavior against female gender norms.

Someone mentioned Amanda Knox upthread, this is a good explanation of DD theory using AK georgamankarious.wordpress.com/2013/07/22/double-deviance-and-the-bad-woman-representations-of-amanda-knox-in-the-tabloid-media/

Elendon · 12/12/2016 19:44

Louisville between 1900 and 1949, 621 men were executed as opposed to 11 women.

en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Capital_punishment_in_the_United_Kingdom

Now, given that women during that time were seen as sub humans, not capable of voting, breeders, property, no divorce, no contraception, no abortion; can you imagine that with such sexism and misogyny, that there were marauding hordes of violent women? Or have women finally caught up with men, re violent acts, due to empowerment no doubt, in the 21st century?

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