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Am furious with NUS Women's Campaign

190 replies

ArcheryAnnie · 25/03/2015 11:32

...for their "Some delegates are requesting that we move to jazz hands rather than clapping, as it's triggering anxiety. Please be mindful!" tweet.

Safe spaces are important. Making accommodation for students with different needs is important. Performative bullshit like this is not important.

I understand accessibility. I have accessibility needs myself. This is not offering accessibility (even if you discount the needs of visually-impaired students), it's reinforcing that political activity should never, ever make you feel uncomfortable. Which is bullshit.

I just saw in Another Forum (not that one) someone positing the idea of a series of interviews with historical figures like the Pankhursts, Phoolan Devi and Mary Seacole, asking them about their safe spaces and their self-care practices and I thought: yes, exactly.

Do we want to change the world, or just do we want to make ourselves feel better?

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BitOfFun · 25/03/2015 12:07

It's a social norm, and a perfectly ordinary response to political speeches etc. I can't believe that anyone is defending this daft suggestion.

MorrisZapp · 25/03/2015 12:05

Blimey. Can you give examples?

JeanneDeMontbaston · 25/03/2015 12:05

YY, BoF.

I would be interested to know whether the NUS actually got a complaint from autistic students, or from someone claiming to speak for them. That might sound very cynical.

Hakluyt · 25/03/2015 12:04

If there are people there who would not be able to stay in the room if people applaud, what's the problem with asking people not to? Sounds like a perfectly reasonable adjustment to me. Is applauding a basic human right?

Pantone363 · 25/03/2015 11:59

I'm a mature student at a uni and I can assure you that pretty much everything is triggering to someone.

It's exhausting. We have banned certain food/music/newspapers/activities/words/events.

BitOfFun · 25/03/2015 11:59

I can understand that some students with sensory processing issues might find a room of people clapping overwhelming, but as per the Disability Act, the response to this should be "reasonable adjustment", ie the provision of ear defenders, or an opportunity to participate in political meetings via weblink etc. It is ridiculously overboard and restrictive to ban applause.

Where is the common sense?

MorrisZapp · 25/03/2015 11:56

It sounds like satire doesn't it. A gift to tabloid headline writers.

shitebag · 25/03/2015 11:55

Am I being thick and not getting this at all or are you saying that people are now complaining about clapping and seriously suggesting jazz-hands as a suitable replacement? Confused

If nothing else it would make all these political debates more amusing :o

MephistophelesApprentice · 25/03/2015 11:55

Is it possible that it's a satirical joke?

JeanneDeMontbaston · 25/03/2015 11:54

I think they have widened the meaning 'triggering' (which properly refers to PTSD) to the point where it's useless. I've seen several people explain that some autistic people don't do well with the noise of clapping. That's true, I know, but it isn't what being triggered is (and, obviously, it gets you into a hierarchy-of-need situation where you might be avoiding problems for some autistic students, but you're going to cause problems for others, and also for people with sight problems).

What really bothers me here is that they've moved from using 'trigger' in a context where the focus is on helping a vulnerable person to be included as much as possible, to using it as a means to exclude people and police behaviour.

almondcakes · 25/03/2015 11:51

And I don't understand why people shouldn't be allowed to cross dress.

MorrisZapp · 25/03/2015 11:49

Clapping is triggering? Wtf? To whom?

almondcakes · 25/03/2015 11:44

I don't understand why clapping is more triggering than jazz hands.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 25/03/2015 11:43

I'm worried too. I've just seen a suggestion that cross-dressing should be banned unless you identify as trans. Now, while I do think cross-dressing can be an unpleasant, misogynistic display and I'm uncomfortable with that aspect of it, I can't understand this. Does it mean if you're a butch lesbian, you're meant to start wearing skirts? Does it mean if you're a 19 year old lad who is thinking, hmm, maybe I am trans, you can't explore that without outing yourself? It just seems absurd.

I feel bad commenting on twitter, because they are students and they should have time and space to, basically, be a bit daft and maybe get things wrong. But I am really worried by the general direction of a lot of this.

The safe space thing is very strange. Where is the outrage that women are triggered in the first place? Or the plans to do something to change that?

This is (as ever) good on the subject: elegantgatheringofwhitesnows.com/

rivetingrosie · 25/03/2015 11:41

agreed