We believe you attempts to reverse that
Do you really think I don't understand this concept? I do. I also think it's wrong and won't, ultimately achieve what you want it to achieve.
It's ironic. I grew up in a heavily patriarchal culture. I fought it then and don't feel fettered by it now. However, when I talk to feminists, of all people, I am reminded what it is like to speak to a group of people who think that women should submit to their views and, if they refuse, will assume they're a few sandwiches short of a picnic before eventually trying to shame and abuse them into doing so. In short, if you lot had the reins of power, it would be a text-book revolution; you'd overthrow everything before restoring a mirror-image of the old society, but with yourselves in charge.
You are as incapable of perceiving a different argument without thinking 'ah, the little woman has got it wrong because she doesn't understand' as the most chauvinistic men in the country. And then, true to form, you seem to think, 'Well, if she doesn't agree with us she must be some version of morally bankrupt'.
For the final time, I do not think it is ultimately a good idea to encourage individuals to by-pass their ability to reason, regardless of the good you think you will achieve by doing so. I also, personally, think it is patronising to women to say 'We believe you,' regardless of what they are about to say next, in the full knowledge that you may not continue to believe them. 'We believe you' is full of unspoken qualifications and without these, it doesn't make sense. It's patronising and illogical. It's feminism lite. If what you mean to say is 'I have an open mind, I'm listening and I care' then say so. Don't demand that the nation promises something they cannot follow through with - unless they really have been brain-washed.
In telling the nation that they are woman-hating, chauvinistic rape apologists if they do anything but automatically 'believe' a rape narrative (some of whom will be sitting on juries where they are honour bound not to unquestioningly believe anything at all), you are not ultimately helping people to think responsibly and really move forward in their attitudes to crime against women. You are not turning out people who will be better fitted to sit on a jury in a rape trial, though they may be slightly more likely to bring in the verdict you want (and I appreciate this is all you care about) but not that likely, because it doesn't change the real obstacles of lack of evidence and innocent until proven guilty. To really be able to consider narratives with an open mind, individuals need to be more broad-minded and flexible in their thinking, not more brainwashed and dictated to.
BTW I am still waiting to hear how feminists really believe that the accused in a rape trial should should go to jail unless they can prove they had consent. WTF?? Do you even realise that expressing views like that is about as helpful to finding common ground across the genders as burning a male effigy on top of a bonfire? Is this really the way you wish to move women's issues forward in the 21st century?
You're in a bubble where everyone agrees. Like most bubbles it looks self-congratulatory, antagonistic and intellectually complacent from the outside.