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YA author's anti-lesbian,anti-women comments

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SuperLoudPoppingAction · 18/02/2015 10:43

www.theguardian.com/books/2015/feb/17/robert-muchamore-apology-lesbian-comments-fifty-shades

Robert Muchamore says protesters against 50 shades of grey were 'ugly women with short hair who I assume were lesbians, and surely hadn’t had a penis anywhere near them in some considerable time' .
If he didn't agree with the protest, he should have explained why and not objectified women and demeaned lesbians.

twitter.com/WomanistNerd/status/566977186910179328

This is a tweet with the screencap of what was actually said.

He has form for being an attention-seeking caricature of blokey awfulness, so I was reluctant to give him more attention.

www.theguardian.com/childrens-books-site/2011/oct/26/robert-muchamore-banned

That's him having a huff that a school for 7-year-olds and up didn't buy his books for their library.

The only reason I'm raising this publicly, and giving it more oxygen, is that one of the protesters was a 14-year-old girl, who now has to read that she looks as though she hasn't had enough penises near her for her to appear patriarchally-compliant.

This is so many kinds of wrong I don't know where to start.

But mainly, this guy's readership is mainly the boys who will already feel like those comments are maybe ok to make in school.
So it enables them to feel ok about commenting, and maybe about sexually assaulting their classmates, since, after all, normal girls must want to have penises near them so they don't get slated on facebook for looking like lesbians.

I'm sorry if I can't be more articulate. I'm trying to make points clearly but I'm really quite angry. My daughter is the same age and I'd hate for her to experience this kind of harassment. I'd also hate for boys and girls in her class to feel they can make those sorts of comments about her lesbian mother to her.

The other sad thing is that nobody called him a rapist. They were pointing at a poster with an image of Mr Grey and singing 'that is what a rapist looks like'. It's a perfectly valid political point.

You can see the camera pan to the poster about 30 seconds into this video.

I've checked and the girl I mentioned isn't in the video, or else I wouldn't share it, I don't think.

I'm mainly sharing this in case anyone hears of this guy coming to a school near you - I really wouldn't want him making those sorts of comments near children and he doesn't seem to have a very good filter, judging from his twitter account.

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DoctorDonnaNoble · 22/02/2015 14:06

He has apologised. Repeatedly. He was confronted with what he had done on his Facebook feed and has tried to make amends for what he did.
Yes, the lead male character in the Cherub books is a bit of a twat. But he is forced to confront his homophobia and is regularly given what for by the girls he treats shabbily and many of the characters point out to him that this is what he is doing.
I follow him on Facebook and would say that this is an incident that has already been dealt with.

PilchardPrincess · 22/02/2015 14:05

Basically the moment some women behave like men do all the time, but still in a much less threatening way, they need to be kicked as hard as possible.

Pathetic that the kicking of choice is to say you're ugly and you're a dyke and you need more cock to sort you out, I mean it's not exactly original is it.

PilchardPrincess · 22/02/2015 14:03

Well his response wasn't to feel a bit vulnerable and get away was it. It was to go out in the media and call them a bunch of ugly dykes who needed a good seeing to / corrective rape.

So his reaction was to be incredibly angry and to lash out with misogynist homophobic language.

When women get groups of men shouting stuff at them their response is to get away because they are scared.

You can't see the relevance of that at all?

But you don't really care about what happens to women and girls do you so not sure why I'm bothering.

You are misrepresenting what happened, and defending a man who came out with a load of misogynistic, homophobic vitriol, with overtones of corrective rape, aimed at a group of people that included a child. So, you know, whatever.

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 13:59

MoominKoalaAndMiniMoom

"Because, of course, it's not an everyday occurrence for a woman to be called a slag.

Oh wait, it is."

Are you talking to yourself because what you've just typed clearly refers to my post but doesn't actually relate to anything in it?

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 13:54

PilchardPrincess

"Incidentally I have had groups of men shout things like "slag" at me, as have many women.

My response to them was to, um feel a bit vulnerable and get away.

So not sure what that shows really."

Apart from bad reading comprehension, nothing. Because your anecdote has sweet FA to do with the comparative scenario I was describing.

MoominKoalaAndMiniMoom · 22/02/2015 13:51

Because, of course, it's not an everyday occurrence for a woman to be called a slag.

Oh wait, it is.

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 13:51

Dotheyfloat
"His remarks were undoubtedly tasteless..."

PilchardPrincess
"So you think that saying a 14yo girl needs to be raped by lots of men is an appropriate response to anything.

Righto."

  1. WTF? I have no idea what perverted thought process lead you to that conclusion.

  2. RM isn't quoted as saying anything remotely like that.

Pilchard. The name suits you.

PilchardPrincess · 22/02/2015 13:45

Incidentally I have had groups of men shout things like "slag" at me, as have many women.

My response to them was to, um feel a bit vulnerable and get away.

So not sure what that shows really.

DoctorDonnaNoble · 22/02/2015 13:45

This happened days ago. He has already apologised and made donations to charity.
He was understandably angry and being called a rapist for going to see a film.
I was more disappointed that he'd been to see the film quite frankly.

PilchardPrincess · 22/02/2015 13:44

Just read a bit more.

Why are you drawing a parallel between women who enjoy consensual sex, and rapists?

This all seems rather confused.

PilchardPrincess · 22/02/2015 13:42

As per your first post on the thread.

In case you forgot that you juxtapositioned those two points, and then said if people can't "take shit" they shouldn't dish it out.

PilchardPrincess · 22/02/2015 13:39

So you think that saying a 14yo girl needs to be raped by lots of men is an appropriate response to anything.

Righto.

Hakluyt · 22/02/2015 13:23

Actually, the fact that a man in a suit can be a rapist will come as a surprise to a lot of people- the usual image is a man lurking in a back alley in jogging bottoms and a balaclava.................

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 13:21

TheGirlFromIpanema
"1) Pointing to a picture of a rapist, sorry character and saying this is what a rapist looks like is not a sweeping statement though is it? They are pointing out one man/rapist. Hardly sweeping."

If a group of men recorded themselves chanting 'that is what a slag looks like' at an image of Anastasia Steele would feminists construe that as an attack on the character or women in general? And if that group were then accused by a single female of saying she was 'asking for it' as she walked into the cinema, would you regard that accusation as plausible based on the video evidence the men had taken of themselves, displaying an attitude towards an image of a female character that was highly derogatory?

TheGirlFromIpanema
"2) So you are inclined to believe the video is doctored?"

I've neither said nor implied that.

" That the one person who makes various shitty comments allover the place is less likely to be lying than the group of protestors?

Weird."

You're conflating having obnoxious opinions with lying. The two are unrelated.

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 13:11

TheGirlFromIpanema
"Do you have a 60 second video showing what he is saying they said though?

Otherwise the other side win on the basis of evidence presented, surely?"

As I've said the evidence suggests they are prepared make sweeping statements about men and rape. "That's what a rapist looks like"... what a steaming pile of nonsense. You can't ask a tailor for 'rapist pinstripe' and expect to get a smile and a nod as he walks over to the appropriate roll of fabric. But it implies any man wearing a suit 'looks like a rapist', an appearance which happens to be ubiquitous amongst the male population. So to state that 'all men are rapists' is a relatively small step away from what they have already recorded themselves as saying.

That works against them, not for them.

neme · 22/02/2015 13:00

I've talked to DS about RM's books and the way he writes female characters (i.e. not very well at all). I'll be passing this latest info to him as well as a bit of background.

TheGirlFromIpanema · 22/02/2015 13:00
  1. Pointing to a picture of a rapist, sorry character and saying this is what a rapist looks like is not a sweeping statement though is it? They are pointing out one man/rapist. Hardly sweeping.

  2. So you are inclined to believe the video is doctored? That the one person who makes various shitty comments allover the place is less likely to be lying than the group of protestors?

Weird.

Takver · 22/02/2015 12:59

I'd also agree there's absolutely no need for a sexist persona in order to sell YA books. On the whole I'd say bestselling YA fiction is far less sexist / homophobic than the real world . . .

TheGirlFromIpanema · 22/02/2015 12:55

Do you have a 60 second video showing what he is saying they said though?

Otherwise the other side win on the basis of evidence presented, surely?

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 12:54

TheGirlFromIpanema
"Why though dotheyfloat? Genuine question.

If you are unsure as to which side the facts fall, why would you take his stance over their's?"

" ... they were happy to point at a picture of some bloke in a suit and chant "that's what a rapist looks like", not 'Christian Grey is a rapist'; I'm inclined to give RM the benefit of the doubt.."

  1. They have already established a willingness to make a sweeping statement re: men and rape. It is not unreasonable to imagine they made another, albeit more direct, sweeping statement.

  2. "I'm inclined to believe..." =/= I'm certain everyone else is lying. However much it may suit someone's victim complex to believe otherwise.

Takver · 22/02/2015 12:53

"I'm inclined to give RM the benefit of the doubt."

I'm struggling to see how the line "ugly women with short hair who I assume were lesbians" has any relationship to anything.

I'd be quite happy to listen to an argument about why this protest was inappropriate. But ad hominem attacks like saying 'these protesters are ugly'? Not so much.

Dotheyfloat · 22/02/2015 12:47

"Don't believe the women. Women all lie, innit."

Oh, look, a victim card. How unexpected.

The 60 second video proves what they were saying, for 60 those seconds. There is no indication RM was there at that particular point in time. If you think my reasoning is unsound then please, explain why.

Hakluyt · 22/02/2015 12:45

He is obviously an attention seeking mysogynist homophobic git with a massive sense of entitlement. But the "slaughter a whining lefty spree" line did make me laugh. Speaking as a whining lefty.

TheGirlFromIpanema · 22/02/2015 12:41

Why though dotheyfloat? Genuine question.

If you are unsure as to which side the facts fall, why would you take his stance over their's?

PuffinsAreFictitious · 22/02/2015 12:37

Of course you are. That much is crystal clear.

Don't believe the women. Women all lie, innit.

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