i thought of you guys last night, and i come here slightly.. ashamed I'm not sure if that's the right word but i have dismissed you lot before and thought i would never seek consolidation here but here I am because last night i spent a long time crying and desperately hurt and upset and one of the only things that made me feel better was that maybe you guys would be this upset as well.
I have two dc, 5yrs and 6 weeks old, my dp works full time we're not on benefits but i am at home being a full time mum atm, currently with both as it's half term.
Yesterday i was checking my fb quickly when i saw my DP had shared a post, it was in meme style (that old pic of willy wonka guy) it said something along the lines of "So you consider yourself a full time yummymummy? more like a spunkbucket on the dole you ugly cunt." which of course had thousands of comments with people finding it hilarious. It hit me like a kick in the stomach.
DP insisted he didn't mean to share it and although he initially did find it funny when he saw i was upset he removed it and posted an apology and apologised but I admit this really hit me hard i know it's because of my own issues as well with self esteem and self worth atm but i found this so disgusting that people (men and women) could describe a mum like this and laugh about it.. it really hurts 