@ Anniegetyourgun
" 'Domestic violence – women are as physically aggressive towards opposite-sex intimate partners as men, or more aggressive' - wtf? "
Surprisingly to many, that is actually true, in mainly English-speaking countries with a high standard of living, in the present day. Mike Buchanan is certain to have cited a multitude of respectable sources - academic studies and government crime statistics, for example - to back it up. I've see such data myself, but I'd prefer you to challenge Mike rather than me for HIS authority for that claim of HIS. I'm a Parliamentary candidate elsewhere, with a different manifesto from Mike's.
The interesting question is why people on a website like Mumsnet, whom I expect to be well-educated and resourceful people, even though the name of the site is a bit gendered, off-putting to dads, even though I have found it useful in the past, as a dad ... The interesting question is why even smart, educated people on a website like Mumsnet, find it surprising to be informed that women are as physically aggressive towards opposite-sex intimate partners as men, or more aggressive. So surprising that they cannot bring themselves to believe the simple, easily-proven truth about intimate partner violence not being particularly gendered, as they had been taught, or had assumed. The huge gap between what science has proved (Mike's claim), and what people have been conditioned to believe (in ignorance), is stark.
This gaping gap between truth (intimate partner violence isn't gender-skewed after all) and popular perception (oh yes it is! WTF?) has not occurred entirely spontaneously. This gap has causes.
Research those causes, and you will begin to understand why Mike Buchanan, and Erin Pizzey, the founder of the first refuge for victims of intimate partner violence in the UK (if not in the world), shared a platform last year, at a conference about protecting the human rights that are most often infringed when the victims are men and boys, rather than women and girls.
Victims of injustice to men and boys can be female, as well as male. Ask any grandmother who never sees her granddaughter, because her son's ex-partner has succeeded in parental alienation. Ask .