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Raping Asian girls worse than raping white girls because it 'harms their marriage prospects' :o

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OTheHugeManatee · 18/09/2015 09:42

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A judge has just ruled that a man who raped Asian under-13s should receive a longer sentence, because the victims' families were now worried about their marriage prospects. In other words, damaging these girls' property value in the marriage 'market' actually counted in terms of assessing the damage done by raping them.

I think this is horrific. Not just because virginity should have no bearing on the value of a girl or woman, but also because implicitly it seems to support the notion that underlay the belief of the Rotherham rapists that white girls were 'trash' who could be abused freely because they were already devalued. Like it's OK to rape white girls because they have no trading value.

I get that feminism coexists quite uneasily with cultural diversity, and this is a very difficult area to navigate, but really feel like this needs a feminist response.

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ALassUnparalleled · 26/09/2015 21:44

This case was about one particular culture's attitude. You can look at the wider implications if you like but these judges made their decisions applying their interpretation of a particular culture's attitudes.

Bullettoothtony · 26/09/2015 20:05

It's not one particular cultures attitude. Most cultures value women on their worth to men

ALassUnparalleled · 26/09/2015 18:59

No Basil It's about that and validating one particular culture's attitudes.

HeighHoghItsBacktoWorkIGo · 25/09/2015 07:56

It is setting up the level of trauma women and girls are allowed to have about their rape and that level of trauma being decided by men and being decided on the basis of what a woman is worth to them, not to herself.

Very well put.

AskBasil · 25/09/2015 07:04

Whoever got on their high horse about this being about "wotaboutthewhitewomen" has spectacularly missed the point tbh.

This isn't about that. It's about the fact that the judge is acknowledging and validating the concept that certain girls/ women are more valuable (to men) than others because of their sexual status and that therefore, those more valuable girls / women suffer more from their rape.

It is exactly the same concept as saying "if you're married to him, then it's not so bad to be raped as it is by a stranger." It is setting up the level of trauma women and girls are allowed to have about their rape and that level of trauma being decided by men and being decided on the basis of what a woman is worth to them, not to herself.

Is that really not obvious?

CatsAndCatsAndCats · 25/09/2015 05:16

its disgusting and gives a message that raping certain women its okay.

AskBasil · 24/09/2015 22:54

Article by Rahila Gupta here

BreakingDad77 · 24/09/2015 10:58

This case has echoes of the asian grooming rings where social services and the police were labeling these girls as "child prostitutes" and the berating of their parents that went on. I just cannot fathom how these agencies came to this conclusion.

YonicScrewdriver · 23/09/2015 10:51

Bullet, whilst I agree the sentence is too low, the conviction was for sexual assault rather than rape.

Bullettoothtony · 23/09/2015 06:33

What stood out for me was that he raped 2 children under age 14. The ethnicity of the girls was considered to make his crime worse; yet he got 7 years in jail!! Angry

ALassUnparalleled · 22/09/2015 12:17

Good points Dervel that's what I meant when I said it is the rapist who is degraded.It is the rapist who has brought shame on himself.

HeighHoghItsBacktoWorkIGo · 21/09/2015 14:36

Good points Dervel.

I signed the petition. Thanks for the link.

Dervel · 21/09/2015 12:39

There are two things going on here. First we have a serial sex offender, who can and should be prosecuted to the fullest extent of the law.

Second we have a "cultural" difference where all his victims suffer additionally from their communities attitudes. These backward cultural idioms should not be getting validation from secular courts.

Our opprobrium can be directed at the rapist primarily, but also to an extent anyone who then goes on to exacerbate the suffering of anyone victimised. Our compassion and empathy (as a wider society) should be unilaterally applied to any victims.

If we out of a sense of political correctness, fail to censure communities for acting so abominably to victims we are all making it worse.

SDTGisAnEvilWolefGenius · 21/09/2015 11:55

I read Libby's article, and thought it was a good piece, on this subject.

thehypocritesoaf · 21/09/2015 11:01

Libby purves has written about the ruling in today's times. She's in broad agreement with you op.

AbeSaidYes · 21/09/2015 10:06

link to petition again

slugseatlettuce · 20/09/2015 21:48

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ALassUnparalleled · 20/09/2015 19:59

On the nail Seneca

It is the perpetrator of a rape who is degraded , not the victim. It's a pity neither the judge nor the appeal judge seems to tackled it from that point of view.

SenecaFalls · 20/09/2015 19:05

If someone was raped and the offender used a weapon to threaten them this is an aggravating factor

This is a very different kind of aggravating factor than using relative cultural context.

It is so problematical even from a linguistic standpoint. You say it is "extremely degrading." As opposed to what? "Moderately degrading?" "Mildly degrading?"

slugseatlettuce · 20/09/2015 18:59

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ALassUnparalleled · 20/09/2015 17:20

There was an attempt at one on Reddit but it went nowhere. The only posts were, I understand, pointing out how vile the idea was.

There may be such sites in the cesspit of the Internet where illegal porn exists. I don't know.

IsabelleEberhardt · 20/09/2015 17:11

Pro-rape websites exist?! Sad

elementofsurprise · 20/09/2015 14:25

Yonic Do you mean saying he thought it was 'fine' to rape white girls is an unfair misinterpretation? I'll agree that he may have known that was wrong too (but some men really don't think that... have you seen those awful websites?) but the rest stands.

Suppose it was a white British man who'd raped a nun (and the white girl). A sweet, lovely nun who'd devoted her life to good works... In a way, there is an initial reaction of extra revulsion because of the life of chastity and so on. But isn't that just a prejudice; the other side of the coin from saying the other victim isn't as 'pure' and valuable, somehow?

Now, the websites I mentioned... pro-rape and stuff. I think there was a discussion on here a while back that set me googling and it was horrifying. Anyway, it was all about how it was ok to rape certain women and girls because they are just worthless sluts. I remember one of them was giving examples of who they wouldn't rape - and one was "the middle aged virgin going to church" (or v similar wording.)

IMO saying something akin to "he knew rape was extra bad in this person's culture" is following the same principle.

oldshilling · 20/09/2015 00:59

the judge was neither Asian nor Muslim, she was white

sakura · 19/09/2015 14:17

implying