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"We Just Put the Biggest Crack in That Glass Ceiling"

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YonicProbe · 08/11/2016 09:32

That's how Hillary Clinton described being the first woman to win nomination as a Presidential candidate.

Whatever result we wake up to tomorrow, whatever our views of the candidates, I am very pleased that a woman is in this race for the first time.

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YonicProbe · 10/11/2016 22:15

Not Carly Fiorina, apparently.

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amazingamy09 · 10/11/2016 19:50

What constitutes 'decent' Pizanfan?

scallopsrgreat · 10/11/2016 13:15

Really? What evidence is there of that?

Pizanfan · 10/11/2016 13:04

Slarti

Had any decent female candidate run they would easily have dumped the Trump!

Slarti · 10/11/2016 13:00

And until the perfect woman comes along, any man, however flawed, is better, I assume.

Except she won the popular vote, so that isn't really true is it? In pure numbers more people wanted her to be president, in spite of all her controversies, than wanted Trump, with all of his. If there wasn't a mountain of dirt on her she'd almost certainly have won.

Bue · 09/11/2016 20:54

"A right wing woman will have more chance - just like in the UK. Because they've already sided with the patriarchy. They aren't seen as too much of a threat."

This is a good point. I've been puzzling over why right wing women seem to have more political success at the very top, and you've just clarified it for me.

StopLaughingDrRoss · 09/11/2016 20:09

Re Hillary being held to a higher standard than the Donald purely by being a woman? I cannot imagine a woman who had five children from three different fathers would have even been given the nomination - disgraceful double standards throughout this campaign Sad

scallopsrgreat · 09/11/2016 20:02

"I don't recall hatred against George W. Bush rooted in the fact that his wife killed someone in a car crash." George W Bush had a drink driving conviction. But he found God. So that's alright.

I agree vesuvia about Michelle Obama. She looks like the 'perfect' candidate now but she wouldn't after about six months. She looks perfect now because she is allowed a certain amount of leeway in her position at this time. She poses no real threat to the establishment at the moment. They'd be sure to put her in her place if she did.

YonicProbe · 09/11/2016 13:40

Selkie

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FreshwaterSelkie · 09/11/2016 13:35

YY Vesuvia. It would go like that. A woman running for president has to be like Caesar's wife - above suspicion. Doesn't apply to men.

Shame that the crack in the glass ceiling turned out to be Trump's fat white arse crack mooning us all below.

VestalVirgin · 09/11/2016 13:25

I hope that by 2020, voters will have realized how stupid they have been and will vow to never ever again elect a white man president.
(I know, they usually only take women who were the first to do something and were bad at it as proof that women can't do it, but a girl can dream ...)

Which would give Michelle good chances.

YonicProbe · 09/11/2016 12:54

YY vesuvia. Obamacare, for one.

I don't think Michelle Obama has any interest in running, FWIW.

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vesuvia · 09/11/2016 12:39

I've heard people say that perhaps Michelle Obama could run for president, perhaps in 2020.

If Michelle did stand for election, I'm sure that her opponents would use what they perceive as Barack's faults to attack her.

I don't recall hatred against George W. Bush rooted in the fact that his wife killed someone in a car crash.

VestalVirgin · 09/11/2016 11:25

What exactly constitutes 'better'?

Obviously not "better than Trump", because, really, my three year old niece would be better than Trump.

YonicProbe · 09/11/2016 10:59

"I saw a tweet saying the it isn't that the US don't want a woman in the White House its that they want a better woman"

And until the perfect woman comes along, any man, however flawed, is better, I assume.

Gah.

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FreshwaterSelkie · 09/11/2016 10:54

You're right, scallops. The goalpost will always move.

"of course we want a woman. Just not that woman. No, not that one either. Nope, still not that woman, try again?" ad infinitum. There is no woman "good enough".

scallopsrgreat · 09/11/2016 09:57

Hillary has been held to a much higher standard than men. I saw a tweet saying the it isn't that the US don't want a woman in the White House its that they want a better woman (paraphrasing). I'm sure you do. What exactly constitutes 'better'? How perfect does a woman have to be?

Trouble is that line will move no matter which woman becomes a presidential candidate. There will be no perfect candidate. There will just be a higher standard to meet. A right wing woman will have more chance - just like in the UK. Because they've already sided with the patriarchy. They aren't seen as too much of a threat.

This is very similar to perfect rape victims. Similar to why women have to fight for their rights - if only you were a little more like x, y, z. If only you asked more nicely. If only you were men. In fact if only you were men who self-confessed to sexually assaulting women and was up on a charge of child rape.

Prawnofthepatriarchy · 09/11/2016 09:36

What this result says about America is terrifying. I find myself Godwinning all over the place. I can only hope my fears are unfounded.

One of my DCs woke me in the night to tell me. He was totally freaked out. I'm glad I didn't stay up to watch it. Poor DS found it harrowing though, as he says, it's history. I thought "holy shit" and went back to sleep. Nothing I can do about it. Apart from quake in my boots.

Bowednotbroken · 09/11/2016 07:51

Doesn't this mean that basically men can treat women however they like - and it's OK to do so. In fact, it makes you more electable if you're a misogynist abusive bully?!

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 09/11/2016 07:46

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DeviTheGaelet · 09/11/2016 07:11

OMFG have I woken up in a nightmare? Sad

YonicProbe · 09/11/2016 00:14

"* Don't worry about the kids. I've promised to let them off nursery tomorrow."

Grin
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Prawnofthepatriarchy · 08/11/2016 23:05

Me too. Keep wavering between staying up all night in a state of high arousal and I can remember when that was fun., staying up all night researching Paris Lees or going to bed with cocoa, a grim determination and a good book. At the moment the cocoa seems to be winning. My kids* have promised to wake me up to give me the result. But I'm soooo jittery!

  • Don't worry about the kids. I've promised to let them off nursery tomorrow.
YonicProbe · 08/11/2016 22:47

Indeed, Neville.

Soooo, polls are looking better for Hillary than Donald but I'm still scared to go to sleep!

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MakeItStopNeville · 08/11/2016 21:54

Their marriage and its practicalities are really none of our business.