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Healthy living support thread for feminists

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SeraOfeliaFalfurrias · 16/08/2015 18:11

In response to a few discussions we've had down the pub - there are some of us who are striving for better health through better diets and more exercise, but who struggle among the usual support groups where it's all about looking better rather than good health. And it certainly can be tricky as a feminist, walking that fine line between not conforming to beauty ideals through dieting and making sure you actually look after your body through a healthy lifestyle.

So here is a support thread for those of us who are trying to eat better and get more exercise.

Me, I could do with losing a bit over 2 stone to get back to a healthy weight. I had an ankle injury after running a marathon about 3 years back, and between not being able to exercise and the stress of my PhD (I'm a stress binge eater) I gained 3 stone and lost all my hard-earned fitness. I'm finally getting back on track, I've lost nearly a stone and am hitting the exercise hard again. The hardest bit has been getting back into running - while my ankle is better, my joints are really feeling the extra weight I'm carrying. It's also hard to do karate when your wobble gets in the way of you doing a good kick and you get out of breath when sparring. So I need to lose weight in order to enjoy my sports hobbies again. I'm taking it slowly, doing Slimming World but not religiously - I'm not in a hurry to lost the weight, but I also need to watch that I don't take it so slowly that it never happens!

Yesterday I ran 8km, which is really encouraging as I was still going strong at the end. Just a couple of months ago I was run/walking 5km and would have welcomed death at the end! So I feel like some kind of switch has been flipped and my body now "remembers" how to run. The down side is that both ankles are aching and stiff today.

My diet has been rather rubbish the last couple of weeks, including a few binges, and I put some pounds back on, but I'm in that good place mentally now and hopefully ready to focus on getting my body healthy again. I loved being lean and fit and athletic, and I'm not getting any younger (thoroughly middle-aged), so I feel like the window of opportunity for getting myself in a sustained state of good health without drastic measures being required is closing!

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Mide7 · 16/08/2015 20:04

Buffy I said I love talking about it, not that I know anything about it Grin

MsDragons · 16/08/2015 19:58

I'm in. I've been trying to lose the same 3 stone for about 15 years now Blush. I was doing SW for a few months, and lost 1.5st, but I lost motivation when things got busy at work (writing reports at end of school year) so I've been eating too much crap for a couple of months now. I'm starting back at SW on Saturday, and will be going back to swimming/exercise classes soon (this week hopefully but its difficult when we're in holiday mode because we don't have much routine)

scallopsrgreat · 16/08/2015 19:56

Yep signing on. Since having children I've put on weight. Until my mid thirties I was very fit and healthy weight. Now not so much!

I need to get motivated to get off my arse and do some running. Did C25k last year, successfully and really enjoyed it and then seemed to have cold after cold, after cold for about 5 months so it fell by the wayside. I did find I started losing weight once I got up to about 20 min runs.

I also need to lose the puddings!

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 16/08/2015 19:54

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Mide7 · 16/08/2015 19:40

Sounds like a great idea for a thread.

Sera- have you done any races? Or plan to do any? I'm the type of person to be more motivated if I have a goal so maybe that would help you? Karate sounds good to, I was discussing today about getting my daughter involved in a martial art when she is older. I think it provides a lot of useful lessons and also I'd like to think proves to her her body is more than just an object for men. If that makes any sense?

Herring- what's your sport if you don't mind me asking?

I'm a massive sport and nutrition geek. Love talking about it Blush

YonicScrewdriver · 16/08/2015 19:36

Signing in, back later...

TheHerringGirl · 16/08/2015 19:23

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