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Can we talk about the football sex abuse scandal?

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DeviTheGaelet · 24/11/2016 19:41

Headline news today, NSPCC are setting up a helpline, talk that it was organised and likely to be on the same scale as Saville.

I can't think of another occasion where sex abuse has been reported on so much. I also think sex abuse/grooming was rife in the 80s/90s, I can think of several coaches that have been jailed but not of a story as big as this. Also, other grooming rings e.g. Rotherham haven't resulted in NSPCC helplines I don't think.

Is it that we are becoming more intolerant of sex abuse?
Is it topical because of Saville?
Is it magnified because everything to do with football gets generally over reported anyway?
Is it taken more seriously because primarily boys now men were affected? (I also think gender may have played a part in why "Nick" was taken so seriously in the children's home allegations).
I've posted in feminism because of the gender angle but interested in any thoughts (including being told IABU)

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KateInKorea · 24/11/2016 21:04

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DeviTheGaelet · 24/11/2016 20:37

Totally agree. But I was involved in a sport in the 90s where at least 3 if not 4 of the elite coaches were jailed for abusing girls in the early 2000s and it wasn't reported except in local news. Just wondering what's changed to make it so newsworthy now.

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Boogers · 24/11/2016 20:23

Pat Nevin put it very well on 5live this morning. It's not just football coaches, it's across the board with people in a position of trust and a position of advantage. It's not just the very brave high profile footballers that have spoken publicly, it's at grass roots level in every sport. Read The Secret Footballer to understand initiation rites and the grunt work apprentice players go through to prove their worth. He's about the same age as Dave White, Andy Woodward, Paul Stewart and Steve Walters. What if instead of being told to clean boots or stand on a chair and sing a song you're told to perform a sex act on your coach in order to get a game? Insert that scenario for any sport and you get why Danny Murphy says he's not surprised it's come to light.

It's not a feminism issue, it's a humanity issue. It's come to the attention of the media because four brave men stood up and said 'this happened to me'. Yes, football does get a high profile, but these men were professional footballers at a high level. In a sport where there are no openly gay footballers at top level, it's a massive taboo.

RancidOldHag · 24/11/2016 20:16

I think that this coming out from the footie community will be a hugely positive thing.

It's wrong. Full stop.

Victims who speak out should be heard. It should be made easy for them to do so.

I don't actually care that much where the initiative comes from (and football clubs are very rich so I damned well hope they're covering the costs).

Anything that says predatory sexual behaviour is wrong is fine with me.

And ask hope heterosexual footballers are paying heed too.

mudandmayhem01 · 24/11/2016 20:11

I think sadly the common factor is the gender of the perpetrators. I think any opportunity for victims to find their voice is important and I hope more men will come forward. I think male victims have an extra problem coming forward about sexual abuse because of homophobia, and if the medium of football encourages people to come forward that has to be a good thing.

EnthusiasmDisturbed · 24/11/2016 20:07

Saville case has changed how we deal with sexual abuse

Attitudes will take time to change though I haven't heard any remarks along the lines of why didn't they say something before

And I do believe many people will view this being worse than a man abusing young teenage girls because many see young teenage girls as untrustworthy, temptresses and so on

DeviTheGaelet · 24/11/2016 19:43

I also think sex abuse/grooming was rife in the 80s/90s, in sports I mean, as well as other organised activities like scouts, need to learn to proofread

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