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Does cognitive dissonance perpetuate misogyny, or just reflect it?

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JeanneDeMontbaston · 26/02/2015 08:45

Hi all.

I am aware the title is feminist jargon. By 'cognitive dissonance', I mean, that state where you subconsciously hold two incompatible views. Eg., you know perfectly well that, statistically, most rapes do not happen in dark alleyways, and yet, you feel more frightened there than with your random male friend.

As I understand it, holding a position of cognitive dissonance is tiring and stressful. I wondered if it actually makes us transfer blame onto women, so that we don't just hold these contradictory positions about gender, we actually absorb the idea they're somehow women's fault?

I am thinking this because I remember going through that stage (which I think a lot of women mention) of feeling, first, angry about feminism and angry that women were 'rocking the boat' by challenging all my dearly-held cognitive dissonances.

Now, it could be that cognitive dissonance is just a reaction to living in a misogynistic society. Or, it could be that there's something in cognitive dissonance itself, that pushes us to shift the blame onto the subject of the dissonance (ie., women/gender roles). What do you think?

NB - as you might tell from my tortured syntax, this is a research question I am working on. Please be gentle!

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BuffytheThunderLizard · 27/02/2015 20:03

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almondcakes · 27/02/2015 19:56

I'm sure that there are plenty of analyses of male violence in that sense, and certainly a lot of people argue that whole economic system ultimately relies on violence and the threat of violence to stay in place.

But yop mentioned examples like what if all the violent men lived in Norfolk. I think then unless there is something very specific about Norfolk, it is not the same thing. Men under capitalism (and various forms of proto capitalism) occupy a particular position which uses violence to enforce unfair relations with the reproductive class so that they are denied resources.

If we instead just view men as a group who happen to be violent because of some kind of historical set of stereotypes that we will gradually legislate and educate ourselves out of, we ignore the purpose that male violence serves.

That is kind of the basic difference between liberal and radical approaches, maybe. I am very tired!

Bellimperia · 27/02/2015 19:47

A huge amount of our literature and culture seems to me to be designed to prompt men (and women) to think using cognitive dissonance. It prompts us into these thought patterns.

Could you maybe give a couple of examples of this? I'm struggling to understand what you mean.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 19:44

People generally do talk about the economy of violence, don't they? I'm not sure it must be capitalist, but you can use Marx to read backwards into history, so I'm not sure why that would be a problem.

buffy - because your last phrase echoes the assonance pattern of the song?

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almondcakes · 27/02/2015 19:41

Yes Buffy, but in disciplines like sociology class analysis means that thing that Marxists do. I think it might get confusing if we call any analysis of anything that can be classified a class analysis.

I assume when people on this board say they are talking about a women as a class, they mean it in some sense related to the Marxist sense. They're not just saying it would be interesting to group us all together for completely non political reasons, like seeing if we prefer cheddar to cheshire cheese, or lipstick to lipgloss.

BuffytheThunderLizard · 27/02/2015 19:37

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almondcakes · 27/02/2015 19:36

Well, I think there is finding a correlation ... men who eat satsumas are more angry and explaining the cause.. satsumas reduce serotonin levels (I made that up, obviously).

For it to be class analysis, your cause would have to be explained in terms of economics and conflict between groups. Who benefits from these particular men being violent? Who suffers as a consequence? How does it promote capitalism?

So we might speculate that straight men are more violent than gay men, and there have been analyses written as to why this in, and how heterosexuality is useful for capitalism and so on, so that gay men occupy a specific class position.

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JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 19:28

Ah, I see. So, you mean, if we happened to find that the subset of men who do the most violence weren't a distinct economic group, at that point it'd have stopped being class analysis? I think that's fair.

But yes, whatever it is, that thing. Grin

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almondcakes · 27/02/2015 19:26

I don't know what the name for that is, but it is a definitely a common form of analysis that we all agree is useful, and must have a common name.

I think class analysis refers to a specific idea from Marxism. It is the analysis of how groups are in conflict with each other because of their position within the economic system. So women are the reproductive class - they are expected to do essential reproductive work which is required for society to continue but has no economic value. This puts women as a class into conflict with other groups.

I think if you remove the particular economic and conflict elements of it, it is no longer a class analysis.

BuffytheThunderLizard · 27/02/2015 19:23

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JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 19:18

Ah, ok. What's the other name?

I just understand class analysis, very simply, to be the process whereby you look at groups and figure out what patterns members of the same groups share. It doesn't matter if you're applying it to a big group, or to a subgroup within that group.

But I am sure there are more complicated, and probably more accurate, ways to look at it.

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almondcakes · 27/02/2015 19:16

I'm actually not sure that any of it is class analysis! I think it might have another name that people who don't believe in class analysis call it. But whatever it is, I think we all agree it is necessary.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 19:11

Yes, I think that makes total sense to do, almond. But that's class analysis too, surely?

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WhatWouldFreddieDo · 27/02/2015 19:11

Dur, its only taken me 2 pages to get there Grin

almondcakes · 27/02/2015 19:10

Can I try and clarify the class analysis point?

Is what Yop saying that if we agree that violence is exhibited far more frequently by men, then men as a class are violent.

BUT... yop is also saying we would also want to know if violence was more prevalent in particular types of men, or men that had been taught particular things, or men who had been exposed to certain situations. Because we would then be able to change the environment so less men become violent, leading to a drop in violence in the group.

So we might critique masculinity but in general, but also say some kinds are particularly dangerous. A bit like saying smoking is not good for you, but there are particular kinds of smoking that is worse.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 18:59

Grin Yes, exactly!

And it's flippant, but sort of not, because I am thinking about popular fiction, and so on.

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WhatWouldFreddieDo · 27/02/2015 18:56

Sorry, should have a ?Smile

WhatWouldFreddieDo · 27/02/2015 18:55

'. Is it, then, possible to get rid of (some of) your cognitive dissonance, as a man, and to accept that women are basically human and so on, and still to struggle with that literature because it is prompting this cycle of stressful thought?'

So enlightened men who are allies might 'fall off the wagon ' as it were by watching Total Recall (flippant)

JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 18:40

Oh, good.

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Bonsoir · 27/02/2015 18:37

I have understood your OP as written perfectly, Jeanne!

JeanneDeMontbaston · 27/02/2015 18:27

I don't think you understood me, bonsoir. I'm commenting on the fact people feel afraid of something - I'm not talking about how often they do it.

Even if I, personally, never walked through a dark alley in my life, I could still experience a disproportionate fear of doing so, because I hold cognitive dissonance about it. Do you see? It's not about the actual likelihood of something happening. It's about how you feel.

It's quite likely for me to be raped by a partner or person I know - but I just don't worry about it. It'd make me paranoid and terrified, so our brains just don't really work that way.

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Yops · 27/02/2015 18:24

Fair point. It's a useful tool, but a blunt one.

Bonsoir · 27/02/2015 18:24

Jeanne - if the amount of time spent by British women alone in dark alleyways was exactly equal to the amount of time spent by British women alone with their male friends, you would be correct.

But since British women spend much much less time alone in dark alleyways than alone with their male friends, the fact that fewer rapes occur in dark alleyways is not at all surprising. However, we can say nothing at all from this information about the probability of a rape occurring when alone in a dark alleyway versus alone with a male friend.