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Feminist chat about tv shows

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LagerthaEarlIngstad · 19/04/2015 15:55

Sort of following on from the GOT thread which I read and agreed with a lot of but didn't comment on I wondered if it might be interesting to have a more general chat about tv shows?

I struggle to enjoy tv sometimes because I get so frustrated with the sexism and misogyny that's often lurking, I have to almost switch that bit of my head off like a kind of suspension of feminism along with the suspension of disbelief?!

I'm watching The Vikings at the moment which has lots of good female characters (my new username is my favourite one - lagertha is a Viking shield maiden, a female warrior, I used to be sandorclegane)
I enjoyed the Fall but I also felt it made the serial killer character intentionally 'sexy' and dwelt in a fetishistic way in the dead women and on women suffering.
I liked Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt but again male violence against women is used as a comedy plot in a way I'm not entirely comfortable with (why yes, I am a humourless feminist)
I suppose I wondered what other people were enjoying or not enjoying and if other people struggle with the same frustrating conflicted feelings?

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WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 19/04/2015 21:09

i have noticed lately that the sort of US shows I like do seem to have more and more women written as people and not all having to be super young. Still need to be immaculately groomed and slender obv but the men look like they need to make a pretty extreme effort too. Now if only they could stop making every storyline "attractive young women get raped and murdered and let's watch that closely shall we" then I'd be pretty content Grin

WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 19/04/2015 21:06

Yes, I mainly watch the competition ones eg masterchef uk and other countries, come dine with me, my kitchen rules which dnt' aggravate too much.

"How to" shows I don't really watch and people like that west country sexist man I have to switch him off!! Hairy bikers are good I was saying to DH they manage to do the "blokey" thing without being sexist dickwads, I really like them actually.

That baking one is good too actually. DH likes baking and sue perkins is always good value.

On the US glossy whodunnit, Bones is pretty good, although I haven't been keeping up with it I used to watch it regularly. Did catch it the other day and some of the main women seem to have shrunk rather alarmingly but aside from that, the women in it are main character and 2 main supports, all "proper" characters written as people not as women if that makes any sense at all.

LagerthaEarlIngstad · 19/04/2015 20:49

Cooking shows are interesting though aren't they - male cooks are often chefs cooking fancy high status stuff, women are often doing 'family food'. Most cooks/chefs on TV are male whilst most everyday cooking is still seen as women's work... Plus there's a whole genre of cooking shows where lingering shots on the female cooks face is part of the programme.

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tribpot · 19/04/2015 20:35

Agent Carter sounds like a similar premise to The Bletchley Circle, that always makes me gnash my teeth when these brilliant code-breakers are basically told to stop trying to solve crimes and concentrate on curling their hair and making tea.

The Blacklist is good, not many female characters, although the main character is. There is a bit of focus on her romantic relationships but this is more about massive plot points than just a 'ooh I wonder who she'll marry' kind of thing.

WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 19/04/2015 20:17

Oh shit how many of my brownies stype feminist badges do I have to hand in for just referring to myself as "girl"? Grin

WhirlpoolGalaxyM51 · 19/04/2015 20:17

YY you have to just switch your brain off a bit and try to ignore it.

My problem is that I seem to really like US glossy crime detection type stuff BUT they are horrendous for the whole women are prey / lascivious treatment of scantily clad young female corpses / sexual violence which seems intended to titillate. One of my faves is called "women being horribly murdered" in this house but it is entertaining so, well.

I haven't tried GOT as I think I'd want to throw something if the levels of gratuitous female nudity talked about on here are anything to go by. Gratuitous nudity which is even handed I could probably get more on board with (Vikings?) but then 2 wrongs don't make a right etc but then at least it's sexist IYSWIM. + I'm more of a sci fi than a fantasy girl so not that interested anyway.

I watch a lot of cooking progs at the moment they are pretty harmless on the sexism front so that's good!

LagerthaEarlIngstad · 19/04/2015 16:24

Vikings has a lot of violent chopping of people but there are a number of women who also fight and do the chopping... The female characters are reasonably complex and written like people rather than props. It's definitely worth a look.

I suppose with Kimmy I just felt a bit uneasy about what the premise is? I enjoyed it hugely, but it's that sense that sometimes I feel I can only enjoy stuff if I don't think too hard about it?!

Mad Men has never appealed.

Marvel's Agent Carter is pretty watchable but has never been on in the UK I don't think? It's about Agent Peggy Carter who has been in the field being heroic but now the war is over is being treated horrendously by her male colleagues who just expect her to fetch their sandwiches and stuff. It's about her coping with sexism in 1940s America basically (so you get all the period detail like with mad men) but she is a tough, bright secret agent type.

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tribpot · 19/04/2015 16:07

I loved Unbreakable Kimmy Schmidt. I'm not sure I saw the violence angle in the same way as you, although I felt the gay character was a bit stereotyped.

I'm enjoying Fringe at the moment - although it could possibly have done with more female characters (everyone has to play at least four versions of themselves, but outside the main four - two men, two women - a lot of the supporting characters are male). I also like Nashville, although too much emphasis on the love life of the main (female) character - she's running her own record label but a lot of air time is given over to who she might marry? Per-lease. But in general a lot of great characters, male and female.

I'll have to check Vikings out, I assume it was all testosterone and chopping people up with axes (er, like the real Vikings :) )

I have to say, I haven't watched Mad Men because I assumed it was basically a way of dressing up sexism to make it seem quaint (funny how we don't do this with racism? Not that we should, I hasten to add).