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i need a break from this feminism stuff

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whatdoesittake48 · 30/10/2014 11:42

I need to step away from the computer, switch off the news and stop expressing my frustrations to people who do not and will never get it. I need a break from my feminism. I am just so sad about it all. I know it is temporary and i will be back but i can't focus on this stuff any more for now. Anyone else reaching saturation point?

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MoreCrackThanHarlem · 30/10/2014 20:43

I like Jill because it was so refreshing to find a female character so authoritative and effective in her role. She is fair, straight talking yet never aggressive, and avoided the 'harridan' stereotype. Just fantastic at her job completely seperate from any gender stereotype scaffolding.
I luff her.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 30/10/2014 20:43

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HappyHalloweenMotherFucker · 30/10/2014 20:42

Buffy, do you know what ?

You soothe me, without ever minimising the frustration and anger.

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YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 30/10/2014 20:42

Amelia Bullmore's brilliant, I think she's written a couple of this season's S&B. It's a really good show, highly worth going back to. Tell you what's also brilliant, though, Cagney & Lacey. Watched an episode on BBC2 recently and couldn't believe how brilliantly it has aged. So far ahead of its time, it must have seemed like it was being beamed from outer space.

BOFster · 30/10/2014 20:42

Gah, it's just finished Angry. Maybe she'll tour with it?

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 30/10/2014 20:41

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JeanneDeMontbaston · 30/10/2014 20:40

Ooh ... I need to see that, BOF.

HappyHalloweenMotherFucker · 30/10/2014 20:39

Maxine Peake, another proppa northern lass

Fabulous

JeanneDeMontbaston · 30/10/2014 20:39

YY to support.

Btw, buffy, I know this is a derail, but nice to be on a thread with you again! It hasn't been that long but feels like ages (I've got snowed under in RL).

BOFster · 30/10/2014 20:39

I haven't watched Scott And Bailey, but it sounds interesting. I saw Amelia Bullmore in the trailers- she wrote a wonderful radio drama that aired on Women's Hour about a month ago. Maxine Peake played the lead detective in it, bringing a family annihilator to justice. It had a very strong feminist theme- excellent radio.

Maxine Peake is about to play Hamlet as well, I believe, which is rather wonderful.

JeanneDeMontbaston · 30/10/2014 20:38

I actually feel refreshed by being here and feeling one of many for a common goal. I love this board. I don't often post but even lurking makes me feel I'm not alone, when in IRL I feel like a bloody radical.

I feel like this too.

BuffytheReasonableFeminist · 30/10/2014 20:38

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HappyHalloweenMotherFucker · 30/10/2014 20:38

Jill is great

A proppa Northern lass

OliviaBlue · 30/10/2014 20:38

Yeah, I'm bored, why the hell else would I be on here?

Wolowitz, get over yourself - when was i rude to you?

You're overly sensitive.

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YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 30/10/2014 20:36

Also, I'm gutted that Jill's going. I know it was an ensemble thing but she was the best character in it imho.

MoreCrackThanHarlem · 30/10/2014 20:36

Sorry, Buffy. I won't engage anymore but I actually feel refreshed by being here and feeling one of many for a common goal.
I love this board. I don't often post but even lurking makes me feel I'm not alone, when in IRL I feel like a bloody radical.

NoMarymary · 30/10/2014 20:36

What's FWR?

Female working revival? Feminists workers rally? Far wright ring?

Yes I know I am dumb. but incredibly curious

MrsWolowitz · 30/10/2014 20:35

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OliviaBlue · 30/10/2014 20:35

But that's exactly my point BuggersMuddle!

Women should do anything they want - I'm just arguing that they can't always beat men because of physicality.

And for all you people out there who take everything SO SERIOUSLY, no I don't have a French maid and I do cook. But I do also have staff who clean and occasionally cook.

Jeez. You're all so serious and boring.

leatherlover · 30/10/2014 20:35

OP sometimes it's incredibly depressing to think that in this age where women have amazing careers, are still the main carers of children and family member (often whilst juggling a paid job too) that we are still thought of as less important than our male counterparts. We shouldn't be and we are not. You are not alone in thinking that we deserve to be treated as equals and that the 'manipulation of men' is not the point. Rest, re-evaluate then come back stronger!

JeanneDeMontbaston · 30/10/2014 20:35

I know what you mean, whatdoes.

I feel like that, then I come back. I think it's good for us. It is tiring. And triggering. Even if you're incredibly lucky and don't suffer, unless you are very naive, you notice things in the news such as FGM, or the numbers of women murdered by their partners, or rape stats, and it is frightening and depressing.

But I think we all tag-team each other, right? There's always someone out there with energy when we need a break.

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YetAnotherHelenMumsnet · 30/10/2014 20:34

AHEM AHEM

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