Having sex with transwomen is so much better than with those frigid women

LassWiTheDelicateAir

We are typing words on the internet. That's one up from an eye roll in terms of 'action taken'.

Your quote was -

"The internet is full of illiterate idiots. If the article had been as moronic but was about race it would be dismissed as the offensive utterances of a deeply unpleasant person who may well have an Internet following but no more than that."

So on an active forum about racism you would expect no debate of a deeply racist article that somebody posted?

So when a blogger with a following makes a comment about 'the vast majority' of women, we're supposed to just ignore it?

Nobody said anything about ignoring it.

the problem is it highlights and perpetuates some widely-held prejudices about what it means to be a 'proper' woman and why the vast majority women are never really good enough for men

The second quote is your interpretation of what he is saying. I don't happen to agree there is such widely held prejudices etc. I don't see the point of taking this individual seriously.

clara

Give em a minute

Pinky - exactly. Makes me want to reclaim the term cis woman because they can't claim to be that!

transgender woman are women, and in many ways they are probably the only women around. A transgender woman, due to her unique position of being born in the wrong body, understands the needs and desires of men in ways that are impossible for an average cis-woman

Good to know that the mark of a good "woman" is the ability to please a man

When the fuck will this transwacktivist nonsense end?

So we're clear "vast majority" is a direct quote.

So when a blogger with a following makes a comment about 'the vast majority' of women, we're supposed to just ignore it?

As opposed to making more of it than it is. Comments like the 'vast majority' of women are never 'really good enough' for men for example.

LassWiTheDelicateAir

If the article had been as moronic but was about race it would be dismissed as the offensive utterances of a deeply unpleasant person who may well have an Internet following but no more than that.

How disingenuous.

As opposed to what? Being actively debated on a forum?

Have I missed the bit of the thread where the mass riot/protest/letter writing campaign was floored?

So women are picked apart as much as men that meant to ask.

So men are picked apart for their appearances, choices and behaviour as much as men?

I don't agree that if a blogger had been publishing material as deeply racist as it is misogynist that it would be met with a 'meh - who cares?' by the targets of its racism.

I agree with noeffing re the 'vast majority' of women are never 'really good enough' for men.

The writer of this article is an illiterate idiot. The internet is full of illiterate idiots. If the article had been as moronic but was about race it would be dismissed as the offensive utterances of a deeply unpleasant person who may well have an Internet following but no more than that.

Sorry rea misspelt your user name.

reawilson I don't agree that the 'vast majority' of women are never 'really good enough' for men. I think thats a bit of an exaggeration, really. I can't say it's anything I've ever felt, or noticed amongst other women that I know.

noeffing - yes, I've no doubt that's right and that these 'arguments' won't change people's sexual preferences or change people's (by which we mean men's) view of women... the problem is it highlights and perpetuates some widely-held prejudices about what it means to be a 'proper' woman and why the vast majority women are never really good enough for men:

the vast majority of cis-women do not act feminine, care little about their appearance, and do not know how to respond to male affection appropriately

Men cannot be blamed for what is essentially the caustic nature of cis-women

Most cis-women have a certain frigidity to them that does not allow them to totally open up during the lovemaking

etc. etc. etc.

A gay man described asking him if he would perform cunnilingus on a transman as a deeply homophobic suggestion. This was shortly after he had told lesbians that not wanting to have sex with transwomen was transphobic.

So, gay man + cunnilingus = homophobia but lesbian refusing to perform fellatio = transphobia.

It was just super to have Owen Jones repeatedly clear that up for women.

I've never heard of a straight man being called transphobic for not wanting to have sex with a trans woman. Or a gay man for not being interested in trans men. Has anyone? Funny how it's apparently only females who are subjected to the cotton ceiling bollox.

There has always been a small group of men who are primarily attracted to transwomen, and another small group who are so hypersexualised that anyone will do. That will never change. The fact remains that straight men (and lesbian women) like women ie people with vaginas , while gay men and straight women like men ie people with penises. Bisexual people tend to like both, not a mismash or people with surgically constructed imitations , which are not that similar, due to the limitations of surgical knowledge.
That is a matter of biology. It can't be overcome by reasoning, especially such inaccurate arguments such as this.

Anyway this article means good news for us in the long run. With so many transwomen willing to provide men with the ultimate parody of being a woman: submissive, vain, in possession of both a tight vagina and a handbag replete with lipstick and other useless shit, us "cis" women will be free to actually be ourselves and not have to continue to "perform femininity".

That would be nice. Not sure it will happen, though, unless the transwomen manage to successfully convince men that they can give them sons.
The main goal of patriarchy has always been to use women for breeding. In societies were male homosexuality was well accepted, men were still expected to marry a woman, and father sons, and women were still oppressed.

But perhaps, since having children is not so visibly tied to being cared for in old age anymore, men will actually take to fucking transwomen, actual women will be free to be ourselves, and population will be dramatically reduced.

Men have to understand that cis dating has reached its end

FFS. FO.

Nah - I generally have my phone and a card wallet (I went searching for a small purse the other day, but was unable to find anything smaller than a filofax - so it's card wallet with a folded 20 in shoved in the middle). If I'm travelling light and in the UK, it's just phone (apple pay.. works in BP/M&S and Pret. What more do I need ;) ) I stopped carrying stamps years ago.

What he's missing from his bag list is squashed sweets/chewing gum (in wrapper), wet wipes, spare nappy/pants and a couple of toy cars, because the only time I'm carrying a bag is when I'm out with the kids so carrying stuff to amuse them.

It's just someone from the extreme outpost of the internet writing things that are totally irrelevant to most of us