Someone at work is currently on paternity leave. We all sent a card and a gift, and he thanked us. It's the second child.
In his thank-you, the Dad gave a brief description of the birth & how the family are doing.
It contained the line "we went in to labor"
It has really annoyed me. Probably because he's done other things that annoy me, too. But since when did men go into labor. I'm sure he was there, being as involved and caring as possible (this isn't sarcasm, he would have been very kind & supportive to his wife). But I'm equally sure that he didn't get one labor pain or have to push for even a little bit.