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SlowFJH · 13/02/2016 11:37

We have two boys and a girl (all now teenagers). My daughter was never into dolls and never really liked pink. She was into arts and crafts and loves knitting and sowing. The boys were completely stereotypical (plastic and wooden swords, guns, cars, diggers and tractors, soldiers etc).

We have good feminist friends (with three boys) who banned violent toys for boys. They always gave us the cat's bum face when they visited ours because their boys used to absolutely love playing with my sons' swords and shields. When we went out it for a walk, every stick they found was a gun - despite their parents vocal disapproval.

My friend's boys (now all strapping teenage lads) joke about how their parents banned them from having the toys they always wanted.

We definitely saw differences in toy preferences very early on. My daughter had zero interest in wheeled toys (despite my efforts) but both boys were fascinated by them virtually from day one.

I know my experience is not scientific. But there were some studies several years ago using baby apes (who obviously had not been conditioned by human systems or been exposed to advertising etc). Baby male apes showed a clear preference for mechanical toys over plush toys.

www.newscientist.com/article/dn13596-male-monkeys-prefer-boys-toys/

I'd love to hear others views on this topic... social conditioning versus biological predispositions.

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SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 10:52

GreenTomato
"Darwin's view of psychology from 150 years ago isn't particularly relevant to evo psych as it is practised today"

If you believe the basic tenets of evolution and natural selection, it is a relevant consideration for any study of life on Earth.

So Darwin changed the whole of biological science - for evermore. He himself postulated that as well as the evolution of birds' beaks etc, the theories he proposed can and should be applied to the non-physical aspects of our being (like thought, cognition, emotion etc.)

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RufusTheReindeer · 19/02/2016 10:10

The patience of the people replying to slow is astounding

GreenTomatoJam · 19/02/2016 09:42

I'm not sure that one, short quote from The Origin of Species answers the question in any way.

Darwin's view of Psychology from 150 years ago isn't particularly relevant to evo psych as it is practised today.

SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 09:33

GreenTomato
Can you please give an example of why you think it isn't.

Words from someone I respect...
"Psychology will be based on a new foundation, that of the necessary acquirement of each mental power and capacity by gradation."

Charles Darwin
from the closing pages of "The Origin of Species"

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nooka · 19/02/2016 09:30

Oh and your work sounds fascinating Lewji. I'm totally a dabbler in reading about these things now. Every now and then I think about doing further study, but as my dh has just reminded me, I'm a terrible student! I doubt very much I'd actually be able to finish a PhD which would be the logical next step for me.

nooka · 19/02/2016 09:24

Yes I was thinking of more sophisticated stuff, like belief (and gender preferences/prejudices!). My field is risk management, so why people think the way they do is fascinating to me, and that has certainly changed a lot over time. But I also have a masters in Public Health, so I'm very skeptical of most behavioural type studies as they are so open to interpretation and no one is immune from bias. Almost impossible to do blind or controlled studies really.

Lweji · 19/02/2016 09:15

But as you need a record of people's thoughts and behaviours it doesn't make much sense to link it to evolution as we don't have records about how people think before people started to leave a record of their thought

That's not strictly true about evolutionary studies.
Such studies have been done about language and dna, even without physical records.
But the methodology used is specific for these studies, as I've explained before. And btw, it's a field I work on.

Such evolutionary studies won't (and couldn't) tell anyone specifically why their personality is x or y, but could unravel why humans in general tend to behave in certain ways.

It's certainly not the case of the study debated here, though.

nooka · 19/02/2016 09:04

Psychology is fundamentally about studying how we think and behave. You can study how that has changed over time, it's very interesting too. But as you need a record of people's thoughts and behaviours it doesn't make much sense to link it to evolution as we don't have records about how people think before people started to leave a record of their thoughts, and that's not a long enough time period to talk about evolution, at least in a biological sense. You can get some glimpses from burial sites etc, but they are really just glimpses and subject to a huge amount of interpretation.

The potential size of an animals brain doesn't tell you very much about the thoughts inside of it. Does a Great Dane have more complex thoughts than a Chiwawa?

Neuroscience is looking at some interesting stuff with regard to the possible functions of different parts of the brain which can tell us something about thought, but only pretty basic thinking really. So they have looked at which parts of the brain light up on MRI when people are encouraged to think about reward or fear, and use rather cruder and intrusive ways to see the same thing in rats and monkeys. Some things seem to use more 'primative' parts of our brain than others.

Oh and all social animals have some degree of socialisation (including interesting things like altruism which have been observed in primates). I'd not assume that baby apes were total blank slates (or if they were from experimental breeding stock and lived in captivity that their reactions would be the same as in the wild).

Muttaburrasaurus · 19/02/2016 08:53

Slow - please design an evolutionary psychology experiment.

Psychologists have plenty of problems with evolutionary psychology as a subject too. As we've all pointed out its not about whether we believe in evolution or that psychological processes are subject to it to some degree - its about what questions can be meaningfully asked by the subject evolutionary psychology within the paradigm of scientific method.

crappymummy · 19/02/2016 08:47

whales have a much larger brain than humans do. Surely there is more to cognitive capacity than brain size?

there are cultures existing today who did not make the tools that the homo ancestors you refer to did. Do they belong to a different species than Europeans?

Again, I don't doubt that cognitive function has changed over millions of years. I do not think that evolutionary psychology is equipped to tell us how that happened, and you saying natural selection over and over isn't telling me how it happened.

We do not know what these ancestors' minds were like. We can find their leavings, (where they exist) and make inferences but there is no way to verify them

GreenTomatoJam · 19/02/2016 08:39

Lets split it down further then.

Evopsych as a concept - fine, could be interesting, really tough to get any valid data, but sure, knock yourself out

Evopsych as in every study I've read or seen widely reported then read - rubbish.

WilLiAmHerschel · 19/02/2016 08:39

When you talk about our psychological function and processes do you mean the mind? The way the mind works?

SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 08:29

Lweji
Some studies have been poorly designed and therefore produced questionable data. The same could be said for any field of science. That in itself is not sufficient reason to classify the entire academic field as "utterly amazing bollocks".

For me, Evolutionary Psychology is a "way of thinking" about psychology IF and (only if) you accept evolution (the inheritance of "useful traits/features" through the process of natural selection). If you accept that human beings have evolved, isn't it fair to ask "I wonder how our psychological function and processes might have evolved?"

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GreenTomatoJam · 19/02/2016 08:25

It's an analogy

Evo psych is bunk

I still have lots of stuff going on in my head, some of which may have come about through evolution (urge to pee in a corner, fear of the dark), some by nature (food preferences, ability to sing in tune), and some by nurture (being able to remember ip addresses easily, look at a piece of knitting and figure out how it was done)

Evo psych is still bunkem.

Whether I believe aspects of my personality evolved at all, doesn't mean that an academic discipline is rigorous and scientific (much as phrenology wasn't)

Slow. We've given many examples of why we think evo psych is a load of nonsense.

Can you please give an example of why you think it isn't?

SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 08:14

Discounted not discontinued (autocorrect)

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SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 08:13

GreenTomatoJam
"Phrenology has been discontinued as bunkum"

I know. My question was not about phrenology. Isn't that an example of false analogy or strawman argument or summat?

I am asking if you (personally) believe something based on the evidence you are aware of so a straight answer either way is perfectly acceptable.

Do you personally believe that the psychological processes of humans and their ancestors have evolved over time?

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SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 08:04

DrSeussRevived
"It's about considering and responding to people without condescending or trivialising what they say"

I'm sure that never happened on MN before.

Would you accept that classing an entire academic discipline as "bollocks, bunkum, utterly amazing bollocks" could be seen by some as condescending and trivialising?

Double standards.

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Lweji · 19/02/2016 07:55

This will be me putting thoughts in writing.

The way we do evolutionary biology is to look at markers or traits along the evolutionary tree.
For example, comparing one protein sequence from a species of monkey with the human equivalent would tell us very little about how that protein evolved. We'd need to have the same protein along all branches of simians, and that included that species and humans.
Then, as I mentioned, there's the actual question and how it's tested. It's easy for the question to be biased or not valid at all. And to test you'll need appropriate controls.

Say you want to test if there are inate differences in toy preference between boys and girls and if so if those differences are something we inherited from our ancestors.

A) question. What is toy preference? A generic one won't cut it. We could instead ask if males prefer wheeled toys. Then you find a set of differently shaped and function toys and put on or take away wheels. So that the same toy is presented with and without wheels. Then you present each to males and females and note the choice. You try in different contexts and series and repeatedly.
B) evolution. You must do the same test in a large number of monkey species and in all apes.
That would be how you'd even begin to think of the experiment.

SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 07:53

Crappymummy
Your words
There isn't a fossil record for cognitive capacity

Two species of early hominid A and B, the fossils found for A are much older than B. The skull size of A is much smaller than B. Do you think that a bigger skull might also contain a bigger brain?

Is that not a fossil record for the evolution of cognitive capacity?

No tools of any description were found from the era that species A existed. In fact Species A looked similar to some modern apes . With Species B, there are abundant examples of simple stone tools found near and around the fossilised bones. In particular, the making of these tools was clearly a skilled art that took much practice (as the fossils include many examples of rejected stone axes).

Is that not evidence of the evolution of cognitive capacity?

With a much later fossil (Species C - which is closely related to Species B), the fossil record and archeology reveals that C had a burial ritual for their dead, with bodies arranged in a particular position. Tools from this era are much more complex than simple hand axes and include stone arrow heads

Is that not evidence of the evolution of cognitive capacity?

The archeology digs where fossils of C were found reveal that simple dwellings were arranged with an overall plan in mind - indicating that Species C must have acquired a more complex language.

Is that not evidence of the evolution of cognitive capacity?

Species D goes from flint arrows to intercontinental ballistic missiles in (archeological terms what is) a blink of any eye.

Isn't that evidence for the evolution of cognitive capacity?

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GreenTomatoJam · 19/02/2016 07:49

Let me put it this way.

Phrenology has been discounted as bunkum.

But people have lumpy heads. Kids born to people with long, thin heads, often have long thin heads. Heads evolved to be big and lumpy, people still have a 'phrenology' (to use the word the same way), and that phrenology is both nature, through random chance on an individual and evolved, and was nurtured (through the occasional bump on the head

Phrenology is still bunk.

Yes no answers don't work in this case - that's why people have it as an academic discipline and study it. If there was a yes/no answer there would be no point in study.

crappymummy · 19/02/2016 04:17

To me, your question reads like this:

If you accept that there has been species divergence from homo erectus, how then can you reject the idea that it was sky pixies which caused it, for the purpose of making us better at tennis, and that's why people of today have longer forearms than their evolutionary ancestors of yore?!?

quite easily, as it turns out, since evidence that us has occurred does not equate to evidence of that particular mechanism.

there isn't a fossil record for cognitive capacity, or psychology, however you choose to define it. having a problem with 'studies' carried out by evolutionary psychologists is exactly the problem- falsifiable hypotheses, which are then supported with robust data, which can be checked, are at the heart of the scientific method. I am not convinced they are in this discipline.

Again, evolutionary psychology seems like a bias justification factory: women love red lipstick because women love red because they used to pick berries because female chimps do now- it makes sense! Never mind the many cultures where women never painted their lips red, or where men have/did/do as fashions changed, it fits the bias.

DrSeussRevived · 19/02/2016 04:11

It isn't about style guides. It's about considering and responding to people without condescending or trivialising what they say; inventing a straw monkey argument, claiming they said it and crowing about it.

This isn't debating class at school; no one is obliged to interact with you if they don't enjoy it.

Hope That Helps (HTH).

TTFN.

MyCrispBag · 19/02/2016 02:34

Slow typing doesn't account for separate posting. Cross posting is where you reply before somebody posts additional information. Which I didn't.

What you did was keep replying with increasingly passive aggressive posts to the same post.

It's fine though, it was entertaining for a while but I am bored of it now. I wouldn't have bothered explaining this (as I am sure you were aware of what you were doing) but earlier you did ask for clarification regarding the criticism of your posting style and I am always HTH.

As for your question - In my experience Most of the 'science' that chooses to term itself Evolutionary Psychology does tend to seem like a load of bollocks (pink/blue, toys, women's walking, male penis size/female breast size) and I am not alone in thinking this. A lot of these studies and theories have been criticised by accredited scientists. Evolutionary biology in particular has a fractious relationship with evo-psych.

That said I don't think all psychology that looks to evolution for explanations regarding human behaviour is bollocks.

Psychology is a fragmented discipline. Look at some of the 'aspects' you listed in your post. Google some of those terms and you will see that their very definition/existence is contested. Some of the things you are asking are wandering into the realms of philosophy. There is no straight yes or no answer because we don't actually know what the question is.

SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 02:06

The three posts happened because I am a slow typer and I believed you had reposted. I think this is called cross-posting. I apologise for any distress this may have caused.

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SlowFJH · 19/02/2016 02:02

MyCrispBag
"Perhaps that's because you don't understand the complexity of your own question"

In that case, let me rephrase in order to simplify..
This question is aimed at
Muttaburrasaurus
CrappyMummy
SomeDyke
AskBasil and
MyCrispBag

If you accept that the psychological processes of Homo Sapiens (e.g. intelligence, cognition, brain function and perception) have evolved over time - compared with its early hominid ancestors, is it still fair say things like 'All evolutionary psychology is bollocks'?

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